The child was tired of studying, so he quit his job and took his child on a trip. What secrets were hidden behind this behavior?

The child was tired of studying, so he quit his job and took his child on a trip. What secrets were hidden behind this behavior?

In my office, many parents will complain that after their children enter puberty and development, they can no longer talk to them properly. They also think that their children are becoming more and more strange and they have never met them. I used to feel like I had an all-purpose translator in my heart, and I could understand the importance of whatever the child said. But now, even in face-to-face communication, I still don’t know what the child is thinking. How to get into the heart of children has become a big problem for most parents of adolescent children.

In the north, a 14-year-old boy was tired of studying and refused to study. After his father, a company executive, resigned, he drove his children in a RV and slowly embarked on a happy learning journey. After traveling for more than 20 days, the two of them gradually changed from being silent to each other to talking about everything. By exploring the universe, she began to get into each other's hearts. Although this matter has mixed reviews on the Internet, I have seen four basic thinking logics for communicating with children from this father. Treat puberty as a good time to strengthen the parent-child relationship

Many parents are afraid when talking about their children's puberty, and even before their children reach puberty, they begin to feel anxious and uneasy. In fact, rather than worrying about the arrival of the child's puberty period, it is better to regard the puberty period as a date than to regard it as an opportunity to change the parent-child relationship in the future, or even change the relationship between family members.

This father who took his children on vacation had been very busy at work before the onset of puberty and had no time to think about his children. When a child doesn't like studying, he slowly starts to think of ways to think about this relationship. He persuaded his family to leave his job and travel with his children. Along the way, he changed not only the children's cognition and views on learning, but also a process of him getting into the children's hearts.

There are no perfect parents in this world, but when children see their parents’ continuous efforts to become stronger parents, it is enough to cause positive harm to the children. When children find that their parents solve problems, they do not regard the child as the cause of the difficulty. Instead, they think about the problem themselves. Under the premise of solving the difficulty, the child will continue to try to find the cause of the difficulty personally. During this special period of adolescence, children need encouragement and support from their parents. When parents can be their children's counselors, their children will become a hardworking, independent and confident person in the future.