Does the so-called affair really exist during the trip?

Many years ago, there was a difficult period of emotional confusion, and I parted ways with my girlfriend who talked for four years.

I have always been confident in my emotional experience. However, her departure made me depressed for a time.

I was confused. For a long time, I complained in my heart that my ex-girlfriend was too poor and loved rich people.

Then I figured it out, too. I lost to myself. Looking back on my past experience, I gave her too many empty promises.

She is a very simple girl, and she is full of expectations for me and my career. She sacrificed a lot for me, and the relationship with her relatives also appeared a series of unhappiness because of my appearance.

She blocked her great youth, but I failed to give her a satisfactory result.

I remember that on the eve of 1 1, she told me that she had a blind date. The other party is her sister's high school classmate, working in the system, which makes me forget her.

It is not difficult to forget someone, but the hard part is the first day.

Without the will to work and live, I live in a daze all day.

It's going to be a long vacation soon. My parents urged me to go back. Cousin 1 1 got married, and my parents asked me to bring my ex-girlfriend back. She has been to my house many times before.

I lied about going on a business trip and couldn't think of a better reason.

Since it is a business trip, of course, you can't stay in the city where you work. I began to plan how to use this little holiday.

Once, I promised my ex-girlfriend that I would take her to Yunnan when I was free. Yunnan is also a place she never forgets.

During our four years together, I took her to many places.

This is the only time I stand up.

I decided to make it up to her myself.

Just leave. I left a week before the eleventh. Try to make my parents feel that I am on a real business trip.

My first stop is Lijiang.

Before we leave. I met a group of donkey friends in the forum. I am a fake donkey friend.

I was the last to arrive. There are as many as eighteen people waiting for me to eat.

We went to a popular local restaurant for dinner.

The atmosphere of the whole dinner was very good, and everyone was not surprised at all, just like a wave of old friends chatting and eating.

The little girl next to me is from Zhongshan City, Guangdong Province. She is relatively silent, and the companion sitting next to her is very casual.

The little girl is next to me. When I speak, she holds her chin up and looks at me.

Dinner, someone is going to the bar. Someone is going to visit the old street. My luggage is still here, so I have to check in there first. The little girl in Zhongshan said that she didn't want to go shopping or go to a bar. She went back with me. We booked the same farmhouse inn.

Because the distance is not far, I will accompany her back.

I felt particularly embarrassed that she was silent all the way. When crossing the narrow alley, she stepped forward and took my hand. I can feel her nervousness and fear.

I checked in, made my bed, and then went to the yard to get some fresh air. She has changed her pajamas and sat on the swing in the yard counting the stars.

When she saw me coming out, she called over.

The swing for two is not big, so I sat on it. She had to cling to my body.

She asked me if I was lovelorn.

I acquiesced.

She then said to herself, why do people grow up? I don't think it's fun to grow up now.

She began to tell her story, and I heard the general idea. Her father cheated on her because he was a girl and wanted a son.

Now, she hates her father very much and thinks that her previous love for her is false.

She held my arm, nose and tears flowed on my clothes.

I sat with her in the yard until three o'clock in the morning, and her partner brought a man back. It is not convenient for her to go in.

She said she was sleepy and fell asleep on my arm. The innkeeper handed us two blankets and we all fell asleep.

The next week, she followed me everywhere. Our team climbed mountains, Yulong Snow Mountain, Lashihai, farmhouse music, ancient tea-horse road, visited old streets and ate hot pot.

I like her crisp laughter, which is especially pure. Coupled with the beautiful scenery around me, I once forgot all my troubles.

Lijiang is the first stop in my trip. Next, I want go to dali. She and her companions are going home. We spent the last night in Lijiang.

I'll take her and her companions to the airport first. Then a person packed his bags and prepared for go to dali. At the airport, she asked me for a ticket. With my name on it, she asked me to fill in the birthday number. I left my company address on it by the way.

She also gave me a ticket with her address on it. Tell me again and again not to forget her.

It has been half a year since I received her information again, and I have left my original company.

The doorman informed me to pick up the courier. I asked my former colleagues to get it back for me.

