Persist in appreciating yourself and life for a month, and record 3 happy things every day (20210514-20210613)

After posting on Kaka’s public account, I saw someone in the circle of friends taking action. This is the same as the appreciation advocated by Teacher JM’s Endless Love course, which allows you to change your focus mode and increase your energy. Great, I will try it for a month to see if I can persist.

5.14

1. I have sorted out the list for the boys, and my teammates have given very good suggestions for improvement (divided into two parts, must be done, and done in stages)

2. After reading "Alive", I am a grain of sand in the tide of the times. I know myself whether I am warm or cold, and my life is my own. Thank you to my teammates for picking up the boy from school, allowing me to have complete reading time

3. After reading Sister Ximen’s Weibo interview with Yang Tianzhen, there are two things that moved me. One is that children are growing old. Parents have the responsibility to guide and understand the changes of the times. First, a lot of pain comes from wanting and wanting more

5.15

1. I thought I had read the wrong information. The package I bought did not contain Yang Tianzhen’s book, but when I opened the order, I saw that it was there. When I was about to contact the seller to tell me that the book was missing, I noticed that the seller had already left me a message saying that Yang Tianzhen’s book would be shipped late. , haha, it was my own mistake, and the book is already on the way

2. In the evening, the boy gave me the red envelopes he got during the May Day period (3 out of 4), and I took the opportunity to get the red envelopes. Regarding the management of money and daily pocket money (I have reached an agreement with my teammates beforehand), I had an exchange with the boy

3. I want to cook bamboo cane, thatch, water chestnut and carrot tomorrow, and I want to prepare it in the shop downstairs. Regarding the materials, the store staff were very enthusiastic to help me ask the supplier if they could distribute the goods. I remember that on May Day, they also helped me pick up fresh lilies and kept them properly refrigerated (I didn’t even dare to ask for this) until I came back. In fact, we are not that familiar with each other, so these little things are very touching

5.16

1. It is the first time to make dried bamboo shoots and pork ribs soup. I combined the recipes from the kitchen and the wives. The product is pretty good, and you don’t have to sit on the stove for a long time on a hot day, so it’s relaxing. The boy ate most of the ribs, and his teammates kept letting us both with a smile, and he didn’t eat much meat.

2. After Sister Haiyan, Xiaoliu, who was sent by the housekeeping department today, is also good. Although he has just joined the cleaning profession, he has no experience. I am not experienced, but I have worked as a nanny before, and I am also a live-in waiter in this housekeeping company. The service attitude is very down-to-earth and sincere. I am going to apply to the customer service to get it fixed.

3. Yesterday, I was worried that blueberries would also I was so bored that I hurriedly opened the box after it was delivered by SF Express in the morning. Sure enough, the juice was all released. I quickly reported it to Guoerfei customer service, and they were very happy to pay for it. After I cleaned it up, I settled for half of what I could eat. The full compensation was unreasonable and the customer service was also unreasonable. If it is possible to reissue it, then happily propose the plan of reissuing half of it

5.17

1. Muster up the courage, sort out my current confusion, and draft a proposal to Mr. Xiang Jinming If you have questions, please send them to Senior Sister Zhou Zhou first for review. Later, I listened to a recording of the teacher’s historical guidance to the students, and felt that my questions needed to be revised and revised to express confusion more clearly

2. I received the jasmine, gypsophila, and osmanthus purchased online over the weekend, and tasted them. The appearance is very good, so I quickly packed it into the basin. The jasmine trees are full of buds and branches, and the balcony and mood suddenly become more beautiful. I also received the book by Yang Tianzhen, which is also in good condition

3. In the evening, the boy called and asked me to help deliver some items. His mood has stabilized a lot, and I didn’t say anything. Dinner After that, I happily went to school with my teammates

5.18

1. I revised the questions to Teacher JM, recorded and submitted them to the forum under the guidance of Sister Zhou Zhou, and learned the recording file format. Convert this new skill

2. Yanzhen’s mother shared a good listening book early in the morning to accompany her children’s lifelong growth. She shared three perspectives: unconditional love, enhancing children’s sense of value, and lifelong growth

3. I had a beautiful facial treatment

5.19

1. I met my roommates and best friends in Guangzhou. It was a pleasant and beautiful day and I gained a lot. Every family has its own sutras that are difficult to recite, and there are unsettling stories behind the seemingly peaceful life. Love yourself and cherish the moment

2. Thinking of getting some advice from Teacher JM soon, my mood will change throughout the day. Very nice

3. My teammates did not eat out after playing, but thought about what I would eat for dinner, and cooked cereal and waited for me

5.20

1. In the morning, I listened to Teacher JM’s question to Mr. Chen about the ineffectiveness of extracurricular classes for children. It was very useful. My son’s situation is similar.

