It is appropriate to quarrel with your husband and take your children to a hotel for a few days.

According to personal circumstances and needs, staying in a hotel for a few days is an option that can be considered. Here are some suggestions:

1. Short-term accommodation: If you have a temporary conflict with your husband and just need temporary peace and space, you can choose short-term accommodation, such as booking a hotel room or renting a short-term serviced apartment. This can provide you with an independent and private space, so that you have time to calm down and think and solve problems.

2. Hotel facilities: consider choosing a hotel suitable for children, so as to ensure that children have suitable environment and facilities, such as children's play areas or children's restaurants. This can provide some entertainment and comfortable environment for children and reduce the interference to their normal life.

3. Hotel surroundings: Choose hotels with convenient geographical location, such as parks, shops and restaurants, so that you can use this time to do some relaxation and entertainment activities and take your children out to enjoy some new things.

4. Public facilities and services: confirm whether the hotel you choose provides the services you need, such as laundry, child care or catering services. These facilities can provide you with more convenience and help and reduce some trivial troubles.

Of course, these are just some suggestions, which need to be decided according to your actual situation and needs. Before making a decision, I suggest you communicate with your husband and try to solve the problem. If necessary, you can also consider consulting a marriage and family professional.