How can we alleviate the pain caused by lovelorn love?

Keep yourself busy, develop a hobby or do something you originally wanted to do but didn't have time to do.

I have been with my boyfriend for more than 4 years, and there is still about a month before I am lovelorn. On tanabata, there was a cold war for half a month because of a little thing. Then I tried to save it, and found that the other party had stopped answering my phone and was unwilling to return my message. A few days later, I couldn't stand the cold violence and broke up. Hacked his phone, Weibo, WeChat.

I know in my heart that this is just the fuse, but in fact, both of them may be tired. Because of reality and family, they all chose to let go. Any further entanglement will only make two people more miserable. To tell you the truth, I'm still disgusted. I thought I was getting married.

I still care about each other. But I happened to find that he seemed to have someone else. Originally, I have tried my best to find myself. This blow makes me feel that he is very happy with other girls from time to time every day. But I told myself: I am irreplaceable and I deserve to be loved.

If he doesn't love me, I will love myself more! During this time, I learned swimming, signed up for yoga and signed up for a foreign language class. Because it's easier to daydream when you're free! Although the process is very painful, you must not add drama to yourself. It's important to brainwash yourself. Never listen to sad love songs.

I will record my emotions every day, as long as tomorrow is a little better than today. I believe that God is fair. Will not live up to my heart. Missing and suffering are normal, which shows that we attach importance to feelings. There's nothing wrong with that. Respect this process and make yourself excellent. It's only a matter of time before it clears up.