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How far can poverty degrade a person?
Starting from 20 10, I am 25 years old and have experienced many stories and gradually matured. I started to stay away from Internet cafes, bars and discos, and started looking for a job with my only driver's license. Because I have never driven a car, I was fired many times. But in order to completely correct my mistakes, after repeated insistence, I finally started to be a driver from a satellite van without warm air in winter and air conditioning in summer. I became more and more skilled in driving, and began to try to change jobs. I drove a car, a commercial car, a general manager driver and a chairman driver, but my salary only stayed at 4,000 yuan and I had to drive 24 hours a day.
20/kloc-resigned at the end of 0/3. After being introduced by a friend, I got a taxi driver's license and started driving a taxi. At that time, the taxi market was particularly hot, and there was no Didi Express and no hitchhiking. After the first month, I earned more than 8 thousand yuan, and finally I can see the future and hope. My parents finally settled down and thought that I had finally grown up.
In 20 15, the stock market was booming, and the only savings in hand was 80,000 yuan, which was used for stock trading. As a result, I lost all my money. As a result, the down payment on the house was gone, and I was depressed and in a bad mental state. I am addicted to alcohol again. Basically, if you have money, you drink and if you don't have money, you drive. I drank it for another year. Because I vomited blood several times in the middle, I converged a lot and began to settle down. /kloc-At the end of 0/5, Didi Express and various online cars started to go online, and the taxi business plummeted, earning about 4,500 yuan every month without rest. Life began to struggle, want to change industries, but no experience. I can only adjust my mentality and go step by step.
20 16 10, I met my wife and got married without a bride price. I am very grateful to her. She took good care of her family and made me feel the warmth that really belongs to my family. The following year, our daughter was born. After less than three years of struggle, my wife and I bought a third house in a new first-tier city with a deposit of more than seven figures. The final conclusion is that life has.
Note that the point is the last sentence. It may be a big turning point, or it may be that I don't want to write in detail. Both the money and the house belong to my wife, and I only played a supporting role.
People often say that people who are alive are most afraid of heart disease, which is more terrible than poverty. However, if the family is really surrounded, the man will be so humble that his heart will bleed.
In September1year, I was admitted to a university. When I looked at the admission list, I found that my son and the county magistrate went to the same university. I was introduced to the son of the county magistrate. He was very polite and invited me to report to the school together and take a special bus. I went home and told my father about it. My father's original coal company was restructured and diverted. At this time, he was laid off and kept his head down all day. My mother is an ordinary housewife with a strong personality. A few sarcastic words popped up from time to time, which made my father completely ashamed. Dad listened to my words and was very happy. He felt that in this way, he could catch up with the son of the county magistrate and save a sum of money. A family of five depends on their father. Now that I'm laid off, life is a problem. It would be nice to save a penny. Usually, we have to thank others. My father and I went shopping to buy presents. Father has no wallet, and the money for food is packed in a shabby plastic bag. I took a look and found that the biggest bill was five yuan. I walked around the street for a long time and bought three pounds of green apples and two bags of cakes. This kind of apple is sour, but it is also a luxury for us. We can only eat something during the Spring Festival.
My father and I went to the county magistrate's house with gifts. My father has never been to an official's house, and he is a little nervous and timid. The county magistrate and son met us and exchanged a few pleasantries. Then we put them in presents and went home. We went out and went up the slope, then turned around and went home. At this time, my father stopped and stared at the yard of the county magistrate's house. I followed. The county magistrate's wife appeared in sight. She went straight to the trash can with the apple we just sent in her hand and threw it in without hesitation. Father's head immediately lowered, showing a very embarrassed expression on his face. Then he quickened his pace for fear of being seen by the county magistrate's wife. I couldn't say how uncomfortable it was at the time.
Many years passed quickly, and life was like a dream. I'm sitting in an upscale office building in Beijing. Not long ago, another thing stung my heart like a needle. I worked the night shift until midnight that day. I was hungry, so I ordered takeout. At one o'clock, the takeaway brother called and said that the takeaway had arrived. I looked out through the window glass, and it was snowing heavily outside. The front of the office building is white. A young man was sitting in the snow, clutching his thigh in one hand, in agony, and holding a steamed bun in the other. An electric car fell next to him, and food was scattered all over the floor. I hurried downstairs. When the young man saw me, he cried and begged me. I'm sorry, I fell down. I'll refund you the meal money. Please don't complain, or I'll be busy for nothing today. I said nothing, you don't have to refund the meal money, you should go home quickly. But he insisted on returning the meal money to me. When I looked out through the window glass again, the young man had stood up. Instead of riding away directly, he bent down and scooped the food that had fallen on the snow into the lunch box with a spoon. My heart suddenly became heavy, as if I had seen my father humble before.
