The feeling of my open marriage with my husband, the so-called open marriage is to make excuses for myself.

My feelings about the open marriage with my husband. Open marriage is a casual lifestyle for married couples. This kind of marriage is similar to dancing between men and women. If you feel good, you will continue to dance. If you don't feel well, you will go your separate ways and find your own things. This new form of marriage has also been criticized by many people.

Of course, is it really happy to adopt this open marriage?

After reading the following story, maybe you will have some new inspiration.

After shopping, Xiao Jia and Xiao Ni go to eat green tea.

Through the corridor, through the flowing water and green plants, through a dark corner, Xiao Jia stopped in the dim light, and Xiao Ni turned to ask: What's the matter?

I think I saw Xiaojie. Xiao Jia, keep up with Xiao Ni.

Lao Liu? Where is it? With who? Shall we ask him to be with us? Xiao ni wants to go back curiously, and Xiao Jia

follows a woman. Forget it. Xiao Jia said quietly: Just ignore it.

then what are you waiting for? Go! Tear! Xiao Ni is going to roll up her sleeves and have a big fight. Xiao Jia not only did not move, but also held her chest in her hands, smiling full: with this strength, it is better to call a friend to save a game after eating.

My feelings about my open marriage with my husband, you poked your eyes, sister. Xiao Ni doesn't want to fall into the well, but she can't help talking about the gossip nature of women: how many times is this? Why don't you let him go? Oh, no, Xiao Jia, it must be his advantage to be so tolerant of such a man who deceives women's feelings, so where is it particularly long?

Looking at Xiao Ni's funny expressions and hints, Xiao Jia was almost angry: it doesn't matter if she is old. There is no point in tossing and turning. Are you divorced? Big moves can hurt your muscles and bones. Why did you leave? Looking for a small fresh meat, the old aunt has no confidence and can't talk, looking for a divorced widow? Can you promise not to make the same mistake again?

Xiao Ni scoffed: You should have thought so, all right.

nine years ago.

Xiao Jia is 26 years old and is going to get married. And Xiao Qin.

Xiao Qin and Xiao Jia are high school classmates. Xiao Qin is the child of others in the large population, and Xiao Jia is the negative teaching material in the teacher's mouth.

These are two parallel lines that don't intersect, but they intersect because they were admitted to a university in the same city. Of course, students go to 985, and students are mixed with junior college.

They actually met each other at the party of several old classmates, and then Xiao Jia took the initiative to win Xiao Qin.

Because we are both first loves, we have a lot of time to spend together. At that time, how beautiful! They have done all the romantic things you can imagine in the lovers' world.

On weekends, the two ran to each other through most cities, snuggling in the corners of various parks and enjoying the sweet air of love.

Or, hide in the narrow room of a small hotel near the school, waste short and precious passionate time and sprinkle young hormones at will.

Not to mention those days when we went home together during the holidays, two people behind their parents stole/dated like lovers and stole rice like mice.

Xiao Jia's peach eyes, soaked with love, are gentle and full of spring, and the whole world is romantic pink.

Xiao Jia graduated one year earlier than Xiao Qin. Although she is not a reading material, she has a special view on girls' makeup and fashion, and soon found a job as a cosmetics supervisor. Three years later, she accumulated qualifications and jumped to an international luxury brand for marketing. Not only did the whole popularity field increase by N grades, but her salary was several times that of Qin Fengming's technology in state-owned enterprises.

Then, two young people with boiling blood borrowed money to buy a house, took wedding photos and booked a honeymoon hotel. At that time, Xiao Jia was sure that they would have a couple for life and be so happy all the time.

unexpectedly, a phone call broke this winding dream.

that woman is six years older than Xiao Qin and divorced to take care of the children. She didn't say anything on the phone, but said softly, I heard that you are getting married. Congratulations. But don't you know? My son's name is Feng Ming's father.

Xiao Jia exploded immediately. She called and threw away everything that could be broken in the house. She even pushed a huge wedding photo from the third floor

Xiao Qin was frightened. He quickly went downstairs to confirm whether he had hurt passers-by. Fortunately, they didn't buy many new community residents, and there were no people downstairs.

Xiao Jia threw all Qin's clothes and supplies out of the window, and then shouted into the air: Xiao Qin, you have to cheat, find a woman taller than me and convince me! What do you like about that woman? Why don't you die?

Xiao Qin looked up at the familiar window and silently picked up things on the ground one by one. Finally, he looked at Xiao Jia standing at the window overlooking the earth. He saw that there were no tears in her eyes, only anger and despair. She held out her hand in front of him, slowly took off the ring on the ring finger of her left hand and threw it down without hesitation.