It turns out that if we look at things from another angle and talk about them from another angle, we can focus on the shining points and let people understand their own difficulties and persistence, thereby stimulating the power to move forward

2. Finished last weekend’s work Record and remind yourself that it is more important to stabilize your condition first

3. I received a greeting call from my mother and made an appointment to buy me chicken next week. She immediately realized that my birthday in the lunar calendar was approaching, haha, it turned out to be the case. My biological old mother always remembers her children's birthdays, and she also knows about her brother-in-law's promotion

4. The newly purchased jasmine flowers bloomed in the past two nights, and the fragrance fills the balcony when drying clothes

5.21

1. Thank you to my teammates for their time and support. I originally planned it well and thought I could go to the meeting in the afternoon, but was intercepted. Haha, I should have taken similar identification measures earlier. After all, the content of the meeting was quite interesting. It is important to explain that you should not underestimate the work attitude of others. If you don’t succeed in the meeting, it’s not bad to go home and read leisurely instead.

2. Teacher JM answered my questions. I listened with goosebumps and my scalp was numb. One time was not enough, so I tried it again. Analysis of the reasons. , hits the sore spot, soothes the current situation, nourishes the soul, and guides the direction. It is clear and powerful. I have to digest it well, absorb it and transform it. Thank you so much, teacher. Beforehand, Senior Sister Zhou Zhou also told me that the teacher praised me for describing the problem in more detail. Oh yeah, I’m so happy

3. After watching Yang Tianzhen took himself seriously, I got a lot of inspiration

5.22

1. Another morning After listening to Teacher JM’s guidance, I really have to cultivate myself, analyze the problem in the time dimension, accept it, respect it and believe it.

2. The boy went to the Chinese class. Regarding his tardiness, My teammates and I gladly accepted it, and we have to acknowledge his persistence

3. I had dinner with my friend *** in the evening, and she listened to me talk about my recent study experience. It felt really good

5.23

1. In the morning, I shared with my teammates the Courage to Be Disliked that I watched yesterday. He very much agreed with living in the moment and controlling yourself

2. Cleaned up the flowers on the balcony and indoors. I threw away the aloe vera that had rotted due to overwatering, and the Belgian rhododendron I bought during the Chinese New Year that never grew leaves. The cleaning lady also discovered that the jasmine flowers were infested with insects and sprayed insecticidal water all over them. Haha, one of the joys of growing flowers is to buy, buy, and exchange.

3. Today, my teammates are unable to send the boy back to school due to work. I was originally worried that the boy would not cooperate, but unexpectedly, they have a tacit understanding and are more enthusiastic than usual. Arrive at the school gate earlier

5.24

1. Listen to Teacher JM’s instructions to me again, be yourself and believe in the kid

2. Cut Shortening my hair makes me feel much better. I cleaned my ear piercings, and it’s been 2 and a half months, and they are in good condition

3. I checked in at the newly opened McDonald’s near my home. It will be more convenient to satisfy my cravings in the future, but I still prefer Burger King.

I have to praise the design of this McDonald's. The addition of stairs not only connects the first and second floors of its business premises, but also adds convenience to the public space and solves the bugs that existed in the original mall

5.25

1. After reading Camus’s The Outsider, a very profound novel recommended by Xiaozi’s classmate, I admire the children’s current reading comprehension ability

2. I have decided for myself New plan, starting from today to review the laws and regulations, I hope I can stick to it every day

3. It rained heavily for a long time in the morning. Thank you for arranging for me to deliver information to him yesterday. I looked at the bus stop sign under an umbrella yesterday. I didn't notice the stool on the platform, so I bumped into it and was immediately reminded by a strange girl. Fortunately, I stood firm.

