Why is it easier to have steadfast love while traveling?

I want to travel with you one day, to places I have never been before, without luggage, without a backpack, without a computer, let alone a mobile phone. We can stop wherever we go. The best thing in my heart is to spend time with you on the road, catching the last shooting stars, sitting on the top of the highest mountain, listening to music, talking about movies, eating... When the sun rises over the mountain stream, I am not old, but you are still. -----"Up"

Love is always tied to travel, which is why there are so many places for romance in the world. Why is it easier to fall in love with someone while traveling?

It depends on the face

We went on a trip. In a short period of time, why did we feel that the other person was truly in love, and why did we suddenly feel excited.

It is inevitable that when you fall in love at first sight, you will fall in love with your face. Every single brother and sister who travels is free to let themselves go, especially the young ladies. Naturally, they have to put on all kinds of fairy dresses, leave the cubicle, and even their smiles are full of energy. Naturally, they can The little brothers who were attracted were bumping into each other.

How long does it take to fall in love at first sight? Weisman, a professor at the University of Hertfordshire, has done research and found that it takes 30 seconds to fall in love at first sight, and women’s judgment time is even shorter (after all, young ladies are the real beauty control)

Psychologist’s Research has found that compared to partners who have not experienced love at first sight, the emotional intensity provided by love at first sight often makes them more willing to spend time together, and also lays the foundation for the subsequent "realistic foundation" (Ben-Zeev,

2013).

2. Break away from the past

People’s perceptions are not so sensitive in a familiar environment. In a familiar living environment, everything can be processed in a pattern, and brains and feelings are of no use. But when you go to a strange city, different languages, different customs, everything stimulates your senses, as if even the wind is sweet (haha, so like the smell of love). In such an atmosphere, the whole person's All the functions are mobilized. How can I not be full of curiosity when I suddenly meet a little brother or sister who has a special appetite? The uncertainty of the unknown journey arouses the desire for exploration in men and women to the greatest extent. This emotion will promote the secretion of hormones in the body.

3. High frequency of appearance

Psychological research shows that the higher the frequency of a person's appearance, the easier it is for people to get high. During travel, the frequency of contact can be increased in a short period of time. Unlike office workers like us, we have to wait for Saturdays and Sundays to make an appointment. The time gap is too long, and the good impression accumulated last time is almost exhausted. Moreover, during the trip, the heroism of boys (planning the route, helping to get something, etc.) and the gentleness and considerateness of girls (various travel essentials, stable emotions) can double the good feelings during this journey. .

4. Passion

In his "The Art of Love", the Roman poet Ovid gave a very interesting suggestion to men: bring the woman you like to the arena. go for a date. There, women can easily be aroused (psychologists call it "physiological arousal"). She usually thinks that the lover accompanying her has aroused her excitement, so this psychological excitement deepens her love and emotion for the lover beside her.

There are bound to be unexpected situations during travel, such as almost missing the bus, running all the way, or the excitement of riding on a yacht. The accompanying acceleration of the heartbeat can easily be mistaken for the feeling of love. Oops. It’s the feeling of heartbeat, and there happens to be someone beside you that you like.

5. Similarity

We will be attracted to people who are similar to ourselves, whether it is personality characteristics, Whether it’s values, experiences, background, interests and tastes, or anything else, we prefer people with whom we have a lot in common (Barelds & Barelds-Dijkstra, 2007). Whether they realize it or not, people still tend to believe that similar people are less likely to have conflicts and contradictions, and it is easier to build trust and achieve mutual understanding and communication (Ben-Zeev, 2013).

People tend to project their feelings onto people who are similar to themselves. When traveling, the same time and place have been selected by God. There is no doubt that the reason why you are able to meet here is because you turned around and broke your neck in your previous life, so you had the fate to meet here.

Then such a coincidence, ah, it turns out that you also like photography so much...

6. Comprehensiveness

Qian Zhongshu said, if you love someone, go with her Travel, if you still love each other after traveling, then get married

Travel is equivalent to a talent tester. In a short period of time, you can quickly and deeply understand a person's talents, overall view, leadership, and execution ability. , quick wit, quick wit, etc. These abilities will make you shine in the eyes of your traveling companions!

Love should be implemented in all aspects of life. When encountering difficulties, one will actively think of solutions and the other will encourage you with gentle words. I think both of us are angels with halos. When we return to daily life, these The shining points can also play a lubricating role when facing daily trivial matters, making life smooth and smooth!

So, if you love her, take her on a trip with you!