Ryan's engagement custom

In view of the fact that many young people don't understand the engagement and marriage market in Ryan (downtown) now, I will give you an introduction according to the preparation before the engagement and the situation on the wedding day:

Engagement:

1. Parents of both parties attend the banquet to negotiate the engagement, mainly to set the yellow calendar and the amount of the man's dowry. The amount of gift money depends on the family conditions of both parties. If both parties are ordinary families (here, ordinary families mean that the annual income of both families is about 1, RMB), the current standard is about 88,888-18, RMB.

2. There must be plenty of time before the engagement date. During this time, it is necessary to acquire what two people need for their engagement. Let's start with what the man gave the woman, and a set of gold ornaments includes earrings, bracelets and anklets. A pair of rings, a diamond ring (the price of a diamond ring is about 15, now, in fact, you can also go to the goldsmith's point to buy a loose diamond and choose your favorite style to build it. The price is very different, which can save about 35%. Note: Ask parents first, some parents like to buy 24K pure gold and think it can preserve the value, but young people don't like it and feel rustic), and there is a pair of sugar, gold and apricot. Ryan's wedding candy is divided into different sizes. All the wedding candy needed by the woman is the responsibility of the man, including the red envelopes in the wedding candy, except some friends of the woman's parents. (At present, 5-1 red envelopes are given by people, depending on the conditions of both parties and the number of wedding candy). What the woman wants to buy is a suit, two shirts, two ties, two pairs of shoes (one pair of casual shoes), two sets of casual clothes, a dozen socks, one gold bracelet and one necklace (if the red envelope for the best man is less than 58, you need to buy another shirt for the best man). There are 88 pieces of dishes, 98 pieces and 18 pieces to choose from. Buy them as appropriate, and divide them into six samples. Then return one of the candied apricots sent by the man to the man, and the money received will be returned according to the economic conditions. If the woman's conditions are generally 88888, it will be returned to the man, ranging from 38888 to 58888. The remaining money will be used to buy things for the man and to buy a new house in the future. If the woman's condition is good, just accept all the gift money and buy a car for the man.

3. Engagement Day: There are two kinds of engagement banquets in Ruian. One is that the woman's house hosts a banquet for the man's parents and best man at noon, and the man invites the woman back at night. The other is that both parents and close relatives and friends hold a banquet in a hotel to get engaged. Generally, there are many people who choose the latter in urban areas. In the afternoon, the man drives to the woman's home to greet her and her parents, and gives the woman's brother or sister suitcase money (suitcase money means that the woman's brother or sister refuses to leave without letting her sister get married, and he will only let people go if you give him money, as explained by the older generation. ) suitcase money is about 1-18 (depending on the man's financial ability). After arriving at the hotel, offer tea to both parents (generally, tea is rarely served now, and tea brings wine), and propose a toast to relatives and friends to witness your love (anyway, a word. Drink ~~~)

Get married:

1. After deciding the wedding date, I will start to book the banquet in the hotel. Now Ryan seems to have to book the banquet one year in advance. I am dizzy. Everyone will get married on a good day. Then we have to set up a nest first. The house price is too expensive, so let's not worry about it. It costs 1 million RMB for a house of more than 13 square meters (take the residential area in Anyang as an example). Of course, the man is responsible for buying and decorating the house, and the decoration will take at least two months. After the decoration, the furniture in the room is bought by the man and everything else is dressed by the woman. This is a big expense, not to mention electrical appliances. Even buying decorative things, kitchen and bedding is a big expense.

2. Choose a good time and good weather for two people to take wedding photos. Generally, photo studios are now engaged in price wars with similar skills and strength, but they don't care about that little money just once in their lives. Just be careful not to look at this one that feels good, and the more you choose, the more you spend. Generally, it is worthwhile to control it at 4,-5, to take photos.

3. It's almost OK to take photos of the nest. Please get married in advance, wait for the wedding with peace of mind, and contact the wedding day photography, car rental and fireworks. However, these have nothing to do with the etiquette companies that are all over the street now. As for your personal preference without the emcee, I always feel that if you have too many banquets, you will be busy for half a day until 12 o'clock in the evening, and you won't be able to wait for others.

4. Before the wedding, the bride just needs to get a facial and get horny, so she doesn't have to get up so early on the wedding day. Now beauticians come directly to the house after 9: to get their hair done and nails done, and then eat. After this lunch, the next meal will not be until the next day's lunch. Here, I want to remind everyone that they still have to eat enough, hehe. . . Then it takes more than an hour for the makeup artist to put on the wedding dress, shawl, makeup and hairstyle when he gets home at one o'clock. I would like to remind you that you should pay attention to inform the makeup artist in advance what color and style your wedding dress is, so that she can prepare headdresses with the same color and style. The man is almost the same. It's not as troublesome as the woman. At 4 o'clock, the groom and the best man will leave for the woman's house to pick up the bride. When they get to the bride's house, the bridesmaids will try some tricks to embarrass the groom. Finally, of course, the red envelope will be fixed before opening the door, and then there will be nine bridesmaids (but in some places it can't be nine bridesmaids, it must be an even number of six, eight or ten) and all the man's relatives of the bride will go to the new house with the car. Here we talk about getting off the bus. If you rent a car here in Ryan, the driver must hand over the cigarettes, otherwise some bad drivers will drive fast and slow on purpose, so that there will be no queues, and the video will not look good. Then, when you go to the new house, you will make a video of offering tea and glutinous rice balls, and you must remember the order of your elders when you honor things, otherwise you will be gossiped. Next, another bus will drive to the hotel, and then there will be a lion dance (generally Ryan is not so grand), and then red envelopes will be given (there are more or less red envelopes, generally 28). Next, some groomsmen will spray the newlyweds and bridesmaids with that spray. It is suggested that the bride put down her veil, while the bridesmaid suggested preparing an old dress with a hat and putting it on before going in, hehe. The last level is, of course, a toast. This is the most important thing. Of course, it varies from person to person. Let's give full play to each other, so it's not necessary here. We should also pay attention to the fact that the bride in the middle needs to change her wedding dress and hairstyle. It should also be noted that Ryan now gives the woman 1-4 tables of banquets including red envelopes (depending on the number of relatives of the woman), and the red envelopes are of course collected by their parents.

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