I am conflicted about this, please help me.

Cherish it. In these years, it is not easy to find a woman who is willing to pay so much for herself. Our parents are always more realistic than us. To be honest, I am in the same situation as you ( But the gender is different), but I still convinced my parents~ After all, they are also doing it for their own children, so we have to talk to them from this perspective~ Of course my parents hope that their children can find a good one, so that their children You will be affected~ However, I feel that if you have such a mentality, you will be mentally inferior to others by default~ Not to mention that you are a man, if you do what they say, you are really suspected of being a softie~ In this way, if you encounter A nicer girl is okay, but if you have a bad temper, you will feel that it hurts your self-esteem, and you will definitely think of her good things now. Instead of having to go through a process to make you cherish her, it is better to try to convince your parents during this time. The two people began to fight for their own tomorrow peacefully. Also, age is not a problem when it comes to true love. What's more, would you rather be taken care of in a comfortable manner, or would you rather take care of and coax others in a hurry all day long?

Besides, you don’t necessarily have to use your parents’ money to buy a house. Are you still young? Why not strive for a better life yourself?

Also, judging from your first few sentences, you seem to be a little bit upset about her not giving you the first time~ But then you hurt her like that. You know the impact of abortion on women How much damage does it cause? What's more, she was hurt and didn't let her take good care of her body. She trusts you so much and recognizes you, so she will pay for you like that. Ask yourself, are you worth it?

Come on, if you have someone who loves you by your side, someone who firmly supports you and affirms you, you will have the courage to face everything.

No matter how difficult it is outside, there will always be a smiling face waiting for you when you come home, and there will always be a gentle person waiting for you silently. What a blessing this is~

Also, the most precious thing in life is not "Can't get" and "lost" are the happiness we have now~