Not far away, it is the bustling CBD, which is brightly lit. Nowadays, we are used to focusing on the rich, and always forget that there are countless people at the bottom who are rushing for a meal. The country's poverty alleviation policy is very wise, and we look forward to the day when the Chinese nation will be rich together.
The most humble, 14 divorced on July 28th. At that time, I had nothing and went to Beijing with 200 yuan to take refuge in my friends. I didn't know until I arrived that my friends and I were bragging before. Sleep every day, supported by my wife. After sleeping in his basement for two days, the couple always quarreled. I didn't have any money with me, so I went outside to find a place to live. Just want to find a place to live, the reality is too cruel. Finally, I found an alien cemetery in Jiuxianqiao and lived in the grave for more than a month. I have nothing, I have put it down. I'm not afraid of ghosts! At that time, I couldn't even eat rice. One meal a day, three steamed buns and a piece of stewed tofu skin cost almost three yuan. So I persisted for a month, and then I met a brother who made a false certificate. He took me in. I don't know this brother's name yet. He lent me a motorcycle, so I started to buy it outside. After a few months, I got some money, and then I got my own motorcycle and gave it away for a year. In the second year, I started to engage in other industries, and earned hundreds of thousands of odd jobs last year. Humble without money, sometimes normal people can't think of it! This picture is a picture of the cemetery.
Tell me a personal experience! 20 15 One of my children has grown up and his family is very poor. He belongs to his parents, who were nearly 60 years old when they gave birth to him. There are three sisters in front, he is the son; Therefore, his family also dotes on him.
How poor is the family? There are only two adobe houses in the countryside. When he was seventeen or eighteen, he still lived with a little sister, and his parents lived in the same place. The other two sisters are married. In his twenties, he also went out to work, but he didn't live up to expectations. He belongs to the moonlight clan. He met an object in the factory outside and took it home to see his parents for the New Year. Originally, it was a very happy thing, but the girl saw the small family environment and left without putting down her luggage. At this time, her father ran out and took the girl by the hand and said, "Girl, let's spend the New Year here, although the family environment is not good." However, the girl did not stay because of her 70-year-old father. When I was young, I lost my temper when I saw the girl leave at home. Complaining that his parents are incompetent and can't give him a home. Because of this, his mother is very ill. His father also went out to pick up waste during the Spring Festival. This year is not a good year; Poverty makes people homeless!
Another thing happened recently; Boys have girlfriends, but in today's society, women are more material and have higher requirements for their children. They often buy some high-end bags, clothes, cosmetics and so on. But the fixed salary of boys every month can't support the profligacy of girls at all. After a long time, the girl left with the boy and another man with better conditions. When the boy found out about it, he tried his best to save it. In a square, the boy knelt down to the girl and kept crying, begging the girl to give him a chance. But what's the use? Boys can't meet the material needs of girls, and finally the girls leave mercilessly.
As the saying goes, "the rich have distant relatives in the mountains, and the poor are busy and no one asks." This means that as long as you are rich, no matter where you are, relatives will come to you, and as long as you are poor, good relatives may not remember you. Therefore, there is a saying that poverty is inseparable. When a person has no money, they will look down on friends, relatives and even parents.
Men, in particular, are under great pressure. The most important things in their lives are houses, cars, wives, children and adoptive parents. What doesn't need more money to support? So men work hard. If you are poor, you don't want dignity, because dignity also needs money to support it.
Poor enough to put up with sarcasm and criticism for 20 yuan.
Before, a new family moved to an old neighborhood nearby and prepared to redecorate the house. At that time, a wall and some old wooden cabinets were demolished, and it was found that a foreigner who recycled garbage was moving things downstairs.
At that time, the price he quoted was 200 yuan, and the landlord said that the maximum price was 150, and it would be deducted if it was not completely moved. He had no choice but to agree.
At that time, the decorator was unpacking when moving things. There is no elevator in the old house, and the stairs are narrow, and it is on the sixth floor. It's not easy to go up and down. What he expected to finish in one morning didn't expect to move until after five o'clock in the afternoon.
