Terminally ill volunteers save a girl who jumped off a cliff, and a real wife walks out under the gray sky

Sun Yun, who lives in Jinan City, Shandong Province, had a tendency to suffer from depression as early as when she was in college. After graduation, she worked in her father's company. Her depression became more and more serious, and she even went to Qianfo Mountain to jump off a cliff. Fortunately, I was stopped. His father had no choice but to take him to a psychological intervention company in Jinan to seek psychological counseling. Here, Sun Yu met Tan Jie, who was four years older than him.

Tan Jie is a psychological rescue volunteer and a terminally ill patient who needs a liver transplant to survive. Sun Yun wants to die, and unites to survive. Sun Yun's world is desolate, but the united world shines brightly. What kind of sparks will be produced when two completely different people collide?

What kind of miracle will be created? One day in early July 2015, the Xinhuili Swimming Pool in Jinan City, Shandong Province, looked like a dragon as soon as it entered the water and swam very far with just a little effort. Sun Yun was impressed, but still warned, you will be tired. Tan Jie looked up from the water and said, "Don't worry, I will float quietly." Sun Yue also learned to float quietly in the water with him. He didn't expect that he would accept this from him so quickly.

A very special friend, Sun Yun, was born in Jinan in 1992. His father, Sun Deli, and his mother, Yang Juan, ran a seafood processing company. Because of their different business philosophies, both of them were very strong and often argued and even fought over company matters. Living in such a family, Sun Yun has been withdrawn and indifferent since he was a child.

In September 2011, Sun Yun was admitted to Wuxi Vocational and Technical College in Jiangsu Province. During her sophomore year, her mother, Yang Juan, actually ran away with the company's driver, Cao Jun. Sun Yun suffered a huge blow. Not only was he unable to interact with his classmates normally, he was also prone to conflicts with others. He had scolded all three of his roommates in the dormitory, and he could no longer live there, so he had to rent a house off campus to live alone.

After Sun Yun graduated in 2014, her father asked her to return to the company to help him and be responsible for logistics management. He was in a bad mood, often suffered from insomnia, and was miserable. In November of this year, he suddenly had a lot of pills. Fortunately, his father found out and sent her to the hospital in time, so she did not die. The waiting father took Sun Yun to the hospital for a check-up, and the doctor diagnosed her with depression.

His father refused to let him work and hired a nanny to take care of him. In fact, he watched him every day. Sun Yun started to have conflicts with the nanny again. The nanny quit in anger. After his father said something to him, he got angry and fell alone. Li Jiajing ran to the top of Qianfo Mountain. Fortunately, his father sent someone to follow him quietly, desperately grabbing him and taking him home. Later, after his father and relatives and friends repeatedly worked hard and begged Sun Yun to give up the idea of ????suicide.

In April 2015, on the recommendation of a friend of Sun Deli's, Sun Yun was arrested and went to a psychological intervention service run by a retired psychiatrist in Changqing District, Jinan, to seek psychological counseling. Dr. Chen, who is in his 60s, communicated with Sun Yun for three hours and took him to the liver disease department of nearby Qilu Hospital to introduce him to a patient named Tan Jie. Tan Jie, 27 years old, lives in Weihai. Hepatitis C has turned into liver failure. He applied online to become a psychological counseling volunteer in Dr. Chen's studio.

Sun Yun, looking at Tan Jie's left and right arms with infusion tubes inserted, said, "Everyone has a bottle and a tube, you." Tan Jie smiled, I have suffered from myocarditis in the past two days, and four channels were infused at the same time. After Tan Jie and Sun Yun became friends, Sun Yun left the hospital. Since then, the two often chatted on WeChat.

When Tan Jie was studying at Shanghai University, he fell in love with his girlfriend, a classmate who lives in Nanchang, for three years. After graduation, they went to work in Nanchang together. However, his girlfriend left him less than a month after he became ill. He also had thoughts of giving up on himself, but finally got over it and began to learn to accept it. Now I have become a volunteer for psychological rescue. Tan Jie said that death is easy, but if we can overcome the temptation of death, it proves that our body and spirit are strong.

