How can I go out when velvet is so thick? My wife told me to wear it anyway.

LZ is good, it is very personal for men to wear out the door. It does not violate the laws of any country, nor does it violate the moral standards of a society. It's even more illegal to wear socks under your pants. But if you use this as a means to harm others and society, then you are harming others and yourself. You will be used to educate others and even go to jail. Remember, this is a complete guide to going out, not a complete guide to crime. I am targeting believers who are men's clothes like me. I think men can wear them and walk boldly in the street, thinking that this is normal rather than abnormal behavior. It's like an animal protector taking off his clothes and walking in the street; Oppose women to wear high heels, men will walk in the street in high heels. I am writing this article here because I support men to wear high heels when they go out.

It should be noted that wearing a pair of pants does not mean wearing socks outside, so do you still need a shopping guide? Here refers to wearing pants similar to shorts, which can expose calves and even thighs, that is, wearing socks completely exposes legs.

● In the eyes of others, there are the following attitudes towards men's clothes:

1. Very good. Generally speaking, men's legs are not as smooth as women's, especially men with hairy legs. Wearing it can greatly increase the beauty of the legs, and it is better for men with hairy legs to shave their legs before wearing it. So for some people, men look better in clothes.

2. It doesn't matter if you wear clothes on your legs. More often, it is not noticed by many people. Even if someone sees a person wearing clothes on his legs, he has no more thoughts, because wearing or not is your business, not his.

3. don't like it. Due to thousands of years of traditional habits in China, a few years ago, it was unacceptable not to know whether women wore men's clothes or men wore women's clothes. Since the reform and opening up, especially in recent years, the dress has changed a lot. It is normal to see women wearing men's clothes now, even if they are very masculine clothes, they will not feel anything wrong. But if men wear women's clothes, some people will find it unacceptable.

4. feel sick. In people's minds, it is the product of women. When it is worn on men, people become men and women, which makes people feel indecent and disgusting.

No matter what kind of point of view, as mentioned above, it does not violate the laws of any country or the moral standards of a society, so no one will interfere with you. Unless you do something you shouldn't.

● Daisy's psychology when she goes out:

When a person goes out, the most important thing is to overcome himself. If you walk down the street without dressing up, even if you are disheveled, dirty and tattered, you won't care whether others pay attention to you, and you may not pay attention to other people's eyes. But if you walk in the street, there will be many contradictory thoughts intertwined in your heart: you are afraid of meeting pedestrians and want to meet them, that is, you are afraid of being seen by others and want to be seen by others. So the first time I went out, I found a place where no one was there, and then I found a place where people were there. This kind of contradictory psychology will make you particularly excited. At this time, you will pay special attention to other people's eyes.

1. If the opposite person passes by you and doesn't find you wearing your legs, you will have a sense of victory-I am wearing too close to natural skin, and he doesn't look so close;

If passers-by see what you are wearing on your leg, you will have a sense of pride-doesn't what I am wearing on my leg look good?

3. If you see the people you are wearing whispering, you will feel a sense of joy-they are talking about my legs;

If you meet an acquaintance in clothes, you will have a fear-will he laugh at me and tell others what I wear, and what will they think of me?

And then there's how it makes you feel:

1. Wear it on your legs, and your legs are tightly wrapped-giving you a different feeling in peacetime;

2. If you choose to take the bus when you go out, you can also touch your thighs at an appropriate time. The soft and slippery feeling will make you more excited.

Next, let's start with the basics.

For people who do it for the first time, they should master the three basic points: time, place and people.

Time:

It's time to go out. When is the best time to go out?

Recommended index between 8 pm and 9 pm: ★★★★★★★

This time is the first choice for newcomers or inexperienced people. Because the season of wearing shorts is definitely not winter, and the weather is definitely hot. At this time, the days must be long and the nights must be short. It's almost completely dark at seven o'clock in the evening around May and October, and it's only completely dark at eight o'clock in the hottest time. Generally speaking, eight o'clock is the best time to go out. At this time, it was completely dark, and people who went shopping after dinner also went home one after another. There won't be too many people on the street, but neither will there be too few. This is very important and will be discussed in detail below.