My colleague sent me a photo, and her shadow was suddenly activated in my mind.

She carefully framed several photos she had taken before, each of which was full of happiness.

At this point, her crisp and innocent laughter rang in my ear again.

Does the so-called affair really exist during the trip? Ten years ago, I saw this problem set off a wave in my heart, and I can tell you for sure that it exists! Your question really reminds me of more than ten years of good memories, which makes my mood difficult to calm down for a long time!

That was more than ten years ago. I was a young man in my twenties at that time. I had a love affair during a trip. As the title says, that experience can be said to be unforgettable and regrettable!

I remember that I was 23 years old that year, which was the age to talk about marriage according to the custom of my hometown. But I'm still single after working outside for a long time, and my family urged me to go back to my hometown for a few days. In desperation, I went back to my hometown for a few days. Because of the ideological inadaptability, I had a furtive talk with my family these days. I was very unhappy and depressed for several days! And there was a lot of trouble during that time, and I felt particularly stressed. I want to relax!

Back to work, I took a long vacation and embarked on a personal journey to Qinhuangdao! Who knows, this trip to Qinhuangdao left me the most unforgettable memory in my life, which is a great pity!

This matter should also start from the seaside in Beidaihe. Walking alone on the seashore of Beidaihe with a backpack, apart from depression and trouble, it is more lonely and lonely!

Sitting on the beach and looking at the sea in the distance, I have mixed feelings. At this time, I really hope to have a bosom friend to chat with! At this time, I found a woman with a long hair backpack sitting alone not far away. She was also sad and helpless! At this time, how much I wanted to say hello and talk, but I was so innocent that I hardly had the courage to take steps!

When it was getting dark, almost everyone left, only we were still sitting by the sea. At this moment, the girl came over and greeted me. I don't remember what we talked about. I probably got to know the situation, and finally made an appointment to spend a seven-day trip in Qinhuangdao with * * * *! That is, the current donkey friend!

To tell the truth, I was just like a child at that time, but I think this girl is very beautiful, elegant and charming. Maybe this is the so-called love at first sight! But at that time, I was so timid that I would blush when I talked to girls. At that time, I was worried that this girl would be a liar and want to rob money or something!

That night, we ate the most beautiful seafood at the seaside stall, looked at the starry sky and talked a lot about history, family, work and travel. In short, we talked a lot. In the evening, we stayed in a small hotel by the sea. The most important thing is that we played together and lived together for seven days, and nothing happened. Is that kind of pure donkey friend, or have we become best friends!

Seriously, the seven-day trip to Qinhuangdao was really enjoyable, which completely relaxed my mood. Her company made the trip more meaningful!

There was no WeChat at that time. I remember we added QQ to each other and left our phone numbers. We get up early to climb the mountain every day and go back to our place late at night. I think every day is full and beautiful! The most important thing is that no photos were left at that time, and the pixels of the mobile phone used at that time were not very good. Anyway, I haven't left a photo so far!

At that time, I regarded her more as my best friend or my family. I am so happy. I simply play and joke every day. The most important thing is purity!

To tell the truth, I'm not afraid of jokes. I didn't even hold hands at that time! Although I feel a little sorry today, it is better to stay in my heart!

I still remember the moment when we were about to part on the seventh day. We didn't feel too sad at that time, so we took it for granted. At the railway station, we went in the opposite direction and became strangers from now on!

Looking back today, I always feel that there are many things I haven't done and many words I haven't told her. If I were now, I would definitely tell her. Until now, I still think that kind of girl is the girl I really want and really like! In other words, she became my first love! A first love that nothing happened, but the best first love will never be forgotten!

For more than ten years, she has become a passer-by in my life, with no contact information, only the deepest memory buried in my heart! The only QQ left is often gray, which may have been used for a long time!

There are always some unforgettable memories in the journey, and there are always some deepest memories that will become eternal in our hearts. May all the right people get married!

A trip without an affair is not a perfect trip.

The company organized a group construction, and five buses with more than 200 people went to Dongdao together.

