My girlfriend said that there is no bride price for marriage, but she must give her parents 10 thousand yuan to travel every year. Is this reasonable?

Hello, my married girlfriend said no bride price, but after marriage, she will spend 10 thousand yuan to travel to her parents every year. Is this reasonable? I think this is reasonable, but the pressure on you in the future may be even greater than the pressure on getting married and giving the bride price now. It seems good not to give a bride price now. In the future, you will give their parents 10,000 yuan in travel expenses every year, which most people can't afford, so I suggest you consider it carefully, which is reasonable but not necessarily.

This is reasonable because we should do what we should to honor our parents. Even if your girlfriend doesn't ask you to give 10 thousand yuan a year, you should try your best to give some money to your parents-in-law every year after you get married. Your girlfriend asked you to do this before she got married because she was afraid that her parents would not be able to take care of themselves when they were old, so she gave them 10 thousand yuan to solve their living difficulties. She said it was money for traveling, but she was not sure whether her parents would travel. If the family conditions are not very good, it is unreasonable to spend 1000 yuan a year to travel. Nowadays, young people dare not spend 10 thousand yuan to travel, and when they are old, they have no income and pension and are unwilling to spend 10 thousand yuan to travel.

According to the normal calculation now, the bride price of your marriage with your girlfriend is about100000, so this100000 is only enough for ten years, and you have to spend extra money after ten years. Your girlfriend's parents are still young, and there is still a long way to go. Do you have the courage to agree to your girlfriend's request? If you discuss with your girlfriend, it is still reasonable and cost-effective to give this 10 thousand yuan a year after her parents retire. Retirement at 60 is almost 75 years old, because people are not allowed to travel long distances after 75 years old, and they can enjoy their old age at home. So it's 15 years, and it's always 150 thousand, which is still in stages. That's more cost-effective and reasonable than the current 15 th Five-Year Plan.

I suggest you promise your girlfriend first. After all, it is more important for you two to get married now. After you get married, you can distribute this 10 thousand yuan to your parents according to your economic income and family conditions. You should give permission financially, which is your filial performance. The economy doesn't allow you to discuss giving less and giving it later. Anyway, you are married, why don't you get a divorce? So I think your girlfriend's request is acceptable and within a reasonable range.