Evening recommendation index: ★★★☆☆☆

That is, before dark, between 5 pm and 8 pm, pedestrians on the street are in a hurry at this time, because few people will talk to you when they want to go home and cook, which is very helpful to improve their courage (again, improving their courage is not to make you commit a crime).

Early morning recommendation index: ★★★☆☆

That is, it is just dawn, and there are fewer pedestrians on the street at this time. It doesn't matter if you go out at this time, even if you go to the breakfast stand early.

Recommended index in broad daylight (cloudy day): ★★★☆☆

Although it is in the daytime, the light is not very strong because of the occlusion of clouds. Even if you walk on a street with more pedestrians, there will be no big problem.

Recommended index in broad daylight (sunny day): ★ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆.

It is not recommended for novices and inexperienced people. You have to be as thick-skinned as a tire to try this, and you have to choose a very suitable one (which will be discussed below).

Late at night is not recommended

That is, the early morning, in the ordinary sense, is the most inappropriate time, whether it is the first time to do it or to become a so-called veteran. Because there are no people on the street, or few people, why can't anyone be bad? I will explain it in "geographical advantages"

Location:

That's where you choose to go after you go out.

Someone's alley recommendation index: ★★★★★

There must be someone's alley, but there are certainly not many people in the alley, which is powerful for the initial improvement of courage. Those who are timid are courageous! It is best to choose those alleys with a little storefront and non-business storefront, such as barber shops, beauty salons, small restaurants, small grocery stores and Internet cafes, most of which are closed. Games, gift shops, flower shops, mahjong parlors and snack shops are all not so good. There are many people, and many people will gather at the door, which is not conducive to travel. But never choose an empty alley. This is a place where mistakes are easily made and misunderstandings are most likely to occur. Because there are always people walking in places where no one is there, suddenly someone appears in front of you, regardless of whether you two will be scared, just say that you appear in front of each other, and they will definitely look you up and down. This is common sense. If there are many people, you will be ignored, and if there are few people, you will be noticed. This is normal. Are you so willing to let others see you like this the first time you go out? If the other person is a hot-blooded person, he may catch you and ask, "What are you doing here dressed like this?" If the other person happens to be one, I'm afraid he will invite you to the station for tea without doing anything. If it is a woman again, the result is even more unimaginable. So no matter where you go, whether you are an old hand or not, you can't go to a place where no one is there.

Broad Street Recommendation Index: ★★★★★☆.

Don't be afraid, everyone. The road is wide, that is, there is a fence in the middle, and people on one side generally can't reach the other side of the road. You only need to face the people and shops on one side. This place is easy to deal with. Go to the store to pack cigarettes, drink and weigh melon seeds, and don't worry about anything. Besides, there won't be many people on this road. There are few people on the wide road, and there will naturally be many people on the narrow road. This is also common sense.

Park recommendation index: ★★★☆☆

City parks, street centers, these places are very suitable for tourism, such as seaside, riverside, lake and so on.

Recommended downtown index: ★★★☆☆

Downtown mainly refers to crowded places, such as Confucius Temple in Nanjing, Huaihai Road and Guangzhou Road in Shanghai. Although there are many people in these places, passers-by are busy going their own ways and doing their own things, and there are not many people looking around, which is relatively safe. Because there are many people, there may be great psychological pressure on inexperienced colleagues, and they often feel very nervous. Don't go to these places until you are fully prepared.

Personnel and:

People are actually at odds with each other. In an unfamiliar environment, people often dare to do things that they dare not do in a familiar environment. People living around you don't know each other, which is good for traveling, not the other way around. But strangers will also become acquaintances, and they will all know each other after a long time. Therefore, after going out, you should try to go to some places far away from your living environment to supplement the "geographical advantage" here. Of course, if all your acquaintances know that you have this hobby and are used to it, this environment is great, but is there such an environment? I think there will be, which requires your training, just like letting your girlfriend who doesn't like wearing socks wear socks and letting your wife who can't stand your love for legs and socks accept this hobby.

People and I think it is also important to have company when going out. My companion is of course my wife. In her words, "Wear it if you like. It is shameful that you are not me. " As long as there is one person who can travel with you casually, the effect will be great, the courage will be multiplied, and you may go to places that you never dare to think about. It would be nice to have like-minded people go out like this, which will make people feel different, not disgusting. This kind of situation is hard to meet. My wife seldom goes shopping with me (usually after dinner).

