Why do Shanwei girls seldom marry in other places?

From beginning to end, I felt far away from me. I happened to see this article in my friend's space, and the analysis was quite solid. This is not my consideration. Let's understand mom and dad's mood. Poverty inherits the wind! Why are many girls unwilling to marry in other provinces? It shows that it is not how lofty Guangdong girls are. If you count the following reasons, you will find that they also have difficulties. One is the problem of distance; It takes days and nights by car, and I don't know how many years it will take to get back to my parents' house. Which parent doesn't want their children to go home often and spend more time with themselves? If the conditions are poor, you have to worry about the fare when you go back to your mother's house. The second is the weather problem; Everyone knows that the north is colder than the south, and it snows. Although it snows in parts of the south, it never snows in many parts of Guangdong. By contrast, how can those Guangdong girls stand it? The third is the problem of diet; Pepper is eaten in most parts of the north, and pasta is the staple food. Almost every meal is inseparable from peppers, but the girls in the north are getting better and better after eating them, and they can be beautified. For Guangdong girls, it is simply' disfigurement'. The longer you eat, the longer your acne will be. Which girl doesn't love beauty? The fourth is the issue of customs; Every place has different customs. There are all kinds of strange customs in the world, some of which are unacceptable. The fifth is emotional problems; If one day the husband and wife are at odds and feel wronged, the husband-in-law must stand on his son's side, and then they are strangers and have no friends. Who can they talk to? Even if what you do is right, but he has so many relatives and friends, one sentence is enough to turn your right into wrong. Most girls who marry in other provinces will regret it. When they are dating, they love each other very much, and love can surpass everything. But back to reality, it's different. Many girls ask or hope that men can buy a house and settle in Guangdong. If men just work and their wages are not very high, it may be a dream to buy a house in a place like Guangdong where there are many people and few places. If the man promises to buy a house in Guangdong, but when you have children, the problem will be more serious. Then, if you don't care about buying a house, you have to go back to your hometown, or continue to rent a house in Guangdong, with high funds. At that time, you really wanted to cry. Some girls are desperate to be with men despite the strong opposition of their parents and relatives. Young and not sensible, if a man cares about the benefits given to her, she thinks that the man loves her very much, and the girl can't give everything to the man casually. If he just holds a playful attitude and doesn't think about being responsible, it will always be girls who get hurt. What you have to pay is a lifetime of pain. Even if that man is a playboy and bad, he won't love a girl with history. Even if he doesn't mind, he will always feel uncomfortable. That's what men do. As a woman, we must love ourselves.