What about men's cold violence?

The solution of boyfriend's cold violence;

1, what should I do? I am self-centered. People who like cold violence, the more you beg him, the more he goes too far. On the contrary, when you are self-centered, he will come to you.

2. Try to create a psychological gap for him. If you are happy, let him know, such as increasing your circle of friends, Weibo, etc. In this way, he will have a sense of crisis that "you don't have to be me".

Don't respond too positively when he looks for you, and continue to create a sense of gap. This can further amplify his sense of crisis. If he can't resist, he may come to you on his own initiative.

Seize the opportunity to set rules for him. When he comes to you, don't be in a hurry to forgive, but make a scene and take the opportunity to tell him your love principles. If he is always cold and violent, then break up.

5. Make good use of nonviolent communication. Boys will use cold violence, largely because it is painful to communicate with you. He wants to avoid this kind of pain, so he might as well change his communication mode and use non-violent communication mode to effectively avoid the cold war.