Moreover, someone called him to take the job, and he had to politely decline because he had not moved here. At lunch, he chewed a big steamed bun and sighed.
In the afternoon, when the landlord came to give money, he always complained that his hands and feet were too slow and delayed the progress. Later, I saw that some old furniture had not been moved, so I asked him to continue moving before giving money.
At that time, he refused. What he said before was only the wall and the wooden shelf on the wall, not the other old furniture in the house. If he knew there was old furniture to be moved, he would never spend 150 yuan to move it. Because the furniture is heavy, at least one person needs help.
So the landlord was very angry, saying that he didn't work neatly and delayed time, and deducted 20 yuan from him.
The man's face flushed with anxiety and his mouth shouted. But the landlord just gnashed his teeth and said that he was not doing well and would deduct the money unless he moved all the furniture now.
It was already dark at that time, and the man was anxious and impatient, but he could only hold his breath, put in a good word with the landlord and knelt down for him. During this period, the phone rang twice, and he pressed it all.
Fortunately, the foreman in charge of decoration is still watching the demolition work. After seeing it, he couldn't help coming over and explaining the man's situation to the landlord.
In fact, we old residents all know that the man's family is poor, his father is paralyzed in bed, and his mother takes care of him in his hometown with his 5-year-old son.
He and his wife are here, and his wife takes her two-year-old child everywhere to collect garbage and waste products every day. At six o'clock in the evening, the man came to pick her up on a tricycle and sent the recycled things to the waste station to exchange money.
In addition to collecting waste every day, men also help people move, clean the house, pick up the toilet and do some simple maintenance work in the rest of the day.
Every month, father's medical expenses and mother's and son's living expenses are very expensive, so he works as much as possible every day and never chooses dirty and tired work, as long as he has enough money.
Finally, the landlord gave him 20 yuan, and he bowed his thanks with it. Then he quickly took out his mobile phone and left quickly while making a phone call, probably to pick up his wife.
It is said that 20 yuan is the food for their family of three for two days.
I remember 1 1 years ago, when I first came to Ningbo, I found a job and resigned. As a result, once I lost my ID card, I couldn't find a job, and the rented house expired. I had no choice but to leave without anything, because I had no money to rent a house and no place to put things. I sleep in the garage of a community in Tang Hong, Jiangbei, Ningbo every day. I remember it was March, and the weather in Ningbo was still a little cold in April. I waited until the evening 10 before climbing over the wall and entering the community. I spread out the newspaper I found in the garage and covered it with cardboard. I slept like that for almost a month. I buy three steamed buns with a dollar every day, eat like that, and go to the public toilet to drink water when I am thirsty. Watching people come and go in the park during the day and watching thousands of lights at night is really not a taste in my heart. Now I bought a house in my hometown and got a marriage certificate with my girlfriend last year. I have never mentioned this experience. Only when I am hungry do you know how precious a dollar is.
I can't say what is humble, but I know how far a poor word can push a person;
I don't remember what year it was. I only remember that I had no money for the Spring Festival that year. How did I spend these two days on the 29th and 30th of the twelfth lunar month? I remember that year, on the 28th of the twelfth lunar month, all the relatives who were leaving had left, leaving only a dozen dollars in their hands. I didn't buy anything for the New Year. There is a wife and a son (how old) at home. What should I do? So I went to the market. On the 29th of the twelfth lunar month, yes. It just snowed heavily at night and the road was slippery. In some places, it is like an ice rink. I went by bike. As we all know, the price of new year's goods on the twentieth day of the twelfth lunar month is irregular, and some are more than twice as high as usual. I can't buy anything for more than ten dollars. I can't buy fish, I can't buy meat, I can't buy striped chicken, I can't buy it. What can I do in 24-5? I have always remembered three green onions clearly for so many years. I have less than 10 left in my hand, so I dare not buy anything. Going home, so I rode my bike back again. I felt uncomfortable while walking, and I couldn't tell what it was like. I'm still thinking, there's still a chance tomorrow on the 30 th of the twelfth lunar month, and there's still a big episode to catch up with. I still have less than 10, and I still have it. In the evening, my wife and I plan how to spend the year.
