The most authentic love letter of long-distance relationship, this is a love letter written by a girl to her boyfriend

Dear you:

See the words as the face.

I have never written anything so formal to you, but on such a special day, I still want to write something to you.

In Me Before You, I used to consider myself a very independent person. Maybe my previous experiences were too painful to look back on. I had made a plan to go on my own during my four years in college. But by chance, I met you.

Knowing you always makes me feel embarrassed to talk to others. After all, when it comes to sneakers and being in a relationship, it’s always hard to believe. When I first started, I didn’t expect that the guy I was chatting about sneakers with would become my boyfriend. From chatting about sneakers to playing games, two people who have just met have endless things to talk about. It’s like old friends who have known each other for many years are reunited after a long separation and want to share it with you. But no matter what, you should rest. Before going to bed, you told me seriously that I was really happy to see you.

After a while, you told me your thoughts intentionally or unintentionally, but I always pretended not to understand, or tried to find another topic to talk about. I thought you just had a temporary fever and you would be fine after the fever. During this time, I left home and went to college in a city hundreds of thousands of kilometers away. I tell you all my happiness and troubles, my expectations for coming to school, and my exhaustion from military training. It was during this period that our revolutionary friendship changed from good friends to boyfriend and girlfriend, a long-distance relationship spanning more than 500 kilometers.

During military training, it happened to be my birthday, the first birthday after graduating from college. You wanted to come see me, but I was really busy, so we bought our first pair of couple shoes. These are the sneakers I’ve been thinking about. We all have the same dream, to wear the same sneakers as those who love to hit the road. With sneakers, the meeting was postponed. I don’t know if the military training is over during the Mid-Autumn Festival holiday, but I have already made a travel plan during the National Day holiday. This is my favorite city, so I haven’t changed my plan. Later I learned that your birthday was on the National Day holiday. I felt guilty at the time, so we postponed the meeting. During this time, we bought the same sweater, which meant we both had a couple's worth of clothes and shoes. Finally, we scheduled the meeting for the weekend at the end of October.

I was a little nervous on the day of the meeting. You were waiting for me outside the high-speed rail station. I was still on the subway because I made a miscalculation. When I arrived in a hurry, I walked around outside the high-speed rail station for a long time and still couldn't find you, because you said outside the exit, but I understand that outside the high-speed rail station means outside the entire station. It wasn’t until you sent me photos of the things around you that I bumped into a high-speed rail station, and finally I saw you wearing the same clothes and shoes as me.

I thought it would be awkward, but actually, I wasn't. I took the subway to Jianghan Road and walked around drinking Starbucks and chatting alone on the street. When I was tired, I sat on a bench by the roadside and watched people coming and going. To be more precise, I looked at the shoes of passers-by. This hobby, which may seem strange to others, allowed us to enjoy this time. We had hot pot together in the evening, and sent me back to school the next day to continue shopping and eating. I had a great time on the weekend. Later you told me that you thought you were strong, but you couldn't control yourself when you walked into school. A boy who was a head taller than me cried in front of the camera. It was only then that I realized how uncomfortable long-distance relationships are.

The second meeting was over a weekend. The difference is that I secretly applied for leave without telling you, bought a high-speed rail ticket, and imagined how you would react when I suddenly showed up. You told me that you wanted to go home this weekend because your home is not far from school. I remember I didn't want to tell you at the last moment, but I couldn't find any excuse not to let you go home, and finally I told you. It was quite late at that time, and the lights in the dormitory were turned off, but you still called me via video, and you seemed very happy. In early December, the temperature in northern cities has reached subzero. I, a southern kid, have never experienced such cold weather, but I still dragged you to buy ice cream.

The next time we meet is during the New Year holiday. You took the train all night and waited for me downstairs in my dormitory in the morning. It was still snowing that day. For a southerner like me who had never seen snow before, it was a double blessing. Wrapping rice dumplings, playing with you at school, eating my usual meals in the cafeteria, building snowmen at school, holding hot barbecue, and saying Happy New Year. The first New Year's Eve away from home is the first New Year's Eve you spend together.

Every time we meet is a happy memory, but long-distance relationships are not always so sweet after all. We all have times when we are depressed, times when we are vulnerable, times when we cry, times when we see others eating together in class and secretly envy each other. Some people say that long-distance relationships are like keeping pets with your mobile phone, and it’s true. Many times I can only rely on my mobile phone for maintenance, but because it is you, I am willing to continue like this.

Dear you, I once went to see my favorite movie alone.

But after having you, every time there is a new movie, I will think about buying tickets for the same show when you are free, so that we can watch the movie remotely and simultaneously, and then come out to discuss it together. plot.

Dear you, I used to be able to travel to strange cities alone, but after having you, when I go to my favorite city and see my favorite scenery, I will want to share it with you. I hope I can I have the opportunity to take you to see these beautiful things.

Dear you, I used to be able to eat hot pot and drink milk tea by myself, but after having you, and eating delicious food, I will think about the next time you come to play with me. , I must take you to eat these things.

Dear you, it is really a very lucky thing to meet you. I never thought that I would meet such a lovely person, who has the same hobbies and tastes as me, who always has something to talk about, and who is always looking forward to the next time we meet.

Dear you, I often heard people say in the past that long-distance relationships are difficult, but after having you, I realized that through the little things in life, the relationship can slowly warm up to the point of Boiling point, the feeling of getting on the train and going to the city where you are is incomparable. This happiness has completely occupied me, making me willing to work hard with you in the days when I can’t see you. Wait a moment On a sunny day, we got on the train heading towards each other.

Dear you, you are the background of my life, everyone else is A, B, C and D. Such a good person belongs to me. Even though we are hundreds of kilometers apart, I know clearly that you are still breathing the air I breathe and loving the things I love. You are truly there. , the thought of this is enough to make me happy.

Dear you, I believe that there are many young lovers in this world who like us can’t be with each other for the time being. We have to work hard with them. One day, we can all watch the same movie. Movies, sharing the other side of the headphones, we can sit together and talk about this period of time, and we can go to all the planned places together.

Dear you, I love you.

Distant Me

May 20, 2019