The female boss gave me a bonus of 50,000 yuan and asked me to accompany her on a trip. Do you want to go?

If you are a gay man, your female boss gives you 50,000 yuan to travel alone with her. My first feeling is that you have encountered an unspoken rule in the workplace.

In the workplace, there are many male bosses who have unspoken rules for their female subordinates. Of course, there will also be female bosses with unspoken rules for male subordinates. It must be that your appearance is very good, which made the female boss have thoughts about you, so she made this move. I hope I can travel with you and develop feelings while being alone.

In this case, if you accept the 50,000 yuan, your female boss will think that you have acquiesced in this behavior. If the man is unmarried and the woman is unmarried, it’s okay if you really have a crush on your female boss. If you don’t have such thoughts, I suggest you protect yourself.

Maybe you think my thinking is narrow, but in fact, besides the first situation, there is another possibility. That is, your boss needs you to cooperate with him in performing a very important job, and he wants you to keep it secret, and this 50,000 yuan is your hush fee.

In addition to the above two possibilities, there is also the last one, which is that the 50,000 yuan is actually the travel expenses for you and your boss. I'll give you the money first. You can deposit it into your card or bring cash directly. You need to pay for food and accommodation when you arrive at your destination. It is better to have this money with you for settlement at any time than to have the boss pay it personally.

Actually, among these possibilities, I guess the first one is more likely. Maybe it’s because I have a stronger sense of prevention. Because in fact, I also encountered unspoken rules in the workplace once in my career, and I chose to resign directly at that time. I am very disgusted with this kind of errand where business and private matters are mixed together. After all, everyone is here to work. I hope you don’t encounter this kind of situation.