If you get married, would you rather have a modern wedding in a city hotel or a traditional wedding in your hometown?

If I get married, I'd rather have a wedding in a hotel. The main reasons are as follows:

1. Parents are too hard to hold weddings in rural areas

If we hold weddings in our village, our parents will do all the details, such as the arrangement of guests, the purchase of food, and the diet in the kitchen. In the past, when my brother had a wedding, it was held in the village. When I went back, I saw that my parents had become panda eyes. All kinds of supplies and ingredients were prepared the day before the wedding. Get up early in the morning to arrange things on the wedding day, greet guests during the day, and the running water mat will last all day, and there will be an endless stream. Like the bride and groom, they almost have no time to eat all day, and it hurts to sneak into the kitchen and wolf down a few mouthfuls. In the evening, I have to arrange to clean up the tableware, as well as hygiene. It's too much work. Therefore, I prefer to hold a wedding in a hotel. As long as I arrange my own things, other activities are busy in the hotel. My parents can sit down and eat as long as they help to meet the guests together. They don't have to get up early or stay up late, and they don't have to prepare in advance. They just want to be happy to see me get married.

2. It's too much trouble for relatives and friends to hold a wedding in the countryside.

Our village's own weddings have always been helped by relatives and friends, from the wedding room, wedding car, shopping, reception, kitchen, washing dishes, serving food and mopping the floor. Although there are disposable bowls and chopsticks now, they have to be troubled by many tedious things. How long our parents are busy, how long they are busy, and they are still tired after delaying time. So I am willing to get married in a hotel. As long as they come to my wedding happily and eat and drink happily, I will feel very happy.

3. Getting married in a hotel will make it easier to take care of friends far away and minimize poor greeting.

Although I like traditional custom weddings very much, there are all kinds of customs in traditional weddings, such as picking up the bride at the right time, visiting the bride at the right time, and what kind of friends can be present at the right time. These things were busy, and the guests at the water table came early, but they were full when they didn't see the bride enter the door. There were so many people and their parents didn't have time to take care of them, so people left with regrets about not seeing the bride. Even some friends from afar may have arrived when we are busy with the ceremony, but no one has received them yet. I hope everyone will come and leave happily at my wedding. In a wedding in a hotel, everyone eats at the same time, and the couple will offer tea to everyone when they eat. Everyone can see the couple's smile and receive everyone's blessing.

Besides, friends who come from afar can arrange accommodation nearby, so they won't leave early because they are in a hurry. Many of them don't have friends after graduation for many years. They can also stay after the wedding to catch up with the old days, take them to play the next day, and still have time to see them off.

Therefore, no matter how much I like traditional weddings, I prefer to take care of my parents and friends and choose to get married in a hotel.