The warmer weather is a good time for toilet training. How to help your baby go to the toilet independently?

During this epidemic, as the hardest hit area in Hubei, our families consciously stayed at home and isolated. Fortunately, we are in the countryside, with a small population flow and fresh air. Houses in rural areas generally have a large space, which is very suitable for children to play. My cousin's second son is 2 years old and 5 months old, but he still wears diapers every day, and as long as he doesn't defecate, my cousin will change diapers every six or seven hours. Seeing that the weather is getting hotter and hotter and the children are getting bigger and bigger, the family advised the cousin to give up changing diapers for the children.

So, the cousin put on open-backed pants for the child. Every time the child wets his pants, his cousin yells at him and tells him to tell his mother the next time he wants to pee. If not, you will be beaten if you pee your pants again.

Facts have proved that my cousin's training method is not effective. Children don't learn to tell their parents in advance, but the frequency of wetting their pants is getting higher and higher. No way, my cousin changed the diaper for the child again, thinking that as long as the child grows up, he will naturally take off his pants and pee, and there is no need to toss.

When can I have independent toilet training? According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, most babies will have the consciousness of spontaneous urination at 18-24 months. For most babies, you can try to quit diapers after 2 years old, and you can completely quit diapers after 3 years old to realize independent toilet use.

However, each child's growth and development law is different. Generally, when the child shows the following signals, he can carry out toilet training.

1, can understand parents' instructions and know what "pee" and "stink" mean; 2. The time of urination and defecation becomes more regular; 3. Being able to sit on the pony barrel alone. 4. I am willing to imitate the way adults go to the toilet. How can I easily teach my baby to go to the toilet independently? 1, choose a toilet that the baby likes. It is necessary to choose a toilet that the baby likes before deciding to train the baby to go to the toilet independently. Parents can ask their children's opinions, show them the pattern of toilets and ask them which one they prefer. And at this time, instill in the child the consciousness that "from today on, we must learn to go to the toilet by ourselves" so that he can be psychologically prepared.

2, the baby imitates the appearance of adults to go to the toilet. We all know that imitation is the nature of children, and they especially like to imitate the actions of adults. Dad can teach boys to go to the toilet, and mom can teach girls to go to the toilet. For example, teach your baby how to take off his pants, how to squat on the toilet (or sit on the toilet), and how to put on his pants after going to the toilet. Help the baby do the movements, and let the baby learn how to go to the toilet while observing.

3. Children can be taught to go to the toilet through picture books. Parents can teach their children how to go to the toilet by telling them picture books. There are more vivid pictures and some concrete actions in the picture book. When children observe how children in picture books go to the toilet, they will be inspired and learn to go to the toilet by themselves.

4, parents should pay attention to tone, be patient, encourage children and babies to make mistakes when they just learn to go to the toilet, or sometimes have fun and don't remember to go to the toilet, they will pee their pants or directly pull their pants. At this time, parents must not yell at their children, because children also have self-esteem, and parents' blame will only make them feel depressed and even disgusted. In this way, it is actually not conducive to baby toilet training. If the baby gets his pants dirty, parents should tell their children that it doesn't matter. Just go to the beautiful pony barrel to go to the toilet next time.

In short, you must have enough patience to train your baby to go to the toilet. A watched pot never boils. You must not put too much psychological pressure on your child, which will only be counterproductive. When children learn skills, it is also a process of growth, and the process of growth must be accompanied by the love of parents.