Can first-year students take time off to travel?

Some parents asked me: Can first-year students take time off to travel? As a treasure mother and a senior educator, let me talk about my views.

Intellectually, many parents think it is inappropriate. After all, students have winter and summer vacations, as well as various small holidays such as May 11th, so they should cultivate habits ... and worry too much. Let me talk about my opinion!

If children can't keep up and are tired of learning, then this situation is not suitable for taking a long vacation. It doesn't matter if you take a day off once in a while and stroll around nearby.

The key is the mentality of parents, and the boundary between parents is clear. The views and attitudes here can refer to the plot of the movie Looking Up. In other words, when children are poor in learning, as a father, they can take their children to learn and use in life and experience the knowledge in life. Of course, there are too few such fathers. This requires parents to have excellent knowledge, great responsibility and such continuous efforts. They can't blindly follow the trend, but must hold their children in all directions according to their own situation.

There are too many parents in life, and everything is similar to a three-minute fever. They can't or can't fully understand an educational concept, but they are just toddlers. In this case, they will not achieve the expected effect, but will be self-defeating.

So it doesn't matter whether to take time off, what matters is what attitude parents pass on to their children. If the content of academic performance does not fall, it will make children feel that this is helpful for future study. This is a good thing, sharpening the knife does not miss the woodcutter.

Some parents can't speak, so they play with their children, saying, How nice it is to skip class today and have fun! Then this kind of education that makes children feel the joy of playing and cannot complement each other with learning is a failure.

Before the children go to college, let's calculate that kindergartens and primary schools are not that heavy. If many parents in kindergarten can't pay enough attention to the habit formation, parents should catch up in the first and second grades. At present, most parents' knowledge and education level can handle the problems of grade one or two.

However, from grade three to grade six, especially grade five or six, I have to face junior high school, senior high school entrance examination and then college entrance examination ... My studies are getting harder and harder every year, and the workload is getting heavier and heavier, so it is even more inconvenient to ask for leave in the future. Therefore, if we analyze it from the academic stage, it is more appropriate to take a vacation at this time.

There is a saying on the Internet that "if you don't help you with your homework, your mother will be kind and filial, and if you help you with your homework, the chicken will fly and the dog will jump", which is enough to show that there have been many conflicts between parents and children in your study.

Parents always feel that their children are not worried enough and do not actively participate in learning. Some parents may let their children only be responsible for learning. Other details of life never need children to worry about, and the pressure of life has always been borne by parents. Then at this time, a question will be exposed: what is learning for?

Among the current college students, how many college students really reported their favorite majors and soared in the professional field? How many children went to college and played as if they had finished their tasks? How many college students are engaged in their own college majors after graduation? There was a data online before: 70,000 graduate students were delivering takeout food. ...

The present situation of all this tells us that the purpose of study is not to go to college, but to live independently when I grow up, and to join the society by controlling my own ability and gain life capital.

If parents are not clear about the purpose of learning, why should they push their children to the point where they can't do it? As the saying goes, "only by looking at the world can we have a world view." From this perspective, adults can take their children to travel and see the world. When children look at the work of all classes and cultures of all regions, it is possible for them to have big dreams in their small bodies, so that they can realize the purpose and significance of learning, and they may have the strength to learn by themselves. Don't parents have to spend more time urging their children?

Now every family has one or two children, and parents should actively participate in their daily work in order to raise their children. We know that children have many holidays, but who would have thought that their parents' holidays are not so easy?

Some parents have worked hard to save an annual leave, maybe a week or half a month. What should parents do if they want to travel at this time? Do you want to leave the children at home?

So parents are also very embarrassed. No parents really delay their children's study for fun, but this annual leave is coming, and there are too many necessities. I hope teachers and other parents can respect and understand.