Many friends have bought old-age houses in the suburbs, but will they live in the suburbs after retirement?

My eldest brother bought a foundation in the suburbs and built an old-age house. Now it is in ruins.

Before retiring, Big Brother made arrangements for his life after retirement. He has been longing for the farm life with flowers, vegetables, dogs and chickens in the courtyard, and for the old world with fresh, quiet and peaceful air. So he invested a lot, bought a piece of land in his hometown and made a two-story building with a yard in front and back. After the house was built, Big Brother was overjoyed. He runs a family business, planting all kinds of trees in the yard and melons and fruits in the backyard. From time to time, eldest brother rushes to the car to live with his sister-in-law for a few days and live a fairy life.

After retirement, eldest brother asked eldest sister-in-law to live in a small building with him, but eldest sister-in-law didn't want to. Because my sister-in-law dances square dance every night and plays with her sisters, where she is a stranger. I had no choice but to go alone, only to find that mosquitoes didn't talk much in the countryside on a hot day. When the power went out, the air conditioner was not used, and there was no one for a long time. What is frozen in the refrigerator is rotten tap water. Weeds are overgrown in front of and behind the house, so it's annoying to tidy up once.

Later, eldest brother got gout and always needed an injection to relieve pain. He lives in the country. His foot is hurt and he can't drive. He got an electric car for a long time and looked for a hospital for a long time, which almost killed him. You have to run a long way to buy some fish, which is completely inconvenient in the city.

After two years, eldest brother and sister-in-law didn't want to live in a country building and felt uncomfortable and inconvenient. My eldest brother's building has been abandoned and I want to sell it. The low price is not worthwhile, and the high price has become a hot potato.

The ideal is full and the reality is skinny. Let's just say that the ideal is full. Many friends bought a house for the aged in the suburbs, thinking of living in the past when they retire. By the way, they raised some flowers, ordered some vegetables, stayed away from the secular world, and even learned from Tao Yuanming's "picking chrysanthemums under the east fence and seeing Nanshan leisurely", which was beautiful and looked really beautiful.

Besides, the reality is very skinny. As a traditional agricultural society, even urban people are basically rural people for three generations. If you want to return to the countryside, you must first ask yourself, why did you escape from the countryside in the first place? Of course, there are many reasons, such as low land production, less money and insufficient food; For example, the supporting facilities are incomplete, the infrastructure is imperfect, and transportation, life and medical care are inconvenient; Wait, I really want to live. There is no heating in winter, no air conditioning in summer, mosquito bites and a nest of snakes and rats are all trivial matters. Fixing in one area is enough for you to handle the relationship between left and right.

After all, Comrade Marx said that man is the sum of social relations. No matter how tired a society is, it cannot be separated from society. If you really go to the countryside, drink a little wine and rub a little hemp, you may not find the right friends. Looking back at the situation of fighting the epidemic at home, we will know what we need most besides eating and drinking.

In short, it is a good idea to buy a house in the suburbs for the elderly. However, when you really go to live after retirement, you will know that living in a small place may be enjoyable, but living for a long time may still be unrealistic.

The natural beauty of the suburbs

It makes people feel relaxed and happy.

So you bought a house

Determine that providing for the aged is the most livable.

The days after retirement

You have a relatively healthy body.

Feel a different style

have a breath of fresh air

Are you in a good mood?

It's just that over time.

Weakening day by day

There will be problems.

Seeing a doctor is a big problem.

Large hospitals gather in the city.

The road is long and the traffic is heavy.

It takes energy.

The correct way is to take a taxi.

Plus seeing a doctor

It costs a lot of RMB.

Go once

Really exhausted.

It was too late to regret it then.

There is a feeling of regret, and the idea and reality are not suitable.

Before I retire, I yearned to buy a house in the suburbs and live an idyllic life.

I dream of having a small yard and vegetable fields, and it is also good to grow flowers and vegetables.

Cut a handful of spring leeks, pull out some Chinese cabbage, stir-fry egg sauce, eat some sorghum rice and water, and you will have an appetite.

Set up a grape trellis in the yard. Get a rocking chair in summer, drink tea, smell the grass in the country and enjoy the cool. It feels quite moist.

Dogs crow, roosters crow, hens lay eggs, sparrows nest on the eaves, and purple swallows circle the beams. It feels very desirable and whimsical!

Install a table tennis table, invite some friends, play ball, barbecue skewers, drink some beer and enjoy your old age.

However, this is not the case. I am used to living in the city. The park is bustling, the home is quiet and clean, there are crowds everywhere, and shopping malls are just strolling around. Classmates and friends also live in a relatively concentrated place and often move.

Really bought a house and lived in the suburbs. I'm tired, but you can't stand mosquito bites in summer, and it's still cold in winter. How painful!

Then some people will ask, how can people stay in the countryside? I can tell you that people's endurance is different in different living environments. They are used to that kind of life.

Another point is that people in the city are most afraid of loneliness, and their circle of friends is in the city! Too lonely, people will be in a daze, will be stupid.

