What if you don't want children after marriage?

As a mother who just gave birth to a child, when she saw this question, the first thought in her mind was, can a woman really not have children if she doesn't want to? I don't know whether the topic is male or female, but whether it is male or female, my birth experience may provide you with some reference.

After you have a baby, you should be prepared to upgrade (something may happen at any time, I am). First of all, we should go to the hospital for prenatal examination to determine whether the child is healthy. Progesterone and other indicators were important indicators three months ago. At that time, because progesterone was low, progesterone was injected from 7 weeks 1 1 week. After that, sugar screening should control high sugar, so I have to control sugar throughout pregnancy.

Are you a man or a woman?

Tell you two real things around you.

When a friend of one of my friends married her ex-husband, they agreed with Dink, and they never disagreed. As a result, when the woman was 4 1 year old, her ex-husband said that she wanted to have children, and she was at a loss. She went to the hospital and all her efforts were in vain. The man asked for a divorce, and they divorced. A few days later, the woman's ex-husband was pregnant.

Another is my classmate's aunt, who joined the army in her early years under difficult conditions. She never got pregnant again after giving birth. The man vowed that he didn't care about not having children, and they went through ups and downs until half a century. Aunt accompanied the man all the way to a higher level, and her eyes were dim. As a result, the man said that he had a child of 1 1 year old, and he wanted to give the child a future.

You see, Dink is not that easy, especially for women, and it can never be fair.

So, are you a man or a woman? Because I am a woman, I ignore the man for the time being, and only say to you as a woman: Dink is risky, so you should be careful when making a decision.

Maybe everyone has their own way of living, as long as they don't regret it. Nothing can't be changed, because there is a temporary concept and lifestyle. It is a disadvantage for women not to have children. Generally, men can only have children when they are 50 or 60 years old. My junior high school girl got married at the age of 22. Both husband and wife are primary school teachers. No children, parents-in-law have retirement wages. Besides going to work, the two daughters-in-law are all beer and skittles. On holidays, they travel in various ways, and their circle of friends is happy. I have deep envy and jealousy in front of her. I overheard a friend say that she got divorced last year. No, I think this must be a big joke. Call him to confirm the divorce. The man is going to have a baby, but the woman can't conceive. Six months after the divorce, the man found another one. My classmate is 36 years old and hasn't met the right one yet. No children? It is women who suffer. When I was pregnant, I couldn't.

What if? Is that you are not married. Let's talk about it first You may change your mind after you get married. I'm almost in this state now. I'm old enough to get married and I'm considering it. The day after tomorrow, he proposed not to have children in the first year of marriage. Although I am old, I can't bear this injustice. Actually, I know what he means. He wants me to enjoy myself more. On the other hand, I am afraid that the emotional instability after marriage will affect my children. Of course, this is a question that everyone will consider. Of course, if you love each other enough, you don't have to worry about these problems. When you get married, you naturally want to give him a monkey. Most importantly, when you don't want it, try not to let your parents influence your thoughts. After they arrange to get married and have children, this may affect the feelings between the two people and have a great impact on their married life. It is suggested to be yourself after marriage, but for the sake of family and children, be yourself.

How can anyone get married without having children? It's only a matter of time. Mainly pregnant people want to have children. Is there any pressure in his heart? Still a physical problem. Go to the hospital for examination. Don't wait too long. What should I do if I want to be born at that time? If you have physical problems, you should treat them as soon as possible. The most formal hospital examination. Go to medical insurance. Policy hospital certification. Can be reimbursed. Take a look. Is the hospital far from your home? There is also a saying. I wish you an early birth. The family is happy.

Unwilling to have children after marriage has become a very common phenomenon in today's society. Because many young people are working in other places now, the pressure of life is self-evident. Car loans and mortgages make life a little hard. If you want to have another child, it means that not only the family income will change from two to one, but also the expenses will increase. This kind of double upside down will make less wealthy families suffer more. Some people may say that children can go to work when they are weaned at the age of one, and it doesn't matter if they are delayed for up to one year. However, considering who will take the child after birth and where to take it, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a headache since ancient times. In addition, the ideological differences between the older generation and the new generation in today's society will also increase the difficulty of bringing a baby. Bringing the elderly to the city to look after the children will make many elderly people uncomfortable and sick. Put the children back to their hometown and be taken care of by the elderly. Children will be separated from their parents, and now most of the elderly take care of their children as pets, so education becomes a problem. This dilemma makes young people who are not well off reluctant to have children. They always want to wait for their living conditions to be better, and then ask a nanny to help them take care of them, so that parents will not be embarrassed and children will not be separated, but when they are so rich, no one can say.

Many couples don't want children at first, but they can't get pregnant when they want them again in a few years. After all, the best time for a woman to get pregnant is only a few years. If she misses it, she will never get pregnant again. In the decades after the long-term life of husband and wife, children are the best link to maintain their feelings. We can't say that Dink is unhappy, but a family without children is incomplete after all. Husband and wife have no crystallization of * *, just like life has no * *.

Therefore, it is understandable that you just got married for a year or two and don't want to have children. Just use this one or two years to sort out the ideas of raising and educating children in the future, but don't delay too long. If couples get married for too long, life will become dull and lose its original freshness, and pregnancy will become more difficult!

May every couple plan for the future and have a happy family!

To solve this problem, we must first find out why we don't want to have children.

Objective reasons:

1. Poor economic conditions, unwilling to increase the burden, and do not want children to feel insecure in their future lives.

Solution: naturally, we should strive to break through the comfort zone and make money. There is only one sentence, but it is difficult to do it.

2. lovers don't want to have children

Solution: communicate sincerely (persuade or be persuaded)

Subjective reasons:

I don't want to have children because of my own experience and my own cognition.

Solution:

Get close to children, understand what family life with children is like, and read parent-child books.

After doing this, with or without children, you can make your decision more accurate and firm.

If you get married without children, you won't grow old together. It can be said that there are very few achievements. It's different when you have children. Even if there is a rift in your's feelings, there is still the possibility of repairing it. If you don't have a baby, you'll be done, carefree. So when you get married, have more children when you are in a good relationship!

Then don't live a good life. There is always a little time in life. Why can't you live a free and happy life? We can do anything as long as we don't regret it. As long as you don't regret it ...

Think carefully before you get married. If both of you don't remarry, many people will definitely want a child, whether it is the urging of the older generation or the crystallization of yourself and your lover.

Since you don't want it, just confess.

Why not? Don't delay others or embarrass yourself.