When many boys are dating, they hear girls say that they like to travel. Why do they shake their heads again and again?

Around the 1980s and 1990s, "going out to travel" was a luxury for most families, because it required a high cost. But now, with the development of social economy, many families can travel at any time.

But for some young women, if they take "traveling" as their hobby and declare it to the outside world, it will make their favorite opposite sex feel disgusted.

Strangely, why does this hobby cause disgust? Travel is not a "shady" quirk.

Genetically, men prefer sports, while women are quiet and like to be alone. This impression has gradually taken root in people's hearts. So, why don't most men like to travel now? There are actually many reasons.

High material and spiritual consumption

Originally, it was a very enviable thing for lovers to play together, but it was not. Boys with this experience must be miserable.

Going out is definitely inseparable from all kinds of consumption. In love, men tend to bear more or all, resulting in economic burden.

In addition, no matter where you travel, you need to know carefully and make preparations in advance. This work is often done by boys, which is undoubtedly a mental burden.

During the trip, the two will experience many sightseeing projects and shopping together. If girls like taking pictures, they need a "full-time" photographer to help them carry their bags and luggage, which are all physical exertion.

When the journey is tiring or tense, women tend to complain and be impatient, which is likely to lead to quarrels.

The combination of various factors will make boys become "treasuries" and "laborers" on the journey. In their view, this journey is even more meaningless than sleeping at home.

Therefore, if a woman claims that her hobbies are traveling and playing, she actually likes a life of high consumption and high service.

This kind of suggestive news will mostly discourage boys, especially those who want to talk about marriage. They want to find a "like-minded" wife, not a spoiled princess, so they are bound to flinch.

There are only two kinds of people who say "love to travel": either they are financially free and don't need to worry about the economic situation; Or moonlight clan, even in debt, just enjoy the present.

Most young women who like to travel usually find it difficult to support their hobbies with their income, so the latter is more likely. In addition, now Alipay's ant flower buds and borrowing buds are very popular, and there is a high probability that they will be in debt.

After analysis, I believe everyone can understand why women say they like to travel, which will lead to the blind date staying away.

The stereotype of living in the present.

Maybe many people have such social networks: they often travel to various scenic spots, but they can't get information about their jobs. It seems that they don't need to work, and they just play every day.

Therefore, we will naturally label such people. The key words are: live in the present and like to eat, drink and be merry.

If a boy's blind date is such a girl, then obviously, he can't accept such a lifestyle. After all, life needs saving and stability, and marriage can't provide them with such an environment.

Secondly, stereotypes also play a role. Because these women show a life of traveling and enjoying themselves every day, and the photos they take are also very glamorous, it is difficult to prevent others from associating them with people who pay attention to the outside and love vanity.

Just like the mention of young men, women of the same age will associate with such personalities as curtilage, internet and dullness, which is the lasting effect of stereotypes.

In fact, it is normal for people to choose conformity. Not all groups need to know for themselves. We have no position and there is no need to do so.

Therefore, when the man learns that the other person likes to travel, he can't help but compare with similar women he knows in the social circle, and almost even gives in immediately. I think girls who like to travel are not suitable to live together, and neither can afford the daily expenses of the other.

In fact, you can take a closer look, because there are no exactly the same individuals in the world.