East Island is in the suburbs. Because it is contracted by a tourism development company, although the ticket price is high, the infrastructure and related facilities are also complete.

In particular, there used to be only one shabby little hotel on the island. Now there are not only star-rated hotels, but also entertainment projects such as bars and KTV.

To tell the truth, this trip, I have a goal.

The public relations department has recruited a group of newly graduated college students, all of whom are young and beautiful and inexperienced. One or two tricks, I think it should be easy to get started.

When the bus started, I deliberately pretended to have left something behind and got on the bus of the public relations department without following the bus of our department.

In the car, I squinted and pretended to sleep, and listened carefully to their conversation, so as to distinguish them and identify the right person for me.

Soon I was eyeing Nana.

Nana has just arrived at the company and has not passed the probation period.

Reading between the lines, she still cares about this job.

Whether the public relations staff can pass the probation period is closely related to our business department.

Usually, the evaluation of public relations needs the signature of the head of our business department to pass the customs.

My minister Zhao Lei and I joined the company at the same time. We lived in a dormitory for three years, and we all shared a bag of instant noodles, which was closely related to each other.

Wouldn't it be an opportunity if I helped this girl get the evaluation?

There is a service area between the downtown area and the East Island. We have a short rest for 20 minutes in the service area.

I got off the bus and immediately ran to find Zhao Lei.

Zhao Lei, listen to me, patting your chest to make sure it's okay.

"Dude, be brave!" I gave him a thumbs-up and praised him.

"If you bring her here to see her at night, you won't have to make mistakes." Zhao Lei said.

"Yes, no problem." I said.

"After all, can people believe you?" Zhao Lei asked.

"Look at what you said." I poked him in the waist and said confidently, "My brother didn't blow it for you. Against such an inexperienced young man, I won in minutes! " "

Go back to the car and organize games in the car.

Sister Ma, the host, is a colleague for many years, holding a 50 yuan WeChat red envelope, got the message and arranged Nana and me together.

Two hours of game time, coupled with humorous conversation, Nana and I became good friends.

I got off at Dongdao, took photos, and had an hour of free time before dinner at night.

I sent a message to Nana, saying that I could help her with the evaluation.

Nana was so happy that she said she would come to me as soon as she got dressed.

Half an hour later, Nana in a white dress with suspenders came to the lobby to find me like a light and pretty deer.

I boasted to her about my relationship with Zhao Lei, and Nana believed me.

After we arranged the company dinner, I took her to the bar to find Lei Zhao.

After Nana agreed, I sent a message to Zhao Lei, asking him to go to a bar, and all the drinks were on me!

Zhao Lei gave me an OK animated expression.

Everything is ready except the east wind.

After dinner, I took Nana to the bar.

Zhao Lei is really a buddy. I thought he was going to drink with those old leaders for a long time, but he came without sitting for ten minutes.

When we first met, Nana was quite restrained and bit Minister Zhao.

I put my arm around Zhao Lei's shoulder and told Nana not to be nervous. Just ask her to call Brother Lei.

Originally that night, I wanted Zhao Lei to help me get Nana drunk.

I didn't expect this girl to drink so much that neither of us could beat her.

And Zhao Lei can drink much more than me, so I was the first person to fall down.

……

The next day, I walked out of the bar in a daze.

The entrance to the bar is the beach.

The beach in the morning is particularly comfortable. In the first half of the red sun on the distant skyline, the sea breeze gently brushed the sea surface and rolled up the waves. Nearby, tourists in twos and threes walk barefoot on the beach, letting the surging waves gently kiss their feet from time to time.

I stretched and exercised my sore waist.

When I turned my head to the side of the hotel behind me, my eyes almost fell off!

Zhao Lei and Nana clasped their fingers and headed for the beach!

Nana's head was tilted on Zhao Lei's chest, and they were talking and laughing. Nana still punches her little fist from time to time. ...

Forget it, don't say it, I can't stand it! )

Zhao Lei, you beast, beast!

I have known him for so many years, but I didn't expect him to be such a beast!

An old man ignored his family and carried a little girl who could be his daughter. Do you want a face?

Betraying my brother and family, I have never seen such a brazen person!