5.26

1. I watched the artist Ann with my friends. Nishi Kapoor's exhibition of works, I admire these outstanding human beings, their imagination and creativity, the world is a lot more beautiful, and it also inspires more people to understand and express themselves from different angles

2. Because of a heavy rain, I took a short trip to the Museum of Contemporary Art and Urban Planning and checked in at the Great Tide Rising from the Pearl River - the 40th Anniversary of Guangdong’s Reform and Opening Up Exhibition. Looking back, we are walking in the changing times, and being ourselves in the present is the best way to welcome it. The best way to change the challenge

3. A friend gave me a good idea. Go to the library to borrow more books, which saves money and storage space. It is also very convenient

5.27

1. I restarted CISA study today. It has been suspended for a full month due to the May Day holiday and various activities after that. Come on

2. Get affirmation from peers and speak out against it# #The system is well compiled. "Basically the same as what the consulting agency has done for other companies." Thumbs up for my past seriousness and the professional support of my former colleagues

3. Feedback the positive feedback from colleagues A former colleague, she was also very happy, and expressed her "apology" to me for being immature before, asking me to understand, and shared the anti-## materials she had recently collected

4. Received a letter from the university dormitory The lotus mist given by my best friend is very sweet, very crisp and very moist

5.28

1. I received recent training materials shared by four colleagues, and some took the initiative to share them

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2. My teammates came back specially for lunch and ordered takeout to improve my food

3. My friend got her wish and is about to become Dudu, for her hard pursuit and the journey she has taken along the way It’s not easy to like

5.29

1. After reading the first CISA review textbook (manual), compliance and risk control is not easy, and IT is a business that requires professional investment.

When I mentioned that I felt like reading a book from heaven, my teammates said if it doesn’t work once, just read it again, hahaha

2. I received chickens and ducks from my mother, and the refrigerator was full again

3. I received earrings from my sister. They are very stylish and should be very versatile

4. I went to a Taobao store and the items were so cheap. A dress that looked exactly the same was actually Nearly 1/3 of the price, just click on it and read a lot of good reviews. I plan to try it during the 6.18 event

5. Caught a big caterpillar at night and quickly cut off the branch that was eating the leaves. , Haha, maybe this is the fun of growing flowers, endless tossing

5.30

1. I made a delicious lunch for my nephew, and everyone had a great time chatting

2. Restart CISA exams

3. Pay the fees that should be paid this month (physics courses, critical illness insurance, IPTV)

4. Bought a A new shirt from Kaka, I like the collar and sleeve design and the yellow color that brings a good mood

5.31

1. Finished the remaining questions of the last chapter of CISA. You need to I began to think about whether to sign up for training. Obtaining a certificate is not the ultimate goal. What is more important is that I find that I don’t understand a lot

2. It finally rained in the evening, and the hot temperature dropped immediately, and everyone woke up. I feel a lot better

3. I drank a bottle of pineapple beer while it was cool at night, haha, and also listened to an anti-money training, which was very pleasant

6.1

1. My teammates and I proposed going out to eat to celebrate Children’s Day, and he readily accepted it. It started to rain heavily in the evening, and he kindly went home to pick me up

2. I was able to study as planned every day, and I was impressed by the heroes in the system. Hui Hui has an extremely deep understanding of the business and the current situation. If the business organization does not learn, it will really not be able to keep up with the channel, and it will dig holes for itself

3. Taking advantage of the 6.18 event, I bought the grain and oil that my family needs. Of course, I have my own favorite clothes, and I hope that they will be worth every penny.

6.2

1. A former colleague went for an interview, who happened to be my former department leader, and received the conveyed I’m happy that my boss recognized me.

2. I want to sort out the live streaming compliance requirements in the near future. Today, a colleague has sorted out the relevant regulations. I asked my colleagues to look for an old document from the BJ Bureau and found it. I’m happy.