These are the three basic elements that need to be mastered before going out.

In addition, you must make all preparations before going out.

First, choose:

Just say one thing, that is, the choice of color. Novices and people with low experience and courage recommend flesh color, which is closest to skin color. If it's good, I'm afraid I can't tell if I wear socks. The flesh color is suitable for traveling at any time. As for other colors, they can be classified as experts' exclusive.

Meat color is not everything, but also consider the material, thickness and skin color when choosing.

Velvet has good elasticity, but poor transparency, which will make legs white under strong light; Although the elasticity is not as good as velvet and the transparency is better than velvet, it reflects light obviously under strong light; The thicker the transparency, the worse, so it is better to choose a thinner one below 15D, and the thinner the transparency, the better. Although the crystal has good transparency, its elasticity is very poor and it is very easy to slide. It is not recommended to wear it when going out. Flash is obviously reflective in light and natural light, so it is not recommended to wear it when going out.

Your skin color should match your skin color. People with whiter skin color can choose light skin color, people who are not particularly white can choose dark skin color, and people with darker skin color can consider choosing light coffee color. Usually, the color in the package is darker, which means that the color worn on the legs is lighter than the color in the package, so pay special attention to the color when buying.

In addition, it should be noted that there is a big difference between good quality and poor quality. Some are low-grade. Although the words "velvet", "high elasticity" and "transparent" are written on the package, the proportion of nylon is actually very high. This kind of flexibility and transparency will definitely not be good, so be sure to distinguish carefully when buying. In addition, I would like to remind you that quality cannot be completely measured by price, and the price of the same kind may vary greatly in different places.

Second, the choice of shoes:

It's simple. Any shoes will do. I recommend men's casual shoes, such as casual shoes or sports shoes. Going shopping in summer can also be sandals or slippers, just a reinforced part that can be easily seen from the exposed toes. It's also a good idea to wear a pair of socks to cover it outside.

Third, psychological preparation:

This is very important for beginners. Know that you are about to do something deviant, and be fully prepared. Ability to solve some emergencies. For experienced people, I personally think that psychological preparation is not too important. The key is "habit". To put it bluntly, thick-skinned, you get used to wearing it when you go out, that is, you get used to it, and vice versa. Being unaccustomed will bring a series of psychological changes. For example, when you walk into the street, you will feel scared, uncomfortable and restrained, which will easily attract the attention of pedestrians, thus putting yourself in a more embarrassing situation. It's different when you get used to it. If you feel that everything is normal when you walk on the road, then people's eyes on you will become normal. "Just look, what's the big deal?" This mentality is very good, in fact, no one will talk to you, even if he (she) sees you walking in the street wearing a woman, what can you do? He (she) may talk behind your back and make suggestions, but if you treat it with a normal heart, you will find that there are only so many, which will not cause any trouble to your whole trip or even affect your future life. Therefore, preparing mentally in advance is to make yourself feel used to it. Only when you don't wear it, experienced people often wear it, so that you can enter the role of habit without any psychological preparation.

In addition to the above three items, you must also be familiar with the road conditions, storefronts, roadsides, who may be there where you go, and pay attention to all kinds of lights at night, especially novices may be a little afraid of approaching the lights of the car, because the dark protective clothing is gone, but as long as you are calm as water, have no distractions, and abide by the law, you can feel at home even if you walk into the downtown area.

As for experts, they will find more and greater challenges, such as taking the bus, taking the subway, traveling by train, flying, playing games, visiting stadiums, shopping malls and various specialty stores, or getting a haircut, paying money at the bank, queuing to buy tickets, or trying to chat with people, eating at KFC, and so on. If you are all qualified, congratulations, you have become the best of our kind.

No matter how much I say here, the key is your personal courage. If you have the courage to go, you can go to the world. Some people post about how much they like to wear women and how much they want to wear them out, but they are afraid to ask who can help them. Courage is given by yourself, not from others. I am afraid that even if such a person can really give him courage, he will not dare.

Maybe everyone will find it too difficult after reading it. How can we do that? To tell the truth, it's really hard to do, and it's hard. If you think it's really difficult, I advise: don't do it. If you want to try it out, you must have a good psychological quality so that you can not be disturbed. Ok, that's all. I hope it helps you. I hope it helps you!