No, I have to tell his wife Lily about it.

Although I don't have Lily's WeChat, Lily and my wife Reiko Kobayakawa are good friends.

I took out my mobile phone, pressed the shutter, and sent the photo to Reiko Kobayakawa.

Yes, but not necessarily an affair.

20 15, travel to sanya. Staring at the seaside at night, my hometown is in the Central Plains. I think watching the sea is the most romantic. A local girl naturally sat next to me, began to talk inexplicably, fell in love, and was in a bad mood, so she asked someone to talk to. To put it simply, that girl is definitely a beauty, with exquisite facial features and just the right proportion, which makes people feel excited in the sunset. So I chatted casually until the moon rose, and I ordered two bottles of beer. Two people walk on the waves and talk about food, work and feelings. I don't know when the night is already deep.

Before parting, we hugged each other, leaving no contact information, and some encounters don't need further. This is the best memory.

It must exist. One of my colleagues has never had a girlfriend. Suddenly I heard that he got married when he came home from visiting relatives. Ask him how he did the secret work so well. He said, I met him on the train. At that time, we will take a four-day and three-night train home. With this time, you can really achieve a karma.

There is now, but it is not reliable. Maybe he's a liar.

Meeting in travel is inevitable and one of the meanings of travel. As for the affair, it only refers to the intersection between strangers of the opposite sex before and after the trip. Of course it exists, but most of them are short-lived or not, just an episode; People with different mentality have different plots. In the final analysis, it depends on your attitude towards life, not too mythical.

This matter, like the fate between people, can not be met, but there are also some people with ulterior motives. To put it bluntly, it is one of the ways of communication between people, but it is much fresher than daily life before it becomes a topic.

I think it's a little out of date. Now is the era of information intelligence. Not only travel, but also many opportunities to cheat in life. It's just that it's easier to meet people in the same boat when traveling. You can put aside or ignore the reality for a while and let the hormones work. With the beautiful scenery ahead, you can be influenced by the atmosphere, so you can be emotional.

I prefer to say "meet". Those casual encounters, whether opposite sex or same sex, people or things, are the best gifts for travel.

Travel is to give your mind a vacation, if you are single. It is possible to have a wonderful encounter! If you are married, I suggest you pay attention to your identity! ! !

There are affairs everywhere, but men and women believe it, so they will try it, so there is a travel affair.

The so-called tourism ... See this topic naturally thought of my cousin (my third aunt's son). In the early 1960s, my cousin joined the X Army in the south. 1967 asked for leave to go home in the summer. When the train stopped at X station in Jiangsu, a beautiful girl of about twenty years old came over and sat opposite my cousin. Maybe the old man has already connected the two sides under the moon of marriage. The girl loves talking and laughing. After driving for more than ten minutes, the two of them hit it off. It turns out that the girl's brother works in Chengde X Bureau, and this time he went to Chengde to visit his brother. Coincidentally, he and his cousin are in the same car. When the girl got off at Chengde, she and her cousin left each other a mailing address and agreed to take the bus together when her cousin returned to the army. Later, this girl became my wife.

In the "Mamma Mia" program of Oriental TV, a beautiful young woman who is a mother tells such a thing:

She's from Nanning, Guangxi, and she's visiting Inner Mongolia for a concert. I met a strong man who also traveled to Inner Mongolia and attended a concert. Because they are close to each other and have the same musical hobbies, they fell in love at first sight. During the conversation, both sides had a good impression and were reluctant to part. The strong man is from Daqing, Heilongjiang. He insisted on celibacy at first and never got married. But after seeing this beautiful and elegant southern woman, he gave up celibacy. When he left, he asked her, "Where are you going?" She replied shyly, "Whatever you say." He said, "Would you like to go to Daqing with me?" She replied, "All right!" In this way, she went to Daqing with her. The later result is; Young men and women, separated from Wan Li by a south and a north, met in a trip and a concert, got married, showed great love, and already had the crystallization of love.

This is a true story of meeting thousands of miles away. Can we still not believe in a beautiful meeting? Can you still not believe in all the predestinations in the world?