Sun Yue also slowly opened up her heart. I went on vacation and tried hard to hold down the twisted things in my soul, but found that it was useless. Especially when I thought of my mother, I would become another person in an instant. people. Mother is the deepest pain in Sun Yu's heart. Tan Jie knows that it needs to be reconstructed both body and soul. Knowing that he loved swimming, Tan Jie invited him to go with him, and the scene at the beginning of this article appeared. Tan Jie was lucky when he was in good physical condition. Go see the flowers and plants, or watch a movie together.

One day, Sun Yun asked Tan Jie curiously, why do you want to be a volunteer? What's in it for you? Tan Jie smiled, giving him a sense of existence. Our lives are not completely desolate. Sun Yun was moved by his meticulousness and love for life. Unite tries to untie the knot between Sun Yu and her mother. After Yang Juan and Sun Deli divorced, she married her lover in Shijiazhuang. Tanjie managed to find Yang Juan's mobile phone number, and then rushed to Shijiazhuang. After meeting Yang Juan, she persuaded him to return to Jinan to visit her daughter. Yang Juan couldn't help but burst into tears knowing that she had almost caused a tragedy because she had hurt her daughter.

Yang Juan followed Tan Jie back to Jinan, and Tan Jie arranged for the mother and daughter to meet. When Yang Juan saw her daughter crying, she said that she and her father had not had a substantial relationship as husband and wife for more than ten years, and he could not bear this kind of relationship. He did not contact Sun Yu after running away because he felt that he was too embarrassed to see his daughter. I haven't fulfilled my responsibility to you, but no matter when the time comes, you will always be the most important thing in my mother's heart, and she loves you.

Sun Yun turned away and cried, asking Tan Jie to leave and talk.

Don't come up to Yang Juan, Auntie, I will do his work slowly, you have to be patient. Looking at her daughter's decisive departure, Yang Juan burst into tears. In the afternoon of that day, Tan Jie fell ill due to exhaustion from the long journey. He suffered from headache, vomiting and unconsciousness. The doctor's examination found that he suffered from liver disease due to fatigue, which further induced brain herniation, which was very dangerous.

Sun Yun has returned home, and he is worried that Tan Jie has sent him many WeChat messages without reply. The call was from Tan Mujie. When he learned that Sister Tan was in critical condition, he immediately took a taxi to the hospital. Two hours after the doctor rescued him, Tan Jie was pushed out of the emergency room. His face was as white as a piece of paper, and one hand was trembling. His parents and Sun Yun called him, but he didn't respond. Sun Yun was sad and blamed himself, and Sun Yue stayed in the ward to help take care of him.

At noon on the third day, when she saw Tan Jie opening his glasses, Sun Yun burst into tears. Do you know me? Tan Jie said softly, Sun Yun. Sun Yun burst into tears and laughed. One day, the doctor talked to Tan Fu about liver transplantation and it was Sun Yun who listened. Occasionally, I would interject and ask if Tan Jie's parents had matched his type of organ transplant, as long as his blood type was the same. The family all have type A blood, but hepatitis B virus was detected in their blood and they were unable to complete the donation. Sun Yun's heart skipped a beat, he also had type A blood. He quietly consulted a doctor and learned that living donors must be direct relatives or couples. After repeated consideration, Sun Yun decided to do something.

Going to the ward the next day, when the two were alone, Sun Yun said to Tan Jie, can you do me a favor? Tan Jie smiled, anything would be fine. Then will you marry me? Pan Jie was stunned for a moment, are you kidding? Sun Yu shook her head, I am very serious, I want to see if I can find happiness and joy in marriage. The face is flushed with unity. The prerequisite for marriage is first of all to be in love and love each other. We don't have the second one for the time being. You also know that my illness can be unexpected at any time. Third, I am a volunteer and cannot get emotionally entangled with patients. This is the rule.

Sun Yun smiled, is there anything else? Do you really think of yourself as a psychiatrist? Forget it, I won't force you to answer, just think about it slowly. Sun Yun said a flurry of words and left. Looking at his leaving figure, Tan Jie suddenly shed tears. He was a mental patient he counseled, more like an angel sent to him by God. After that, Sun Yun mentioned the knowledge of marriage several times and kept provoking him. He already wanted to go to Qianfo Mountain to jump off the cliff because he disliked it.

