Engagement custom in Wenshang, Jining, Shandong Province

There is a misunderstanding. We don't look at the money there, we just keep accounts. This money will generally revert to the past, and there is no face at all. One in a million, but roughly divided into 6600,8800, 1 1 000, depending on the specific situation of the family, there is no at least 1 1 000. This money was taken when we took photos together and got engaged. The so-called engagement is the date when parents discuss marriage. Many times it is decided by two people. Usually the woman will get her money back. There are some differences. In addition, the woman will buy a dowry and the man will hold a banquet. In fact, men and women spend almost the same amount of money, but the festive energy is much less than before!