The blind date met four times and asked me to travel. I said it was not convenient to spend the night, so I could go anywhere, and I was afraid I couldn't book two rooms.

This issue involves personal privacy and freedom of choice. If you don't want to spend the night with him, you should communicate well in advance and tell him what you think. This can avoid unnecessary embarrassment and misunderstanding.

You can communicate your thoughts and concerns frankly with your blind date, for example, you don't want to spend the night with him, or you may need to book two rooms. You can discuss your travel plans in your together to make sure that you both feel comfortable and respectful.

In addition, if you feel uncomfortable or uncertain about the behavior of the blind date, you can consider asking him directly, such as "Why did you invite me to travel?" Or "What do you expect from our relationship?" Through direct communication, you can better understand his thoughts and attitudes in order to make more informed decisions.