What qualities will make a woman's life better and better after divorce?

In the traditional thinking mode, marrying a woman with children after divorce means raising children for others and spending money to buy punishment. Some people think that such a woman gave love to her first husband, affection to her children, youth to family of origin, and what's left? Residual water? I really can't have it.

Some men think that if they marry a woman who is married for the second time, they will feel humiliated and will never lift their heads. ? It's hard for a husband and wife to leave their hands on each other halfway. Many people believe this sentence, especially in money. Halfway through, the couple are very selfish and have no plans to live a lifetime in a down-to-earth manner.

The afternoon before yesterday, I received a phone call from my friend Zhou Wang, who invited me to the party. When he arrived at the party hotel, Zhou Wang was already waiting at the door. When several friends are chatting together, Zhou Wang's wife and two children are on the side. They greet their friends very warmly. At dinner, neither of the children made any noise. A bowl of boiled chicken was served on the table. Zhou Wang gave each of them a drumstick, but the eldest son gave it to the younger daughter. Is this a modern edition? Kong Rong qinli? I really give them a compliment.

In recent years, Zhou Wang has been starting a business in the south and opened a leather bag factory. I'm not sure about the details. After dinner, we continued to talk, and I realized that Zhou Wang's wife was a woman with a second marriage and her son was born to a woman and her ex-husband. But looking at their home, there is nothing wrong with it, but it is enviable.

From Zhou Wang's marriage, I saw a fact: a divorced woman with children should be cherished if she has the following five characteristics!

1. The reason for divorce is the fault of the man. She has always been a good woman who cares about her family.

Zhou Wang's wife is Li Mei. In the previous marriage, she married a Sichuanese. The man was lazy and gambling, and lost all his money. Later, men had extramarital affairs, and it was common for them not to go home for several months. Therefore, Li Mei sued the man and divorced him.

Before the divorce, Li Mei always cared about her family, not only taking care of her parents-in-law, but also talking to her neighbors. When Li Mei left her parents-in-law, they all cried and said, Where can I find such a good daughter-in-law? My son, too, had bad luck and failed to live up to expectations. ? Up to now, Li Mei and her parents-in-law will occasionally contact, care about their health and send them some nutrients.

Only those women who are careless about marriage, or women who have extramarital affairs, are not worth marrying home, because her character is not good. There is also concern that women can't get along well with their families, especially the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and not being filial to their parents will also keep men away.

2. Women are enterprising, economical and have the face of their husbands.

After Li Mei's divorce, a person started a business in the south with his children. She majored in design in college. How to give full play to professional advantages and earn the first bucket of gold as soon as possible, Li Mei made many attempts, and finally chose to open a leather goods store and later developed into a leather bag factory.

It is also a piece of leather, but in Li Mei's hand, it will become a beautiful leather bag. Li Mei started a business while studying and became a fashionable person, so the purses she designed were very popular in the market.

Zhou Wang opened a handbag shop in a small town in the south. He met Li Mei through acquaintances and bought goods from Li Mei. After a long time, the two became better and better, developed into lovers and became strong partners. Husband and wife are United, and their profits are broken. Through their efforts, they earned five or six million yuan in just a few years. Speaking of entrepreneurial experience, Zhou Wang said gratefully: Thanks to Li Mei's skillful hands these years. ?

3. Proper limits, getting along with others, very strong, never provoking anyone.

Women who do business inevitably have to deal with many businessmen, both men and women. Some divorced women often can't grasp the scale and trust others casually, leading to divorce, falling into emotional whirlpool and never finding a good home. There are also some women who fall in love with men with families after divorce, which is even more unclear.

After Li Mei divorced, she didn't fall in love for three or four years. Although some men pursue her, she always treats her with courtesy and politely refuses. In Li Mei's view, it is better to be in short supply than luxury. As long as you don't like people, don't provoke them. It was not until she met Zhou Wang that she fell in love seriously. Marriage is also carefully considered.

Before meeting Li Mei, Zhou Wang had never been married, but had two relationships. Who is Zhou Wang in others' eyes? Lose money? After I got married, I became a ready-made father. But Zhou Wang doesn't care about other people's opinions, because happiness is his own, beautiful and trustworthy.

4. She loves beauty very much, and she is very temperamental. She is getting younger as she lives.

Li Mei is thirty-four years old, but she looks like a woman in her mid-twenties, not like a mother of two children at all. Many women become yellow-faced women after marriage, dissatisfied women after divorce, and suddenly they are much older. Li Mei is not such a person. She has always been confident and loves beauty. Because I like reading, I have improved my temperament. I obviously felt it when I spoke? Profound knowledge? Real feelings.

A good appearance can make a woman add a lot of impression points, a good temperament can make a woman always the goddess in a man's heart, and a young mind can make life more cheerful.

Therefore, divorced women really should not be depressed or look down on themselves. This society, lucky, favors those who are sunny and like to follow young people.

5. The children she raised are knowledgeable, educated and very competitive.

It's really difficult for divorced women with children to find a boyfriend. Everyone is worried. How about raising someone else's children and finally raising one? Baiwenhang? . There are also some women who have impure love motives and want men to bear the living expenses, and then divorce men when their children grow up. This kind of marriage just makes do, one day at a time.