For those who work and study outside, how can you put down a lot of tiring parties and social events during the Spring Festival and really spend the New Year with your parents?

One thought of the mountains, one thought of family.

In modern society, the pace of life is getting faster and faster, and we spend less and less time with our parents.

Some time ago, on the super speaker stage, a speaker said, "You grow up with me, and I grow old with you." This sentence evoked the memories of countless people and moved many people. .

Two days ago, I saw a story about a father and son eating together, and then there was a bird staying outside the window. The father asked his son: What is that outside the window? The son replied, bird. The father asked again: What is outside the window? The son said again: It is a bird. The father asked again: What is that outside the window? The son said impatiently: Dad, it’s a bird, everyone said it’s a bird. The father sighed and said: When I was a child, there was a bird on the tree outside the window. You didn’t know what it was, so you kept asking me what it was. You asked me 14 times, and I answered you seriously over and over again.

After reading this story, I felt very depressed. Looking back, I have never had a good meal or a good chat with my parents since I started studying.

After returning home during the Chinese New Year, I suddenly found that my parents were much older. My mother washed her hair at night, and then I helped her blow dry her hair, and I found that there were already a lot of gray hairs. Over the years, my parents have grown older and I have grown up.

When I go home during the Chinese New Year, there will be many parties. How can I refuse them?

Actually, you don’t have to go to all parties. You should learn to say no. Having dinner with your parents may be more enjoyable and meaningful than having dinner with your friends. You can choose to have dinner with friends at other times. During the Spring Festival, you should spend time with your parents.

During the Spring Festival, turn off your mobile phone, have a reunion dinner at home with your parents, and go traveling together. Put down all gatherings and really spend a good New Year with your parents.

The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop; the child wants to be nourished but cannot be kissed.