His acting was very realistic. Tan Jie blamed himself and was anxious. He gradually changed his mind. If marriage could really save him, he might as well spend his life to welcome this angel of love. One day, Sun Yun asked Tan Jie again if he wanted to marry him. Tan Jie bravely grabbed his hand and said, "You are not afraid, so what should I be afraid of?" I propose to you now. I don’t know whether you love me or not, but I really like you. Sun Yun burst into tears and laughed like a man.

In September 2015, the two began to work separately to convince their families. Although he was grateful to Tan Jie, Sun Deli was still shocked when he heard that his daughter was going to marry Tan Jie. He said, aren't you jumping into a pit of fire? Sun Yun said, being with him, I feel. You have the energy to live, and getting married is not the end of the world. If we can't get along, I will leave him. Sun Deli was speechless. She had too much misunderstanding about this daughter. He was afraid that refusing would cause an accident, so he could only let nature take its course. Sister Tan's parents were also worried about dragging down Sun Yun. Sister Tan explained to her parents that you don’t understand how terrible depression is. You see that he is fine, but he may go away at any moment. We complement each other. His parents were convinced.

On September 30, 2015, the two received their marriage certificate at the Civil Affairs Bureau of Changqing District, Jinan. Tan Jie's parents were afraid of treating their daughter-in-law badly, so they proposed to hold a wedding for them. Sun Yun said tactfully that Tan Jie was still undergoing treatment and going through such a noisy scene was not good. He would wait until he got better. My parents-in-law were moved to tears. On the tenth day of their marriage, Sun Yun was alone in the ward to accompany him. The doctor came over and told Tan Jie that the liver transplant had not been found yet. Tan Jie was in a daze. After the doctor left, the two of them silently thought about their concerns. Sun Yun put down the water glass and suddenly said, "You can use mine." Tan Jie was stunned by his words, "Are you kidding, Sun Yue." Looking at Tan Jie with a smile, you know I'm not joking. Tan Jie shook his head desperately, you are my wife, there is no way I can use your liver. Sun Yun said, it is precisely because I am your wife that I have to do this. Sister Tan suddenly remembered that she saw Sun Yun inquiring about liver donation on her mobile phone a few days ago, and suddenly realized, did you marry me because you wanted to donate my liver? Sun Yun looked at him and said, that doesn't matter, now I am your wife, this is what I should do, you know? Looking at Sun Yun's glasses shining with tears, Tan Jie burst into tears.

On November 17, 2015, Tan Jie suddenly suffered from hepatic coma. The doctor said that the patient’s liver was almost completely necrotic and only an immediate transplant could save his life. Sun Yue trembled all over and told the doctor, "I am his wife, use mine. Both he and I have type A blood." The doctor said that although they have the same blood type, there are still risks and he should consider it. Tan Jie's parents were very moved when they learned about it, but asked Sun Yun to discuss it with his father no matter what. With his father's consent, Sun Yun immediately called his father Sun Deli to hesitate. I have repeatedly stated that although I feel sorry for you, he is your husband and you want to donate your liver to save him. I can only respect your choice.

Sun Yun cried, and all that was left was to raise money. Tan Jie's second uncle borrowed 500,000 yuan from his real estate business. His family had 150,000 yuan in savings, and he collected 650,000 yuan in one day.

Sun Yuanxiang Qilu Hospital submitted various certificates from her and Tan Jie, and the doctor conducted various examinations and evaluations on him and determined the time for surgery.

At ten o'clock in the morning on November 19, two operations were performed at the same time in Qilu Hospital. Taking into account the recipient's physical condition, the doctor decided to cut out 1/3 of Sun Yun's liver and transplant it to Panjie. Five hours later, Sun Yuxian woke up from anesthesia and asked about Tan Jie's condition. His parents said that the operation went well. The nurse told him that your liver has started working in Tan Jie's body. He had a large dose of anesthesia and would wake up two hours later. Come. At six o'clock in the afternoon that day, Tan Jie woke up and was very moved to learn what had happened in the past 48 hours.

