Why do some people in WeChat never send friends?

In today's era of big data, daily life is inseparable from the Internet, and almost everyone can't do without mobile phones. At present, men, women and children basically have WeChat, and many people like to record their lives in the circle of WeChat friends, including taking beautiful photos, eating food, showing love and expressing their feelings. However, there are always some people who click into their circle of friends with little content, which is particularly mysterious and particularly cold. In fact, people who basically don't make friends are often the following five types of people, and nine times out of ten. First, people with rich spiritual world We usually brush friends, and we can observe that people who often send friends are usually extroverted in reality. Extroverts are eager to communicate with others, and they can get a strong sense of satisfaction by communicating with others. For them, making friends is a very comfortable thing. Studies have shown that the energy of such circle of friends activists comes from the attention and attention of others. On the contrary, those who don't like to make friends have a rich spiritual world of themselves, and their energy doesn't need to come from the outside world. People with rich spiritual world usually have a high sense of self-worth, and such people will not try to gain the attention and attention of the outside world. Such people are more willing to enrich themselves and build themselves in real life than to share their own dynamics in a circle of friends. Most people who don't like making friends in life belong to this type. 2. Career-oriented successful people who cherish time. They cherish time, pursue high efficiency, and try their best to spend all their time on their work and achieve valuable things. This kind of high-level elite is a matter of millions of minutes. They will spend their time on the cutting edge and plan their work and life in order. What to do at what time every day, and customize various schedules. Making friends is a waste of time to create value for them. Bill Gates won't waste three seconds to pick up 100 dollars on the ground, because he could have created more than 100 dollars and 10 times the value in three seconds when Bill Gates bent down to pick up the money. For such people, brushing a circle of friends is equivalent to wasting time to create value, so they will not spend their time on these meaningless things.

Third, the mind is delicate, thinking that too many people think that the online world is true or false, and sometimes fake things can be said to be true by public opinion. For these delicate and sentimental people, they always think more than others, worrying whether this circle of friends will cause misunderstanding and express their original intentions badly. Thought and thought, changed and changed, and finally gave up. Not only that, because the circle of friends is not only for family and friends, but also for some bosses, colleagues and people who are not familiar with it. People with delicate thoughts consider it comprehensively, fearing that they have sent a simple dynamic, which may be other suggestive news in the eyes of others. For example, if you simply send a message about travel, these people will worry that the boss will think they are lazy and don't work hard, but they will look like showing off to their colleagues. So in order to reduce unnecessary troubles and negative news, such people choose silence in the circle of friends. Fourth, people with withdrawn personalities In our real life, there is always a kind of people who usually don't talk much and like to be alone in everything. They are withdrawn, so they have few friends and are unwilling to make friends with others. They enjoy their time alone. It is precisely because WeChat has a very important function of communicating with friends. In real life, it doesn't want to communicate with people around it, so it won't take the initiative to chat with friends or share its life in the online circle of friends. So this kind of withdrawn person basically doesn't send a circle of friends, but is more like diving party in a circle of friends. Fifth, some people in Buddhism are lazy. The dynamics of their circle of friends are basically updated once or twice a year. These people are not unwilling to make friends, just because they are lazy. They find it troublesome to make friends. Sending friends requires careful copywriting and beautiful pictures. After posting, they have to pay attention to the comments and reply to them. It is troublesome to think about it, so it is troublesome not to send a circle of friends at all. -from the first psychology