When people reach middle age, there is no such thing as an easy trip. They can only move forward with a heavy load for life!

Recently, "I Am Yu Huanshui" starring Guo Jingfei, which reflects the current living conditions of middle-aged people, has aroused heated discussions among netizens. Taking advantage of the popularity, they read the original work of the TV series in one sitting - - "If there is no tomorrow".

Yu Huanshui, who has reached middle age, is an incompetent man in the eyes of his family, colleagues and friends. His wife divorced him and his son looks down on him. He is synonymous with coward. To put it bluntly, he is a A complete loser; he worked humbly to get rid of this shame, but God always seemed to play tricks on him. Yu Huanshui was diagnosed with advanced pancreatic cancer during a routine physical examination organized by the company, and he was already dead.

However, after Yu Huanshui learned about it, he neither cried bitterly nor rushed to the doctor because of a sudden illness. Instead, he felt as if a heavy burden of a thousand dollars had been lifted off his body. He was already halfway through his life. He had been so useless before. Since God had given him a short life, , then you no longer have to carry a burden for the rest of your life, why not be free and easy for once before you die! So he signed up to participate in a charity organization that helps dying people realize their final wishes, and went on a quick trip. Unexpectedly, after participating, he reached the pinnacle of his life. Yu Huanshui not only met love, but also helped the police The drama caught a wanted criminal, saved the lives of leaders and colleagues who had always looked down on him, and became a great hero in the city.

In the end, he invited all his relatives and friends over and held a farewell party in advance. At the meeting, those who had looked down on him had a 180-degree change in their attitudes towards him, and even His ex-wife, who had always looked down on him, also looked up to him with admiration. Obviously, at this moment, the word "waste" had long since disappeared without a trace on him. However, just when he wanted to enter heaven without any regrets, fate played another joke on him. The hospital made a mistake in his report and he did not have pancreatic cancer at all!

The final outcome is that Yu Huanshui is still the same Yu Huanshui, and the loser is still the same loser. He, a middle-aged man, will have to continue to bear the burden for the rest of his life!

To put it bluntly, the middle-aged Yu Huanshui dared to put down the burden of life and enjoy life freely because he learned that he was terminally ill; assuming that there was no such big joke played by God. , he should be like thousands of middle-aged people, burdened with mortgages, car loans, the elderly, and children. Every day when he opens his eyes, he rushes for life. When he falls asleep late at night, he may still be thinking about it in his dreams. I will worry about all kinds of expenses related to favor exchanges next month.

Indeed, in the real world, it is too easy to crush a middle-aged person who supports a family. A job loss, a serious illness, an investment failure, or even a high fine will all be a crushing factor. This is the last life-saving straw for them. It can be said that every breath of the middle-aged people is for life!

Middle-aged people dare not get sick.

If people of any age group dare not read their physical examination reports these days, it goes without saying that it must be middle-aged people.

When young people get sick and have good family backgrounds, they can basically go abroad for treatment. In the worst case, they can also be carefree, put aside their work or study for the time being, and receive positive treatment with peace of mind.

Elderly people, at this age, are about to reach the end of their life journey. If they really get a serious illness, it is generally reasonable to think that they will not be treated. The money for treatment should either be kept for their children or go to the hospital. Traveling is free and easy.

The most difficult thing is for middle-aged people. If you really get a serious illness, treatment will cost a lot of money. If there is no commercial insurance claim, you will have to leave your original preparations to the elderly for retirement and children’s education. The savings are used for medical treatment, and if they are not enough, they have to borrow foreign debts. Middle-aged people are the financial backbone of the family. Being sick also means that they cannot go to work, and their income will suddenly decrease. What about the monthly mortgage and car loans?

But what’s interesting is that middle-aged people are often the most enthusiastic about physical examinations. When the workplace organizes physical examinations, middle-aged people are always the first to make an appointment, and there are also many examinations that are paid for by individuals. project, they want to know their health status as soon as possible, and hope that there are no words related to serious illness or cancer on their physical examination report. For them, it is a proper sense of security, as long as they are in good health. , which means that they can still have capital to work hard for their families and life for a few more years.

Middle-aged people dare not lose their jobs.

