Qi Wei class (35) Tokyo family: The relationship between adult children and their parents is distant and polite.

Recently, I watched a Japanese movie "Tokyo Family".

This film mainly tells a series of stories about an elderly couple living on a rural island who came to Tokyo to visit their three children who work and live in a big city.

When the old man came to Tokyo, their children all expressed their great welcome and filial piety.

The eldest son graduated from a doctor of medicine and went to a clinic in the suburbs of Tokyo. On the first day when his parents came to Tokyo, the eldest son had planned to take his parents out to play, but the sudden illness put all plans on hold, so the well-dressed parents had to give up their travel plans and didn't go anywhere.

My daughter runs a beauty salon. She is busy with business every day and has no time to take care of her parents. It rained all the time while my parents were at their daughter's house, so they had to stay in their rooms. Heinz couldn't go anywhere.

The younger son works as a temporary worker such as recording the scene of stage art, which is considered unprofessional by his father. He took a day off easily and took his parents to sightseeing bus to visit Tokyo. His parents were in high spirits, but he dozed off again and again, and received calls from work from time to time. He was very unhappy with his father at dinner.

The eldest son and daughter were too busy to take care of their parents, so they paid for their parents to open a room in an upscale hotel. But my parents did nothing in the hotel room. At night, they saw the Ferris wheel outside the window and remembered the story of their first love.

In the middle of the night, another hotel guest had an argument and quarreled. The old couple sighed: such a good hotel can't sleep.

The next day, the couple who couldn't get used to the hotel returned to their daughter's house. The daughter said that her parents could not stay at her house at night, and in order to maintain the relationship with their peers, they would have a party at home that night.

The daughter's house can't live, and the eldest son's house is not good. The couple have nowhere to go. Later, the husband decided to visit an old friend. I heard that his son is doing well in Tokyo and can sleep at an old friend's house for one night. The wife decided to visit her little son, help clean the room, and make do with her little son for one night.

After the husband visited his old friend, he found that his friend was also suffering indignities everywhere in his son's house. His so-called son is doing well in Tokyo, and he only boasts to others out of good face. The two old people reunited after a long separation were drinking in the restaurant and sharing their worries. Old people who have successfully given up drinking are also as drunk as a fiddler.

The mother and her little son have gained unexpected gains here. The mother found her little son's house clean and tidy, not as messy as she thought. The youngest son is eating the meal cooked by his mother, and the mother and son are enjoying the long-lost time together. The mother also met her youngest son's kind and beautiful girlfriend, which was very gratifying. In the evening, the youngest son chats with his mother. When my mother talked about her youth, she couldn't help but cover her face with a quilt.

In the middle of the night, the drunken father took a taxi back to his daughter's house and was rejected by her daughter until he returned to his eldest son's house. The mother who came back to her eldest son's house was all smiles. The next moment, mother suddenly fell to the ground. ...

Mother died suddenly. Maybe, when she decided to come to Tokyo, it was very likely that her mother had a hunch.

For the mother's death, the eldest son and daughter showed due sadness and funeral etiquette.

However, just after the mother was buried, China and the United States discussed sharing the precious materials left by her mother, and then worried about the bad weather, missed the boat trip and hurried back to Tokyo.

Only the youngest son and his girlfriend stayed with his father for a few more days.

The youngest son will eventually leave, leaving his father alone in the country.

Some people say that parents' home is always children's home, and children's home is not necessarily parents' home.

When children drift away and have their own burdens and pressures, they don't want to spend more time with their parents, but put more energy into their families and lives, and have more helplessness.