The next day, on the thirtieth day of the twelfth lunar month, I went to another big party. This big party is 3 kilometers away from home, and the villagers nearby also went to the market. Maybe they are guilty because they have no money. Many people are afraid to turn around and can't choose anything. They purposefully bought a handful of leeks, hung firecrackers and went home. In any case, they can't go home without making a sound during the New Year. Hanging firecrackers means putting them on for 30 nights.
On New Year's Eve that year, my wife and I also wrapped leeks and eggs in jiaozi. That year, there was no meat, no fish, no melon seeds, no candy, no chicken and no meatballs. Everyone is fried and boiled, and we have nothing. On the first morning, we set off firecrackers, ate a bowl of leek eggs and jiaozi, and then went out to pay New Year's greetings. After I came back, I slept for a while.
People who haven't experienced this may never understand what it's like to visit relatives during the New Year. When I got home, I didn't know how to spend the New Year. You can't describe your pain when you look at people's smiles. When you get to that predicament, you will understand what suffering is.
After graduating from college in 2008, my wife and I were not recognized by our family and had a bad relationship. My parents cut off my financial resources in a rage, and I haven't found a job yet, so I can only make a living on my wife's salary of more than one month 1000 yuan.
Because I have no money, can't afford to rent a house, and haven't found a job, I have been staying in the dormitory of the school. My aunt came to communicate with me several times, but I delayed on the grounds that I had to work soon. During that time, I went in and out of the dormitory to avoid my aunt. Finally, I found a job in human resources, that is, transporting labor abroad. After working for a month, I didn't expect my boss to be a liar. I agreed to 1500 per month, and finally gave it to 450, but I resigned.
The summer vacation is almost over, and the school is about to welcome a new student. Menstruation changed from initial communication to forced rushing out, and said all kinds of ugly words. I can't help it. She became a tramp with her luggage. I left most of my luggage with my wife and spent a week in an Internet cafe, looking for a job, a house and an interview. It happened that it was the world economic crisis that year, and it was too difficult to find a job. Finally, there is no choice but to go to the real estate agent to make a transition. Let's settle down first. I also found a house and took the bus from the company for more than an hour. Fortunately, the fare is only one yuan. The house is an attic on the top floor, with no windows and only one bed. You can stand at the door and walk in. It is very hot in Leng Xia in winter. In summer, I take a bath three or four times every night. If you are comfortable in the early morning, you must get up and go to work. My eyes are sticky every day.
As we all know, doing real estate is a hard job, especially in the early stage, which involves market adjustment, building sweeping, sending orders, making phone calls, moving in, memorizing information, looking at houses, showing people around and so on. I have to consume a lot of energy, so I have to keep up with my diet, but I don't. In the morning, everyone else is wrapped in soy milk and fried dough sticks. I am steamed bread. At noon, others are rice, stir-fry, saute spicy chicken, and I am a bowl of three yuan scallion noodles. My wife will solve it at night and eat a little full. Others never go to eat, and there is no way to return it. Sweeping the house and showing them around are both legs, and sometimes they rub against colleagues, so there is no way and no money. Efforts, but no results, used a lot, often the company first, but no deal, can only insist. Once, a client drove a Ferrari to see the house and thought he could take me with him. But the customer said that the car had just been washed and asked me to take a taxi with him. There is no way out. He thinks this is an opportunity, and the money he should spend has to be spent. Who promised to meet the road, around a big circle, to the place but less five dollars. Fortunately, the driver was nice and didn't want it. But when he got off the bus, he saw that the customer didn't come, and called to say that it was too congested, and something happened temporarily. Leaving me standing there alone, I don't know how to get back.
I'm completely devastated. All the cynicism and grievances I suffered at work these days, all the humble efforts, finally turned into tears. It came into being, and I sat alone in the garden crying. It was the first time that I felt lost and lost in life. Walking alone in the street of Magic Capital with my bag on my back, I didn't get home until 1 am. It's not that I don't want to ask my colleagues or my wife for help I just don't want them to see me like this.
Maybe god doesn't work hard. After struggling for nine months without invoicing, I finally got the first order in my life. Although I don't have much money, my excitement is beyond words. This is an affirmation of giving and the best proof for yourself. When we got the first commission, my wife and I spent all the commission and ate it as a reward for ourselves and her.
Later, this list never stopped. The top 1 of the company moves from the suburbs to the place close to the company every year, and the social circle is also wide. 10 years, I finally persuaded my family to marry my wife. After that, I left my job, started my own business and bought my own house. Now I have a son and a daughter, and my life is not bad.
