How to chat without embarrassment

Too sensitive, habitual self-concealment.

You may have met people who are good at using Chinese characters in chatting, or you are used to replying to most conversations with a string of "hahaha". It seems that they are optimistic, cheerful and friendly, but if the topic you are talking about is serious or formal, this attitude will be embarrassing and easily resented. In fact, many times, these people are not really as impetuous as they seem, but they are too sensitive. Subconscious social fear makes them subconsciously use a seemingly humorous way to cover up their inner embarrassment and tension.

They may be afraid of getting a disappointing answer, or they may be afraid of facing the unknown reaction of the other party, so they put on a relaxed mask and pretend they don't care. It doesn't matter. However, it is also easy for them not to really go deep into a topic, and it is difficult for them to have real heart-to-heart communication and conversation with each other.