3. After listening to half of the lecture on bond investment business, and listening to a practical experience in credit rating shared by small and medium-sized securities firms, the work lies in the details

6.3

1. It is a happy thing to be remembered when receiving clothes from friends

2. After listening to the leading company’s sharing about the credit bond investment research system, I admire the continuous improvement of the integration of knowledge and action. People

3. Knowing what happened to flowers caused by fertilizer, they changed the pots or mud for the flowers in the evening, hoping that they would get better

6.4

1. I have been receiving complaints from friends in the industry intermittently since the afternoon. I am very happy that I can be trusted. I also deeply understand the helplessness and grievances in the workplace. Many times I am full of enthusiasm and high responsibility, but I am not understood and recognized. I admire you. The resilience of a good friend always stands up and continues the challenge after crying in difficult times

2. Ask a colleague to find an old document that was mentioned in her PPT. She asked her carefully The upstream source, namely an external lawyer, was not found either. She said a little apologetically that I was more careful and didn't think of tracing the source. Haha, sometimes I am more serious, I want to know why

3. I received the bond investment business training materials shared by another peer. Among them, the record of the explanation content of the leading company I like the most is better than the previous one. The sharing is organized more clearly, and I am happy

4. My teammates handled the matter of the boy going home to stay for one night better than me, and accepted it calmly

5. After reading Teacher ZY’s Aladdin, I have to start another chapter to record my thoughts after reading it for the first time

6.5

1. Today is my birthday on the lunar calendar. I received a call from my mother on time. I went on a trip to OCT with my teammate and had a drink. I tasted the seasonal Yunnan mint and egg drop soup stir-fried with Pangasius at the cultural coffee that was like "stuck in a peach blossom land", and unexpectedly received a pair of super comfortable and affordable sneakers

2. Failing to speak Chinese when facing a kid During class and playing games all night, I am calmer and more peaceful with my teammates than me, which also stabilizes my energy

3. My teammates said that they would have lunch with friends who know about e-sports at noon tomorrow, and they would take the kid there to chat. , the boy also agreed to go. I originally thought that the teammate who said "Don't expect me to arrange e-sports related activities for him" would no longer take part in this matter, so when I heard the news today, I was really happy

4 , I made a successful pot of sour papaya and chicken stew in the evening. The soup was super delicious and very suitable for the weather.

6.6

1. My teammates are becoming more and more determined than me. I had to take the boy to an appointment at noon. After breakfast, they agreed to go out at 11:30.

At 10:50, I asked my teammates if I wanted to remind him to prepare. My teammates said that reminding him too early was useless and would be annoying. It also showed that he still had expectations and was likely to be disappointed. He had to hold back and do his best. The key points

2. When I came back from the appointment, my teammates told me that my friend was very talkative and we had a good chat with him. Many of the things I wanted to express were mentioned by my friend. During the conversation, the boy expressed his unspoken thoughts. After failing in the high school entrance examination, I am still lazy and afraid of the hardships of study

3. The three of us watched Mr. Yang Jiang in one breath and were very moved

4. The three of us watched it together in the evening Fast and Furious 9, it’s nice to hear the kid’s cheerful giggles

5. The cleaning lady gave me a Phalaenopsis and helped me plant it, which gave me the warmth of being understood and supported. Feeling

6. I received the clothes I bought a few days ago. They are really good quality and cheap.

6.7

1. I read the book written by my former colleague and it was very interesting. I am happy that some of my ideas and practices are consistent. It seems that self-discipline will help me continue to improve

2. More and more, I find that reading is one of the things I like to do very much. Some words really make me feel spontaneous. Inner joy

3. I dealt with the boy’s failure to get up to see a traditional Chinese medicine doctor in a calm manner, and my teammates didn’t say anything to the boy when they found out

4. Received Kaka’s letter 30 yuan coupon, randomly selected, lucky

5. In the evening, I was invited by a former colleague to recommend books. Since this year, I have recommended books to different friends, haha, I am happy to share my gains

6. My teammates brought me back to the Deng Xiaoping era, which was so generous. They also affirmed that I have a higher reading perspective on life choices and the background of the times, haha

6.8

1. I re-read The Courage to Be Disliked, and I still found it very interesting. I underlined it while reading this time, and there were many golden sentences

2. The nucleic acid test I had been thinking about was finally done at around 8pm, so I caught up. The deadline for class statistics has been exceeded. It’s really hard work of the medical staff and volunteers.

