Men can't rely on it, and you will know it once you travel.

Office Li Xiang and her boyfriend went out for a trip and broke up when they came back.

Last month, they traveled to Mount Tai. In the middle of the mountain, Li Xiang asked her boyfriend to buy mineral water. He said it was too expensive and too heavy. Finally, he said that he didn't have any change. Li Xiang saw that he was embarrassed and didn't care. He went to the roadside to buy two bottles for ten yuan each and gave him one. However, when she reached the mountain, her boyfriend, who had no money, had the money to go to the temple to draw lots and cancel the visa. Li Xiang was immediately uncomfortable.

She said with deep feelings, "Men are unreliable, as long as they travel together once, it will be clear at a glance."

There was a question in Zhihu: What is the standard to test whether a couple is suitable for being together?

Among them, there is a highly praised answer: See if they can still maintain their feelings for each other after traveling together.

1. Traveling shows men's ability

A Fang and A Gang traveled to Taiwan Province. Due to the influence of the typhoon, their return flights were pushed again and again. A Fang was anxious, and A Gang immediately redone the raiders. During the four days of flight delay, he took A Fang on a deep tour to get to know Taiwan Province University, Taiwan Province aborigines' songs and dances, and Taiwan Province's unique snacks.

people will always encounter unexpected and unsatisfactory things in their life. Whether they are worried about the sky or actively deal with it can show a person's resilience and wisdom in dealing with the world.

The year before last, Xiaoli from my second uncle's house downstairs happened to travel to Jiuzhaigou with her colleagues. At night, there was a strong earthquake in the scenic spot. Zhao Liang, a male colleague, regardless of his own danger, knocked on the door of Xiaoli's room next door, took them out of the building and provided them with mineral water, beef jerky, biscuits and other foods in his carry-on bag to satisfy their hunger. After arranging them, I joined the ranks of volunteers. After coming back, Xiaoli decided on the relationship with Zhao Liang.

Being able to avoid panic in an accident and arrange everything properly in the chaos is a very strong control. Such a man can prioritize at work, do things in an orderly way, and gain the trust of others.

When traveling, there are uncertain factors everywhere, such as the choice of routes, the determination of scenic spots, the standard and location of accommodation, the taste of food, etc., just like a systematic project. Whether a couple's feelings warm up when they come back from a trip or break up depends mainly on the man's ability to control the whole process.

Second, traveling shows men's accomplishment

In an acquaintance society, men will consider their own face and image, and restrain their words and deeds. In a strange environment, some people will relax their bondage and make actions contrary to their usual image. For example, he is a polite young man at work, and he may be a netizen who spits feces on the Internet.

When you encounter annoying things such as late flight, traffic jam on the way, mountain climbing risks, restaurant cheat people, etc., if you can't control your emotions well, you will complain, get angry, get out of control, and even start work.

A strange environment is the easiest way to reveal human nature. When people stay together for 24 hours, the "fox tail" can't be hidden even if it wants to.

Cousin and her boyfriend went to the seaside for supper. A mobile singer carried a guitar to drum up business. He drank Erguotou and ate seafood, and called a girl to sing. The girl sang very generally, and sang two songs. My cousin paid the girl to leave, but he pulled her forward and wouldn't let her go. He pestered the girl to sing and shout together until nearly zero, and the police came to stop her. Afterwards, my cousin said that he was not drunk that day, but he acted like a different person.

On the way to travel, some men don't know courtesy, grab a good seat for their girlfriends when they get on the bus, get a discount when they find fault with meals, buy tickets and deliberately crowd in line, etc. These seem trivial, but they show his quality and cultivation.

cultivation is engraved in the bones and revealed in the details. When the queen of Louis XVI stepped on the gallows, she inadvertently stepped on the executioner's foot. She subconsciously said "I'm sorry". This is respect for people and makes people respect. Xia Yan was very uncomfortable before he died. The secretary said to call a doctor. He said with difficulty, "No, please." Then I never woke up.

people who have no culture can be rude to strangers today and will be rude to you tomorrow. Life is long, and it is inevitable that men and women will bump into each other when they live together. Once they get emotional, whether men can restrain themselves will determine whether their marriage is happy or not. A man who can respect strangers while traveling is absolutely no worse for you in life.

Third, traveling shows men's emotional intelligence.

Women are willing to innocent girl in front of their lovers, and they are gentle. Men are the backbone of women when they are away from home, just as men are the pillars in the family. Therefore, during the journey, men's emotional intelligence can be best reflected.

Shui Lian and Zhi Gang are both my classmates. They have been married for decades and love each other as always. I asked Shui Lian about their secret love, and she told me that it was due to a trip.

In the summer vacation of graduation year, four students, two men, two women, traveled together, and the weather was extremely hot. The green leather train had no air conditioning, and there was no room in their carriages, so they had to stand in the aisle. In order to help Shuilian find a vacant seat, Zhigang ran ten carriages back and forth, and finally ordered a meal in the dining car to occupy a seat. Shuilian said, "Every time I quarrel and get angry, I feel angry when I think of that scene." Zhigang rushed to say, "On that trip, she rushed to wash clothes and pack my luggage for me, and I recognized her from then on."

My brother and sister-in-law did not give in to each other for trivial matters, and even quarreled to the point of divorce. After the younger brother calmed down, he took his wife to go on road trip by car after some thinking, and they climbed mountains and rowed together, which opened the knot of the sister-in-law in just one day.

if a man is a master of cutting, enjoying the success and telling what to do, will you still think that he loves you?

If a man is either playing mobile phones or playing games and asks him to take some photos of you and still complains, do you still think he values you?

if a man only knows how to throw dirty clothes to you for washing, but is reluctant to hand you a glass of water, do you still think he will take care of you?

to love you is to love you as you are, not as you are carefully packaged. Traveling is like a short-term rehearsal of marriage life. Whether a man is a good match for you will be known after the audition.

4. Travel and show men's living habits

Stay in a youth hostel or a star-rated hotel, eat at a roadside stall or eat out, stay up late or get up early, and when men and women with different living habits travel together, it will bring many conflicts, and it will be known at a touch whether they are compatible or not.

Eating habits, sleeping habits, hygiene habits, consumption habits, and living alone are all small things, while living together is a big thing.

Divorce is often caused by trivial matters. After going to the toilet, the toilet does not flush and the toilet lid does not open. I am fascinated by playing games and don't sleep at midnight; Housework is not done, and children cry and ignore it; There is no dispute about which home to go back to during the Chinese New Year ... If these couples can travel once before marriage, they can thoroughly understand each other's living habits and avoid getting married and getting divorced.

Couples should go out for a trip before marriage, which is Qian Zhongshu's point of view. Only when the shoes don't fit can you know that traveling is the best way to recognize men. Getting along with people, travel pressure, unfamiliar environment, consumption concept, personality and temper, it condenses all kinds of factors that may be encountered in life and helps you make rational judgments. If you travel happily, your feelings will deepen, otherwise you should stop loss in time.

In this way, traveling is the best way to test whether a couple is suitable or not, and the best occasion to show a man's ability, accomplishment, emotional intelligence and habits. If you are still wondering whether men love you or not, I suggest going out for a trip, which can tell you the correct answer.