Can fraternity be equated with scum?

Brotherhood is not scum. Loving is loving everyone, including our compatriots, and loving our motherland. This is great love. The scum is promiscuous, does not take the initiative or refuse, and even has a tendency to violence. There is still a difference between the two.

First, sweet talk, love commitment, inaction, don't want to be responsible, exposed anxiety, cold violence will force you to break up first. This is love rat. It's harmless, but it's exciting. He will seduce you with sweet words, but then he won't act. A complete "I still love you, the status quo is the best, and I don't want to change." Once you expose him, he will be furious and say that you don't trust him or something, and cold violence will force you to break up first.

Second, sweet talk with other girls, all kinds of girls, neither take the initiative nor refuse. This kind of boy is not only love rat, but also selfish. In order to satisfy his vanity and be liked by many girls, he felt very proud. From time to time, he will flirt with each other with words and look at each other with a sense of accomplishment. Therefore, many people equate fraternity with love rat, which is actually incorrect. His behavior is "fraternity" at best and promiscuity at worst.

Third, and most importantly, love rat will only be caring and attentive, while people who love each other will only bring care. Many scum men will ask you whether you arrive early or late, or whether noon is good. Various festivals, especially Valentine's Day, will also send you messages, making you mistakenly think that he cares about you and cares about you. In fact, this is just the basic skill that love rat must do every day. He may use the group sending function to send the same message directly to several prey at a time, and finally chat with whoever is interested.

Fourth, people who love each other may not come for help every day, but their concern is solid. For example, if the weather gets worse and it starts to rain heavily, he will send a message to remind you to take an umbrella immediately, because he thinks you may get wet, and seeing the weather forecast shows that the weather temperature will drop. He will send a message to remind you to wear more clothes tomorrow, because he thinks you will catch a cold if you wear less. He won't tease a girl casually, but he is really nice to this girl. This is what boys should learn.