Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Travel guide - My grandmother just died, and I want to travel, but I heard that I can't travel for half a year. Can I go out?

My grandmother just died, and I want to travel, but I heard that I can't travel for half a year. Can I go out?

There is a folk saying that "a loved one has died for three years", which means that after the death of a loved one, the family will be unhappy for three years, so some people say that the death of an old man will suppress the luck of children for three years. Is this reasonable? Today, Liang Chao Zhouyi will talk to you about this issue.

The origin of this statement is mainly in the funeral culture of ancient China. When a family member dies, especially when the elders and descendants show filial piety, they will keep filial piety for three years, and generally don't travel far and hold happy events during the period of filial piety ..... So some people will feel that their fortune is declining a little.

So will the death of the old man really crush the luck of the child?

Whether the death of the old man will suppress the luck of children can be divided into two aspects. In removing the geomantic omen from the grave buried by the old man after his death, the numerology depends on whether the five elements represented by the dead old man are XiShen or jealousy.

For example, when someone's father dies, the lucky star is used to represent his father in numerology. If this man's wealth star is regarded as a god, he will have bad luck for a while after his father dies.

On the other hand, if he is a fortune star, there will be no unlucky situation and it may be smoother. Mother is represented by Yinxing, and the truth of good or ill luck is the same as that of father.

From the perspective of geomantic omen, if the children do not do a good job in geomantic omen's grave after the death of the old man, and the decline will not stop for three years, it is also possible to decline for ten or eight years or continue to decline. Filial piety takes three years, during which no happy events can be held and couplets can not be posted during the Spring Festival. Different times have different ways and times of filial piety, which should be decided according to their own actual situation. For example, the shortest time to cross the tomb (3 days from the date of funeral), or the third period (2 1 day), or a hundred days. , can't generalize. Besides, filial piety in the true sense is to turn grief into strength and live a strong life.