What should my husband do if he takes his parents-in-law out for a trip and leaves me to look after the children at home?

How can I put it? In fact, about how you should treat it, it is estimated that there are the following situations:

1: Maybe you don't get along well with your parents-in-law or don't live together. In order to prevent conflicts between you, your husband will take your parents-in-law out so that you won't have conflicts in unfamiliar places. For example, our family is like this. My wife and my mother don't get along, so sometimes it's better not to meet each other. Because of the nature of my work, I will go abroad on business. And it will be 1-2 years. Sometimes, my wife will take the children to live with me for a while, but every year when he is away, I will invite my mother and father to their business trip, and then my wife knows about it and starts to make a scene. I feel very annoyed and noisy. Isn't it because of family and filial piety? For example, on 20 19, when I was on a business trip in Suzhou, I happened to catch my wife back to Tianjin. I called my parents and took them to Suzhou. After my wife found out, she had a big fight and had a long cold war. I was very angry at that time, but after this stage, my wife stopped talking about it. That means I shouldn't keep it from him. This is my personal problem, not my fault. On appropriate occasions (such as when your husband is busy), suggest them to play. I think your husband will understand your dissatisfaction and will correct it in the future.

2. There is another situation. After your husband wants to take them to play, he wants to give you a surprise and take you to play alone. You can try to wait slowly, or try to beat around the bush (for example, your friend tries). There may be another situation.

The last situation is that your husband doesn't consider your feelings at all and doesn't care. Then I think you are a failed woman. In the future, you should invest more in yourself, such as clothes, cosmetics, fitness and life. Instead of focusing on children, you should be an independent and confident person.

In short, men are sometimes children, and women should be smooth and independent, so I don't think those so-called things you are worried about exist at all, do you? Sometimes, men need to be coaxed or threatened to work.

experienced people

Whatever the principle, it is acceptable. Now that they have traveled, they can't change it. Just take care of the children and your husband at home. If you really care and don't want to leave your child at home alone, you can tell your husband your attitude towards this matter and what you don't like. Communication is very important. I can accept it anyway.

Before your husband married you, his parents spent the most time together, but only for more than 20 years. He and you are his life after his twenties. You can change many of his things and habits, even the taste of food. My best friend is married. Her husband used to go home every week, but after marriage, he seldom eats his wife's cooking every day. When he went back to his parents' home for dinner, he thought his mother cooked the food. The taste of his food has faded now, but his mother is still doing what he used to like. There are many more, so let's not talk about it. My best friend said that my mother-in-law felt a little lost and took her son away from her. My parents can't participate in our whole life. They didn't know us very well until we were 20. Sometimes I really forget my mother when I get married. My husband has a lot of time to get along with us, and he took his in-laws out for a trip in just a few days.

So, I think, if you feel uncomfortable, you can take your parents to travel when you have time, and bring the children to your husband's side, so that he can put himself in his shoes.

Our children will grow up and have their own families, and many things are beyond our control. The same thing may happen to you, haha, then you are the mother-in-law who goes out to play.

What I said only represents my own point of view.

You will ask this question because you are unwilling! Since you don't want to, it's very simple!

1: Give the children to her husband's in-laws and let them travel together.

2: You follow.

Take your children to join the tour group yourself.

4. If the above three points are inconvenient because you have children, then you can go to various beauty clubs, various skin care products, perfumes, bags and clothes to buy in buy buy, and then treat your little sister to food and drink. Don't let yourself feel wronged.

Method theory. I'm sure many people say that my husband took his parents and family on a trip. It looks really filial and moral, but it's really filial. But this filial piety has a premise, and you are also a member of this family! They are a family of three. If you marry into their family, shouldn't three become four? (It should be five, plus children. Since we are all a family, it should be okay for the whole family to travel together, right? If it's really because of the child's problem (the subject didn't say how old the child is, so it can't be referenced), then you'd better stay at home honestly.