He asked his parents who stayed by his side to take care of Sun Yun. He was worried that he would suffer from depression due to physical reasons. As the symptoms worsened, Tan Jie's mother stayed with Sun Yun 24 hours a day. He helped Sun Yun hold his mobile phone so that Sun Yun and Tan Jie could communicate via video. Yang Quan learned about his daughter's condition and rushed from Shijiazhuang to take care of her. After experiencing this life change, Sun Yun became tolerant of her mother, and there was some communication between mother and daughter. Tan Jie was very pleased when he found out.

About two weeks after the transplant, Tan Jie suddenly developed fever, abdominal pain and discomfort in the liver area. The doctor said this was caused by liver enlargement, so he increased the dosage of immunosuppressants and told him to take Pay attention to preventing complications such as infections and peptic ulcers. Sun Yun asked me to take care of her. His mother-in-law and Yang Juan were worried about his health. He said that if there were things he couldn't do, he would ask his parents for help. He took care of Tan Jie in every possible way. Tan Jie often didn't speak and just looked at him quietly. Sun Yun didn't disturb it. He stretched out his hand and held Tan Jie's hand tightly.

In March 2016, Tan Jie returned home from the hospital, and Sun Yun also moved to Tan's house and lived with Tan Jie. I don't know when. He felt like he couldn't live without him. In the next three months, Tan Jie had two episodes of rejection, each time fighting against death. Sun Yun stayed with him and took care of him. During this period, she also felt depressed, and even reached the point where she was almost suffocating. But every time he thought of Tan Jie still fighting against death, his attention shifted to Tan Jie, ignoring those self-doubts and self-denials. He controlled himself little by little. His progress and unity were seen in his eyes, and he was pleasantly surprised and moved in his heart.

In June 2016, Sun Yupei and Tan Jie went to the hospital for a review. The doctor told Sun Yun that all indicators of the bomb were normal, and the couple cried with joy. Tan Jie recovered, and Sun Yun was freed from worries about him, and fell into a trance from time to time. At this time, he felt a little unwell. Tan Jie took him to the hospital for a check-up and learned that she was pregnant. During the tenth month of pregnancy, Tan Jie took good care of her. Sun Yun experienced the entire process of a life growing up in his body, and felt the novel surprise and curiosity about life that he had never experienced before. Give him the joy of rebirth.

In March 2017, Sun Yu gave birth to a healthy baby boy named Bangbang. Once, while he was breastfeeding his child, the child suddenly stopped, looked at him, and grinned. Sun Yun shouted excitedly, "Tan Jie, look, he smiled at me, smiled at me." Pan Jie laughed at him. How could such a young child laugh? Sun Yun was unconvinced and thought this was the child's extra love for him. He looked at the child who was sleeping peacefully after being fed with milk in his arms, and felt that the whole world was at peace. At that moment, he even thought of his mother. Bang Bang grows like bamboo shoots after the rain. The first time he stood, the first time he walked, the first time he vaguely pronounced the sound "mama", Sun Yun felt very warm and happy. When he got up and took Bangbang out for a walk in the morning, he felt Zhao Xia's bright afternoon. When he accompanied Bangbang to look at bugs on the grass, he discovered the freshness of the world. At night, when the child fell asleep peacefully in his arms, he discovered for the first time that the night sky was not black, but dark blue, as if it had been washed by water. ?

During an examination at Peking Union Medical College Hospital in July 2018, doctors believed that Sun Yun had completely recovered from his depression. On August 17, the Chinese Valentine's Day, Tan Jie and Sun Yunhe helped take a family photo. In the evening, Sun Yun cooked some exquisite side dishes. Tan Jie conjured a rose out of nowhere and delivered it to his wife with his son. Sun Yun took the rose, and Tan Jie took advantage of the opportunity to hold his wife's hand. The big hand and the small hand, the family of three held each other tightly. They became friends because of depression, and they redeemed each other out of kindness, but they unexpectedly gained sincere love. Under Tan Jie's coordination, the relationship between Sun Yun and his parents has become more harmonious. At present, Sun Deli has retired and handed over the company to his daughter and son-in-law. Their lives have turned a new page.