Why are many young people fleeing Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou now?

Netizen 1:

Rather than escaping, it is better to say that I am tired and unwilling to struggle. When we reach middle age, whether we are married or not, we have other responsibilities waiting for us. We can't be like newborn calves, squandering time wantonly. We need to think more about our families. If you are over 30 and you are still in the same company, there will be no changes in the future. I just resigned from Guangzhou this year. Although I have not found a suitable job, I am not willing to stay in a big city for 10 years. But I never had a sense of belonging, I was just alive. Working from 8 to 7, I didn’t have any sense of superiority. I didn’t have time to experience the gorgeous city. I was confused and even anxious. I had insomnia all night long. When I heard my parents say on the phone that they should work peacefully and take care of themselves, I was filled with self-blame. I was unable to take care of my parents at this age and made my parents worry. Even though I worked diligently and hard, I was unable to buy a house in Guangzhou. At the age of 32, I increasingly felt that my life would remain the same if this situation continued. I have to go, my family needs my company, life is long and there is a lot to do. Life is short, it passes before you have time, time flies by, and the years pass by in a hurry.

Netizen 2:

I am 32 years old, and I have decided to go back to my hometown with my wife next year. My hometown is in the center of the county. My parents have pensions, no debts, and a villa (a three-story house with a single family house). Building) with a parking space and a luxury car (Junwei). I bought a house in a community of the county experimental primary school (monthly payment is 2,30). My daughter will be six years old and will be in the first grade. I am an only child and have no income outside. Money, the monthly rent and expenses are at least 10,000. Sometimes I really don’t know why I wander outside. I can’t save money, and I fail to fulfill my responsibilities as a son and father. I have a mansion in my hometown and I don’t live outside. It’s small and dirty. Farmer's house. I have luxury cars in my hometown and don't drive them. I have to squeeze into buses and subways every day in big cities. I don't eat clean and delicious meals cooked by my mother in my hometown. I eat packed lunches and fast food outside every day and it's not nutritious! And he works overtime until midnight every day! Many times I wonder what it is for. I really want to go back to the day I graduated from college. If I can’t hold on, I’ll be fine. I’ll hold on for another year and go back to my hometown for development next summer. I can make less money and spend more time with my parents and daughter. Take good care of your health and have a second child! I don’t want to be outside anymore, I’m so tired both physically and mentally! Do you feel the same way?

Netizen 3:

Some people sit in glittering cubicles and call themselves elites. They are obsessed with making beautiful PPTs, holding inexplicable meetings, and doing Inexplicably sharing time and time again, I straightened my back, smiled in fascination, praised the terrible data, and then said: Thank you to the excellent organization for cultivating the excellent me.

Before I lost my job, I really felt that those people who were fascinated by smiling in front of PPT were awesome. They kept saying "We want to make Internet +, pay attention to user experience, draw user portraits well, and know who the users are." What, and then do precision marketing!”

Don’t think that people living in Beijing, Shanghai, Shenzhen, Guangzhou and Hangzhou are the mainstream, and don’t think that people working in the Internet, finance and other industries are the mainstream of society. The majority of people in seventh-tier cities and counties are those who cannot speak out and cannot influence anything. They are the mainstream of society, and we are the non-mainstream.

Netizen 4:

Super first-tier cities such as Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou are places where young people can realize their dreams. Because the level of civilization there is relatively high, especially in Beijing. The level of civilization in Beijing is not as high as that of cities in Western countries. In Beijing, it is relatively easy to get started because everyone follows the rules. Think about it, in second-tier cities, the first thing to consider when handling things is human relations, followed by rules.

Many high-quality resources are concentrated in super first-tier cities such as Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou. For example, if you want to start a business in Beijing, if you have an idea, there will be people who will encourage you and help you realize it.

To sum up, I said upstairs that many young people are discussing Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, but on the contrary, young people who truly have dreams, pursuits and are willing to achieve a career They all go to first-tier cities such as Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou to develop and pursue their dreams.

Netizen 5:

The city that you cannot stay in and the countryside that you cannot return to are the lingering pain for many young people today!

As young people, we went to the city with enthusiasm to realize our dreams, but little did we know that when we arrived, it was a completely different scene. Let’s talk about housing prices first. A small single room costs eight to nine hundred, and some cost thousands. For those young people who are not old and rely on their own money, it is unaffordable. If you have a little money, you may have to consider it, but most people choose relatively remote urban villages or places with cheap rent. They are dirty and messy, the public security is not much better, and even the transportation is not convenient.

Netizen 6:

Let’s talk about prices. Prices in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen are absolutely ridiculously high. A bowl of plain noodles in second- and third-tier areas costs four or five yuan. Basically, prices in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen are ridiculously high. It costs 8 yuan and up, and more than 12 yuan with meat. Back in my hometown in the countryside, a bowl of fish noodles only costs 6 yuan, and the portion is very generous. When you come to a first-tier city, a bowl of fish noodles costs 16 yuan, and the portion is small. It’s a bummer! Let’s talk about other stir-fry dishes, which basically start at ten yuan. However, most girls still choose to cook for themselves, of course just for dinner.

Then there is transportation. During rush hour, it's almost a deadlock.

It was supposed to take an hour to get home, but ended up being stuck in traffic for two or three hours, and I almost wanted to die!

Finally, the work is not smooth, the wages are low, the benefits are poor, and the prices cannot keep up with the price increase. No matter how well you work in a month, your salary is only that much, and your dream of earning tens of thousands a month is basically hopeless!

In this case, only by starting your own business can you reach the top of your life one day.

There are many ordinary people with extraordinary hearts, but starting a business is not so easy. Most young people are escaping from this reality. What about you?