In fact, in retrospect, I miss the time at that time. If life hadn't driven me to that point, I wouldn't have been able to inspire all my fighting spirit to change my situation. It is because of the embarrassment and misery at that time that we have a happy life now. People can't give up on themselves at any time, and hope is slim. Persistence does not necessarily win, and giving up is bound to fail. How hard you can be to yourself, how much you can achieve. This is not a poisoned chicken soup, but a fact. No matter how hard it is, you should tighten your belt and grit your teeth. People can't be unlucky all their lives. Those who work hard will be very lucky. Over this dark hill, they will be greeted by bright sunshine.
Thank you. I'm Rizi Dao.
I've experienced it myself. My distant relative, I call him cousin. Their family runs a large farm. The first two years were beautiful, and the market for minks was good. In two years, they earned hundreds of thousands. Then they expanded their scale, circled five or six acres of land and raised more than 2,000 minks. That year, the price of mink suddenly strengthened, reaching more than 500 yuan per piece, and some households even sold it to high prices near 600 yuan. The more the price soars, the more people are reluctant to sell. My cousin hasn't sold a single piece of leather. As a result, the price was quickly transferred back, and my cousin refused to sell it. In the past three or four years, he has been holding back his skin, from more than 500 yuan to 100 yuan. In the past four years, * * * has pressed six or seven thousand pieces of skin. As a result, the debt reached 2 million.
Most of the money was raised from relatives, who promised one year 10% interest at that time. Now it goes without saying that both interest and principal are lost.
Because of poverty, it is difficult for my cousin and relatives to get around. During the Spring Festival, he bought a box of the cheapest snacks and two bottles of inferior wine for each family, always less than 30 yuan. Our elders here don't give many red envelopes to their children, usually 100 yuan per child. He didn't want to give the children red envelopes, but he had to do so because of face. He doesn't give red envelopes per head, but per family, and each family gives 100 yuan. Some families forgot one or two children, and some families had four or five children, but he still gave 100 yuan. I don't know how the children divide the red envelopes and whether they will fight. His mink farm is in Hetao, three miles from the village. He seldom goes home at ordinary times, and occasionally goes home to see his parents, but he is also empty-handed. Although his parents knew he was having a hard time, they didn't give him a good look (he lost all his parents' pensions). His sister and brother were angry when they saw him. They scold him when they see him!
As the saying goes, people are less ambitious, and horses are thin and hairy! Poverty makes a person humble to the point of losing dignity, and poverty makes a person humble to the ground!
20 18, this year is a bad year, and I don't know why I came to this field. I used to work at Foxconn, and my monthly salary was ok, even better, it was more than 5 thousand. But I spend too much money on my own, and I can't save any money. I also got two credit cards, but I didn't make any money. Finally, I asked my family to give me 1 10,000 yuan to pay back my credit card.
At that time, the credit card was overdue and there was no money to pay it back. Finally, the dunning call was made to my dad. The phone call broke his heart like a bolt from the blue. He called me and asked me angrily that he had not saved a penny since he graduated from college for three years. I was expected to save some money and his money to pay the down payment on the house. A 26-year-old man, still married, has no house, no car and no savings. I know I'm too disappointing. I always like to play. I can't keep money in my hand. I never consider the consequences and spend in advance. Finally, I let my relatives know and called to ask me what was going on. My family is discussing this matter, and I am really ashamed to go home and dare not face them.
I didn't plan to go back during the Spring Festival. Everyone will say I'm going home, so I'd better not go back. But another thought, how lonely they should be to have a reunion dinner with their families every year and not go back for the New Year all year round. So, I still went back with the nerve in my heart. Chinese new year is really. Everyone will ask me how much money I have saved this year. Who is younger than you next door has saved tens of thousands. My uncle comes to my house every day to show off to my father that his daughter married a rich husband. With an annual salary of 200,000, I bought a house in Shanghai. During the Spring Festival, his family bought boxes of good wine and cigarettes. Moreover, I didn't buy anything when I went home for the New Year, and even my parents didn't have money to buy clothes. I am very unhappy. Every time I talk about the house, I don't know why I like being a house slave so much. I will keep a house all my life and die very hard.
At home during the New Year, I really realized the sadness and humbleness of having no money. Everyone will look down on you and will not give you a good face, even your closest relatives are no exception. Therefore, people must strive for their own breath when they are alive and try to impress others.
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