How to get out of loneliness after a broken love?

You should make more new friends and develop more hobbies.

When we are in love, we always like to do activities with our lovers. Let’s make an appointment to have dinner, watch a movie, and walk on the street together. You can even travel to distant countries together. With someone by your side, you won't be afraid of encountering dangers in a foreign country.

It is always difficult to adapt to being the same person again after a breakup. But there are always two sides to a coin, and things have two sides. Although two people can share and discuss with each other when doing activities together, they must also accommodate each other's habits and preferences.

For example, when it comes to hot pot, you like to eat spicy pot bottoms, but the other party can only eat clear soup pot, so you have to compromise every time and order the ordinary mandarin duck pot. You will never be satisfied with your meal. If you are alone, you can eat according to your own taste. If you can enjoy it to the fullest, it is also a very happy thing.

For example, you once gave up your identity as an anime nerd because of the other person’s comment, “It’s too childish to watch anime at such an age and buy peripherals to play with!” and you never touched any anime books again. What? You can bring back these hobbies that you abandoned after a breakup. Lovers may leave, but hobbies can stay with you for a lifetime.

Other people always follow their lovers to do things that only the other person is interested in or is good at. I have an ex who loves to make friends over drinks. When I was in love with him, I always accompanied him to various parties and banquets. Although I don’t know how to drink, I made many strange but interesting friends with him and ate a lot of delicious food that I had never tasted before.

But after the breakup, these activities disappeared. I am not a person who often hangs out with friends or goes to parties. This will inevitably make you feel bored. After that, I decided to pick up another hobby so that I could have more interesting experiences and company on my own. So I chose to delve deeper into the occult, which I had always been interested in.

I have met a group of new friends in the online community. Their insights are advanced and bold, which has benefited me a lot. I even met an occult enthusiast from the same city, and we are still good friends in real life.

Lovers come and go, but we can always find friends who are more suitable to share our current life. As long as we are willing to boldly try new things, develop hobbies, and take the initiative to meet strangers, the loneliness of being unaccompanied in real life can also be eliminated.