I have a friend who goes to the suburbs to raise geese. As a result, the goose didn't make any money, and people were stupid. Once we went to see him, watching him sitting at the gate from a distance, staring straight at the empty place, in a daze! He couldn't bear to part with us when we left! Later, I couldn't hold on to it, and I stopped raising geese. After getting rid of them, I returned the rented house and returned to the city life.

Question: Do you really want to live in the suburbs after retirement? I can definitely tell you that I will regret it when I go. Don't buy it. It is no problem to take a short trip to a small resort.

To tell the truth, when people are old, they prefer rural life and scenes where there is no noise and no people come and go. Therefore, if many people choose elegant places to support the elderly, it is an understandable choice.

20 13 bought a building for his parents in the city. After buying this building, no matter how I persuaded him, my parents were reluctant to part with his bungalow and insisted on taking the bus. Go back to the bungalow to pickle sauerkraut and farm. Anyway, in my mother's words, this life is the best. It is most comfortable to live in a bungalow in summer, so this lifestyle has continued until now. My parents say that we are like migratory birds and go back to the building in winter. It's really good to go back to the bungalow in summer.

I think people will live, but not necessarily for a long time, because:

1. When they really retire, various objective reasons will shake their determination to live.

2. A home for the aged, as its name implies, is a house for the elderly to rest and recuperate. People in the city buy old-age housing in the suburbs, and they are interested in the geographical location of the house, the surrounding natural environment and the acceptable price of the house. And people just ignore some variables when buying a house:

First, whether the body is allowed to live far away from cities, children's relatives and familiar big hospitals.

Second, do you really want to live in a completely strange, quiet and secular environment?

Third, whether the family can let go of their children and grandchildren.

To sum up, most people who buy old-age housing in the suburbs will live there, but few people live there for a long time. Therefore, it is more appropriate to call the houses bought in the suburbs seasonal houses, leisure houses and holiday houses.

Tell two practical things at home:

1. My father-in-law is a retired teacher and my mother-in-law is a retired doctor. 1997 During the Spring Festival, the couple returned to their hometown, Zhongshan Township, qianxi county, Bijie Prefecture, Guizhou Province. On the second day of the Lunar New Year, my father-in-law had a sudden cerebral hemorrhage. The sons and nephews, under the command of their mother-in-law, carried their father-in-law to the township hospital. However, at that time, the medical equipment of township hospitals was backward and could only be rushed to county hospitals. Unfortunately, my father-in-law died on the way.

If they spend the New Year at the home of Zhaiji Community at the back door of Guizhou Medical College, less than ten minutes' walk from the affiliated hospital of Medical College, their father-in-law will be saved hopefully.

My husband and wife now live in Jinhua Park in Guiyang, which is a good school district. Because my family is a Dink family, many friends laugh at us for wasting school district places. Because the children can enter a good school after buying a house, the second-hand housing transaction in this community is active and the price is relatively high.

My former colleagues of the same age are all around 50 years old, and their children are all in college or working. The school district room means little to it. So many old neighbors sold their houses and bought a house with the same area in a bad school district, from which they got a high price difference.

My husband and wife also have this plan. Just as they were preparing to change rooms, the new site of the provincial people's hospital, the top hospital in this province, was planned to start construction nearby.

The new provincial doctor is less than ten minutes' walk from my home. Through the window at home, you can see two buildings built by the provincial doctors first.

So, we completely gave up the plan of changing rooms. Because the best old-age housing is not in the countryside, but near a good hospital.

If you are in a foreign land in the suburbs, you won't live long.

Imagine that you can grow vegetables, the soil is barren, the seedlings are thin and the fertilizer is dirty.

Weeds are overgrown, mosquitoes breed, and there may be dung soup in the culvert.

The infrastructure is incomplete and the surrounding noise is like a playground.

Most of the neighbors are Philistines, and no relatives or friends come to visit.

Stay away from children and units, and be bullied and scolded by your mother.

When buying a house, I want to be beautiful, I am alone.

Once you get sick, retreat. It is ridiculous to buy a house at a low price.

I am one of them. I have lived in the most lively place in the center of Shanghai since I was a child. I have lived near the Town God Temple for 55 years, but how many times a year can I go to the crowded Town God Temple to play or go shopping? Won't go! Except friends and relatives from other places! Nanjing Road on the Bund, which is close to my home, will not be visited once or twice a year. What should I do? Shopping? Expensive! Going to see the scenery, too many people? Seriously, what I want most after retirement is a garden patio or a private plot in front and a place of more than ten square meters behind. Start at sunrise and end at sunset! Self-cultivation! A pot of tea, plant some flowers and raise some birds! It's time to meet all of them after 60! Netizens said it would be inconvenient to stay away from the city. In Shanghai, all first-class hospitals have branches in the suburbs, and there are 16 subway lines. Take a taxi in case of emergency, and Didi will be at home in minutes. What are you afraid of?

I have no experience and no money to buy a house in the suburbs for the elderly. I can only say that during the 20 years from 60 to 80, do you still have enough spirit and physical strength? Planting flowers, vegetables, hedges and chrysanthemums can be done in the countryside, but it's hard for you ... old people don't join in the fun, but they like popularity. Personally, I don't like the environment where there are many trees and few people. I live wherever it is comfortable and convenient! The last part of the road is not easy to walk.