Let’s take a look at the data. During this epidemic, Beijing is estimated to have 230,000 more Didi drivers, and Meituan and Ele.me have 580,000 more riders, and a large part of them are from Youjia Youkou. middle-aged people.

The epidemic has pushed countless middle-aged families who originally belonged to the middle class back to before liberation overnight. Salaries were cut, layoffs were laid off, and businesses failed. Middle-aged people who were burdened with mortgages, car loans, and family expenses were suddenly Having lost their source of income, naturally, jobs that allow for flexible commuting and income, such as part-time drivers and takeaway riders, are the only options available to middle-aged people who are suddenly unemployed.

Middle-aged people are unemployed, which means they have to start over in the workplace, and they have to compete with young people in the talent market and grab jobs. In addition to eating salt, middle-aged people have more rice than young people. Apart from many other factors, whether it is physical strength, energy, life constraints, or the salary cost of the company, what is not a disadvantage?

Middle-aged people will basically not resign nakedly, and as long as a middle-aged person When people make the decision to change jobs, they must do it after repeated research, weighing the pros and cons, and risk prediction to ensure that there will not be too much risk in going to the new company before they finally take this step.

The wave of unemployment caused by the epidemic caught them off guard in an instant. Before the next job was found, the daily expenses of family life, mortgage and car loans would weigh them down. This can also be understood why middle-aged people do not dislike jobs that are not decent and labor-intensive, such as driving, take-out, and express delivery. In a word, for middle-aged people, survival is the most important thing.

Middle-aged people dare not show their personality.

In the workplace, those who dare to directly contradict their leaders, boldly put forward their own ideas, or even resign at every turn are mostly young people represented by those born in the 1990s, while middle-aged people, every day Be a good person with your tail between your legs, do your job well, complete the tasks assigned by your superiors, express your opinions carefully, and maintain a good relationship with leaders and colleagues.

It’s not that middle-aged people don’t have personalities. In addition to work, every day, the elderly have to take care of their health, they have to interfere with their children’s studies, and couples quarrel over family trivial matters from time to time. The physical strength and energy of middle-aged people have been exhausted. When they are almost consumed by all kinds of trivial matters, how can they still have the mood to show their personality, which may cause unnecessary trouble. For them, safety and keeping their jobs are the most important things.

Individuality is a necessity for young people born in the 1990s, but it is a luxury for middle-aged people.

Middle-aged people dare not have poetry and distant places.

Gao Xiaosong once said a saying that was popular all over the country, "This world is not only about the things in front of you, but also poetry and distance." After hearing this, the young man's heart suddenly surged, so he quit his job and had a talk to say goodbye. Just travel, including skiing in Switzerland, bungee jumping in New Zealand, scuba diving in Indonesia, and wingsuit flying by a female college student who recently passed away. For young people, it’s just a matter of buying a plane ticket in minutes. But this is something that a middle-aged man who has a family behind him is unthinkable.

First of all, one must have money and leisure, and middle-aged people lack these two things the most. In addition, sports with extremely high risk factors, such as bungee jumping and skiing, are not suitable for middle-aged people who cherish their lives. For people, if they are not sure, they will not try it easily. After all, once any accident occurs, it will be a devastating disaster for the entire family. The life of a middle-aged man has been tied to his family, so those who have to support the family must How can middle-aged people have any poetry or distant places? They are too busy to care for themselves with the stalemate in front of them.

Romain Rolland once said: There is only one true heroism in the world, which is to still love it after recognizing the truth of life.

In the novel, the middle-aged Yu Huanshui became a hero in the city because he helped the police catch wanted criminals and saved many lives. However, in real society, most people Middle-aged people may never encounter such a thing in their lives. Their normal behavior is to make themselves and their families live a better life. Although they carry heavy burdens every day, they still feel pain and happiness.

So, young babies, if you have someone around you who is afraid of death or unemployment, be cautious in your words and deeds, and live modestly for life every day, even if he seems to you to be a tacky and inferior person. When you see a middle-aged greasy uncle; please don't laugh at him from the bottom of your heart, just give him an understanding smile. You must know that they are precisely the most ordinary, simple and pyrotechnic life heroes around us.