3. When queuing up for the nucleic acid test, the young lady in front enthusiastically reminded the boy to take the student priority lane

4. The cherry prepared for the boy has not been eaten yet, he can think of us in his heart

6.9

1. After reading the courage to be disliked, separation of subjects, acceptance of oneself, trust in others, Contribution of others, focus on yourself, start by changing yourself

2. I received the most curious green flower skirt with a price difference of 3 times, which is still passable

3 , the announcement of my friend Ren Dudu finally appeared in the newspaper. I admire her pursuit and persistence after watching her for more than two years

6.10

1. I successfully took the kid to see it in the morning After learning Chinese medicine, the doctor took the initiative to share his thoughts on studying and working hard with the boy. Ness

2. I received a recruitment invitation from the former department leader and had a pleasant conversation with him. I felt that fate has made me observe this company many times in the past 6 years and lamented the changes in the company. The development seems to have verified that working seriously and down-to-earth is the proper way to deal with accidents in the workplace. Of course, I also have to thank the boy for supporting me at my appointment at home

3. Thanks to the three old friends for sharing their information with me and It is recommended that you have their support every time you make a major choice

4. I received an invitation to a dinner party from my former colleagues, and I was touched that I could still be remembered after being away for so long

5. As a holder of I received a birthday gift from a cutting-edge company in the same industry in Shanghai. The opening design of the greeting card was very ceremonial. The service and work details of my colleagues have always left me with a lot of feelings. In addition to the company's financial resources, maybe the work philosophy and work attitude are more important. is the key to their victory

6. In the evening, I saw the recruitment information of the anti-money post of my former employer and shared it with my former colleague. She was very happy and took the initiative to tell me that she had also felt the same My application may not be successful (I don’t have a legal background), but the fat guy from my former employer is also very helpful and promised to meet the girl after the festival

6.11

1. and three former colleagues The dinner party was so happy and I gained a lot. People who work hard to do their best deserve good things. The result is the feedback and presentation of my efforts. My choice to leave is the right one for myself and others

2. I attended a sharing session on self-assessment of financial risks in the morning. The height of data governance cannot be overestimated. Although compliance is a cost at first glance, it should be seen as a growth point for long-term benefits because it consolidates It is the foundation. In the future, the compound talents of IT + internal control + risk control will be the most popular ones

3. Another former colleague girl took the initiative to contact me (probably due to the influence of the girl last night) and said that she was in The workplace of my former employer is not easy, and he especially dislikes the working atmosphere. Please help me keep an eye out for job opportunities.

From their stories, I feel that experience is the best way to grow up

4. Thank you to my teammates for supporting me in attending the dinner party. They came to pick me up early, waited in the car for a long time, and listened to me after I got home. He chatted about the party until midnight, and made wonderful comments from time to time

5. The kid returned to school smoothly and on time, and even agreed to his teammates’ suggestion to go out to eat roast duck after school on Sunday

6 , Successfully made homemade ice powder for the first time

7. The nucleic acid test results were found early in the morning

8. The birthday greetings I received today mainly came from fund companies with shareholdings, and Not a business, haha, very interesting change

6.12

1. Thanks to my teammates for their hard work, I woke up early in the morning and drove back to Huizhou to visit my parents

2. Grandpa was in generally good spirits. When he got home, he was helping to make dumplings. Had a pleasant conversation with my sister's family and my eldest nephew who came home later. Grandpa's stomach gas is obvious, and his teammates reminded his sister to pay attention

3. Aunt Li Wei's mental state is also good. Aunt Wei is also used to checking her mobile phone, and she still directly believes in things on WeChat, Lao Li said I have reminded her to believe 30% at most

4. In the evening, I returned to Shenzhen and went to a new shopping mall near my home to eat and check out Vanke’s new products. I didn’t expect it to be above a subway station. I will eat out with my kids more often in the future. Choice, especially when traveling by subway

5. It was probably because the signal in the restaurant was not good, and Aunt Wei’s phone number was not answered during dinner. I immediately sent a WeChat message to my sister to tell her that I had arrived home safely, but my sister did not check in time. While the cell phone was charging, Aunt Wei was very worried and angry. When I called her more than 40 minutes later, she was nagging a lot. I was also quite angry, thinking that she was overly worried and always thinking of the worst.

Well, it’s always about us, a happy episode

6.13

1. I like my new cleaning aunt Xiaoliu more and more, she is down-to-earth, doesn’t say much, and is polite< /p>

2. I asked two colleagues to understand the situation, and they were both very helpful

3. In the evening, the three of us had a dinner together to eat roast duck to celebrate the birthday of our teammates

4. The boy has Opportunity to win Duan Kao Scholarship, which is an unexpected birthday gift for teammates