How to do the first blind date?

Tell me about my recent blind date experience, which is really ups and downs.

The thing is, my aunt's company has a post-90 s female colleague who is also from my hometown. She is a receptionist, and she is very beautiful. She is very considerate in receiving people and entertaining guests. Many people pursue her, but she doesn't like it. She doesn't want to marry a foreigner. She said that she wanted to marry someone close to her hometown, so she didn't succeed. Just during the Spring Festival, menstruation talked about blind date, saying that she introduced it to me, saying that this girl is gentle and virtuous, cheerful and hardworking. What about you? You have a car and a house, and your salary is high. You two will succeed. When we meet for the first time, you must be handsome and generous, and you must leave a very good impression on girls.

In order to prepare for this blind date, I also worked hard to buy shoes, clothes, trousers and perm my hair, which can be said to be a makeover. I also read a lot of dating skills, chat topics, precautions and so on introduced by Tik Tok and headlines. The day before the blind date, my aunt told me that I must dress handsome and generous. I have found a place for you. Have morning tea at Kirin Hotel tomorrow 10, and leave early to reserve a table. Don't lose my manners. I said, don't worry, I'm all set.

I sent a message to my aunt early the next morning, and the hotel closed down because of the epidemic. Fortunately, there is a Man Chun Garden nearby that also drinks morning tea, so I booked a table, called my aunt and ordered some Cantonese breakfasts. When they arrived at the place after ten o'clock, I told them to sit down, introduced each other, gave them the menu and breakfast, and ordered whatever they wanted. Then we started chatting, praising each other, talking and laughing, saying that this dish is really delicious, and that there are strange things between colleagues, travel, hometown and so on. At this time, we have to say that the breakfast in Guangdong is really uncovered and delicious, and it is also crowded with people who drink morning tea, praising Cantonese people for really enjoying it. There was a lot of noise, and it was strange that we had a good chat. Even my aunt praised you repeatedly. You two are really destined to be husband and wife, which surprised her. She said that when you two talk, the atmosphere is very good, just like a boyfriend and girlfriend who haven't seen each other for years, and you haven't even finished talking. At about noon 12, we added WeChat to each other and exchanged phone numbers, so I invited her to play in Shenzhen Talent Park. Menstruation started her escape mode and said that she would go to her house for dinner at night.

I drove her to the park, talking and laughing in the car. I want to buy some snacks when I arrive at the park. As a result, there are no snacks nearby I just walked and talked with two bottles of water. Tired, I sat on the lawn and continued to talk happily about travel, eating, drinking, playing, school, home, childhood and other topics. In the process, we looked at each other and exchanged eyes for two or three hours. After 4 o'clock, she said that the quilt was still hanging in the place where she lived, and she would not go to menstruation's house for dinner. She also made an appointment with friends in the evening and wanted to go back early. I said yes, then let's eat something nearby and go back. She said no, she is still full, and there will be a big meal in the evening, so she won't waste money. But I took her to Vientiane City and saw several noodle restaurants. She didn't like it, said she wanted to go back, and gave up. Then I'm going to drive her back. As a result, I saw a serious traffic jam in navigation. It took me almost two hours to go back, while the subway took more than 50 minutes. She said that if I go back by subway, I won't have to. Then I sent her to the subway station and took the subway back. I am too rational at this time.

After she went back, I told my aunt about the afternoon, and she called me stupid. How can you let her go back by subway, even if it takes three hours to send the girl back? I bow my head to be a good boy and apologize. After about 50 minutes, the girl sent me a message saying that she had gone home, and I also sent her a message saying, I'm sorry, I should have sent you back. I was wrong. I invited you to dinner to make up for it. She said it doesn't matter, just send me back next time. So I sent a message and talked. She was busy, so I drove home. An hour and a half after I got home, I called her on WeChat and said I was home, and I apologized to her. I invited her to play and eat together on Sunday. She said she didn't have time and asked her friends to play together. I know the bedding is not ready.

I sent her a message the next day and replied on the third, fifth and second day. I didn't respond on the third and fifth days. I can't talk until Saturday. I asked her to play at the weekend, and she said I had an appointment. She also said I had an appointment. I said I would make an appointment next week, but she said we would wait. Menstruation is also very concerned about our situation at this time. She called me and said that you should try to catch up, chat with her more and care more about her. Then I told her it might not work. My aunt said no, that girl said she had a crush on you, so don't back down. You can't catch up with such a good girl. Go home and don't call me aunt. I really have mixed feelings at this time, so I crustily skin of head and said, well, I will try my best to catch up. In the next few days, I sent her a WeChat, and occasionally there was a reply or no reply, so I called her on WeChat and didn't answer. Send me a message later and say, what is it? I said I had something to tell you, and then I called her on WeChat, and she refused. Then she returned to WeChat and said it was late, so she needed to wash and sleep, and then she chatted. I sent her messages these two days, and she was worried and never came back. I don't know what happened. Am I not working hard enough?

Dear friends, any suggestions? Give me some advice. What should we do next?