What is chatting? What do you mean?

Most foreigners meet to talk about the weather. Actually, so do we. Why else would it be called chatting? At first, chatting meant talking about the weather. Haha, this is an article from Zhu Ziqing. But it turns out that chatting is a hot topic. In this e-era, the so-called chat can be divided into two types. One is chatting online, and the other is communicating with people in real life. Chat now includes voice chat and video chat.

First, online chatting is completely casual and does not involve too many ideas. Play your potential as much as possible. Like-minded people are undoubtedly thousands of friends and forget their worries. So there are not too many constraints.

At first glance, this seems to be a stupid topic, but when you think about it carefully, it is still a bit confusing. I have been thinking about this seemingly simple but puzzling problem for nearly six years. What is the Internet? Where is the full release of the charm it provides us in this infinite space? Many friends told me that people are obsessed with chatting because they are under too much pressure in real life. They need to relax, talk, share their pain and failure, and find the object and themselves to vent from simple relaxation.

I think the real charm of online chat should come from the infiltration of words into emotions. The world we see in our eyes is limited, but the thoughts we feel in our hearts are infinite and eternal. In real life, we know a person first through watching, knowing and communicating, but not through the Internet. We can't see each other with our eyes, and we can't rationally know the person opposite you. What we feel for each other is to get to know him step by step through words and exchanges of thoughts and feelings.

Under the cover of the virtual veil, this kind of emotion fabricated by the mind has become extraordinarily colorful and mysterious. In an instant, each of us is tall and sacred, and everyone has become a savior. Everyone will take the initiative to help and understand those lonely people who are fragile inside, and have long forgotten who they are. In fact, they are also very lonely and need to be concerned. When we communicate, we often attach our emotions to each other's emotions. For example, "Hello" is an ordinary greeting in real life. When we say "hello" in the chat room, we may imagine that when he (she) says this sentence, he (she) has a bright smile and a beautiful tone, as if he (she) nodded politely. Think again about whether you are smiling at the moment and whether you are light.

In reality, we use reason to experience life, but in the network, we use sensibility to fantasize about life, and regard emotion and friendship as extremely delicate and perfect. When the fantasy is dashed, you know that he (she) on the other side of the screen is not the idol you really want. Did you have tears and heartache at that time? I believe it is the feeling that everyone here has had, so I thought of leaving, hoping to return to reality and find my true self.