Who knew that English people really like chatting?

Dear China friends who are wandering in London, what do you think of the weather in Britain recently? Hey, it's obviously autumn. Why do you feel "in a hurry" in winter? Last night, I went to the supermarket to buy things, and I wore long pants brought back from China, but I still froze to death. I think my sneeze will freeze! what do you think? Do you miss England very much? Isn't summer like summer? In fact, on second thought, there is nothing good about summer in England. I still think ... seeing this, are you feeling: British people really like chatting, and China's textbooks are really right! Ha ha! Then, indeed, you can often hear the weather in English conversations. Therefore, many friends in China regard chatting as being angry and asking' Have you eaten?' from China. That sentence is used as an opening remark when chatting with the British. In fact, English people talk not because they like chatting very much, but as a polite conversation, which is often circulated among unfamiliar people, or when there is nothing to say in order to avoid silence and embarrassment, there is no need to chat at the beginning. So, this is a misunderstanding. In other words, if you are familiar with it, or if you obviously have other topics to talk about, you don't have to talk about it at all, let alone as an opening remark. So, besides chatting to start small talk, what other opening topics can be used? You can't ask the British' Have you eaten'! In fact, there are many topics that can be used as opening remarks. For example, the most frequently asked question on Monday morning is "How was your weekend?". And something like "What did you do at the weekend?" "What did you do last night?" "Is everything all right?" Wait, it's all pretty good opening remarks. Of course, that doesn't mean you can't chat. Just if you want to chat, don't be wordy. The weather can also be related to other topics. It's so cold at the moment. I know, I went to a restaurant the other day and ate out. My toes seem to fall off! Why don't you ask something else, not the weather here? Oh, which restaurant did you go to? What's it like? In short, unless you are a stranger, try to talk about some private things in your life according to your understanding of the chat object, as long as it doesn't involve privacy. In this way, the other party will think that you care about and value them.