Advice from those who have experienced it: Saving money is the only "good medicine" to promote the relationship between middle-aged couples! What do you think?

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Money does not bring us peace of life, but it does bring us convenience in life. These conveniences make our lives peaceful most of the time.

We envy people who can go abroad to find a large villa with a separate courtyard to live in. They enjoy the swimming pool in their own home, and they have their own outdoor courtyard where they can drink tea, relax and play;

< p>We envy those who can occasionally go into seclusion, tending flowers and plants, be like a wandering crane, cook by themselves, feel the smoke curling up from the kitchen, and feel the slowed down life;

We also envy those people who are exposed to the sun every day in the circle of friends Couples who travel somewhere may not have the pressure of mortgages or raising children, and their lives are often filled with laughter...

Most of the lives we envy are filled with money. . How to settle abroad without money? How can I plant beans under the southern mountain and pick chrysanthemums under the eastern fence if I don’t have money? How can you take a walk-in tour without money?

So, in the final analysis, we come to the conclusion: money is important! Money plays an unexpected role in a couple's relationship. Sister Hong once talked to us about how money can change a couple and a marriage. 02

Sister Hong suffered some injustices when she married Zhiyong. Zhiyong’s family conditions are average. Looking at the living environment of her future parents-in-law, Sister Hong can’t bear to ask for anything more, but how to deal with herself? Parents are a problem. After thinking about it, Sister Hong and Zhiyong used their private money as betrothal gifts.

When you have no money, nothing is pleasing to your eyes and nothing you do is awkward. Starting from the second year of marriage, Hong Jie and Zhigang’s work was not going well, and their lives were tight, especially with their children. After the birth, the pressure was even greater.

Both parents are unable to exert themselves, and sometimes they are still a drag. The two people who are tortured by firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea have no passion and interest. Zhiyong and Hongjie open and close their eyes every day. She was thinking about how to make money, but every time the calculation came to an end, Sister Hong felt very sad. She had worked hard for a year, but she still had no money!

They are not lazy people. In such anxious days, Sister Hong really has to live one day at a time, and quarreling is naturally a common thing for the couple!

Later, the children gradually grew up, and although life was still tight, the situation of Sister Hong and Zhiyong changed drastically. Sister Hong said that this change changed their life policy from "making money" to "saving money".

In the past few years, they worked hard to make money and were busy every day just to make money. They ignored each other's feelings and had almost no chance to communicate with each other. They spent most of their time arguing about where did all the money you earned go? , what are you busy with outside every day? 03

Do you really have this home in your eyes? Until one day, the child asked them how long it had been since they went shopping together as a family. They finally realized that in order to make money over the years, they had lost many opportunities to hug each other and gave many children negative emotions. Life was not what it should be. Like this.

Later, Sister Hong and Zhiyong decided to change their goals from making money to saving money. At the end of every month, two people sort out their savings. How much money they earned this month, how much they spent, and where the money was spent.

The goal of saving money next month gradually changed from once a month to once a quarter. At the end of that year, the two of them settled the settlement and actually had tens of thousands of yuan more than last year. , Sister Hong felt the benefits of saving money for the first time!

What makes Sister Hong and Zhiyong even more happy is that during this year of mutual understanding and communication, the relationship between the couple has rapidly heated up, their fighting spirit is high, and they are full of hope for their future life. They decided to take their children out to play once a year and experience life.

Now, their lives are on the right track, and they no longer have to fight about money, or get anxious and angry about money! 04

For this reason, Sister Hong also specially used herself as an example to tell her relatives and friends: Don’t worry about making money, try to save money together as a husband and wife, feel the happiness after working together, and feel the fruits of hard work. The joy of “fruitfulness”.

In fact, not only Sister Hong, but also friends have had deep feelings. My friend Xiaoming has a rich family. He has been pampered since he was a child and has developed the habit of spending money lavishly. Before getting married, Xiao Ming relied on her family. Although her monthly salary was only two to three thousand, she lived a life of five to six thousand.

At that time, Xiao Ming did not want to live his life after getting married. When he was really independent and living his own life, Xiao Ming felt the maliciousness of life!

Her husband does not make much money. He has 5,000 yuan left after paying the rent every month. Xiaoming still maintains the status quo and spends what he earns. However, the life of two people is not as good as that of one person, and their expenses are all costs. Doubling the number, the lives of the two began to be stretched.

The days when there is no money are hotbeds of quarrels for couples. Because of the lack of money, many things go out of order.

It can be as small as buying fruits or as big as buying appliances, two people can get into a fight! Xiao Ming began to feel, when did life start to become so difficult?

After careful reflection, Xiaoming began to realize the problem. In the past, she relied on her parents, so she could maintain a good life even with a low salary. However, since she got married, she spent money more and more. There are many, but what you can earn can never keep up with what you can spend!

Another big problem is that Xiao Ming thinks that the influence of money after marriage is too great, causing both of them to forget about their relationship. Xiao Ming thought of a good way to kill two birds with one stone, that is, start to figure out each other's expenses, make a small treasury together, and then save money together!

Less than half a year after doing this, Xiao Ming felt that his marriage had changed.

The first very obvious change is that Xiao Ming has money in his hands. Once he has money, he will have confidence. Once he has confidence, he will not worry about so much, and the number of quarrels will be much less. , the relationship between husband and wife skyrocketed.

In fact, this is what happens between husband and wife. Poor and humble couples suffer from everything. Although money is not everything, money can solve most of the problems in this world. Once there are fewer things, the number of quarrels between husband and wife will also decrease, and the relationship will naturally heat up.

Saving money is the only "good medicine" to promote the relationship between middle-aged couples! I hope those couples who quarrel as a daily thing will try to save money, maybe keep saving, and the world will be wonderful!