Xiao Lin's inner ring was inlaid with a diamond ring, which hit his left face accurately. Then it fell to the ground, then bounced up, jumped a few times and rolled into the sewer.

after all, it is scattered.

It took Xiao Jia a long time to get out of that vigorous relationship. During that long time, she doubted life, love, men and herself.

But from beginning to end, Xiao Jia didn't have a chance to defend Xiao Qin. Why not listen to his defense? Because she didn't dare, she was afraid that she would be shaken.

how many things happened between men and women when they were young? Big enough to trigger the Trojan War. Xiao Jia and Xiao Qin were burned to ashes in this war.

a few months later, Xiao Qin, who didn't understand, left his hometown. Five years later, Xiao Jia chose Xiaojie, who was neither salty nor light, and in the paper-like marriage, she would get along without pain.

Traditionally, Xiaojie is not a good person. After three or four years of marriage, Shan Xiaojia met three or four women.

In fact, Xiaojie didn't put forward the argument of open marriage from the beginning. He just said that he understood her emotional trauma. He said he wouldn't force Xiao Jia to treat him sincerely, as long as she didn't refuse him and gave him a chance to appear in her life.

Of course, Xiaojie said this for a reason. He knows Xiao Jia's past. He confessed to Xiao Jia before. At that time, Xiao Jia and Xiao Qin were entangled, and she refused him. But he didn't insist, and he always lived beside her as an ordinary friend.

Xiao Jia's attitude towards men is dispensable, but she decided to give Xiaojie a chance, because she thought she should also explain to her parents, relatives and friends over the years.

As a result, after half a year of marriage, Xiaojie cheated for the first time, and his methods were not clever. He went to take a shower and put his mobile phone on the bed. The screen lit up, and the content was: Tomorrow at the same place!

Xiao Jia didn't feel too sad, so she told him directly. Therefore, he confidently mentioned to her the divine operation of open marriage.

Xiaojie's original words are: People have desires. Facing their desires doesn't mean that they don't assume their responsibilities. There are various forms of marriage in the world, and we can try an open marriage. As long as we can completely trust each other, have no privacy, understand each other and accept everything from each other, I believe we can reach the end of our lives.

what is the end of life? Xiao Jia has no time to take care of her. She only thinks of: going their own way and not interfering with each other.

In this way, Xiaojia selectively went blind once, twice and three or four times. The question Xiao Ni asked does not exist. Why did you leave? Xiaojie is very good in all aspects except changing partners from time to time. When they are together, he takes care of her more, no matter the details of life or the emotional value.

As for the life of husband and wife, did Xiao Canon tell others this shameful question? After Xiao Qin left, she never reached Google again.

anyway, without love, who can you live with? At least Jacko has feelings for her.

Xiao Jia came home late, pushed open the door, and Xiaojie was still awake, leaning against the bed and reading a thick history book.

I'm sorry, I didn't get your call or see your message when I was singing with my friends at night. Xiao Jia explained while removing makeup.

Never mind. I asked Xiao Ni later, and she said that you saw me in green tea. His face was still buried in the book, and his head didn't rise, but his tone showed unhappiness: Seeing that I didn't ask me to have dinner or even say hello, you really became more and more heartless.

Xiao Jia holds the hand of makeup remover cotton, stops on her fancy face and looks at the man on the bed from the mirror. Suddenly a little soft, explained: not heartless, I am afraid to disturb you to have dinner with your friends. When I saw you, you almost finished eating.

She didn't ask who that woman was, but defined her as his friend euphemistically. Xiaojie didn't speak again, closed the book, turned off the bedside lamp, lay down on his side and fell asleep.

Xiao Jia reluctantly took a shower, took a shower, painted her face, leaned against the bed and turned on her cell phone. A message popped up: Xiao Jia, I'm back, and I have time to get together. Xiaoqin.

The next day, Xiao Jia put on makeup for a long time, and she couldn't cover her dark circles. Having dinner with Xiao Ni at noon, Xiao Ni didn't forget to hit her: Yo, sales director, you two bags under your eyes are almost falling to the ground. How to discipline your handsome men and beautiful women?

Xiao Jia puts her hands on her forehead, opens the message and pushes her mobile phone to Xiao Ni.

Xiao Ni smiled innocently and shook her head and sang: As long as she didn't get it, the past was always the best.

if you don't get it, if you lose it, you will never forget it, or you will never forget it. Other people's memories will beautify each other. In Xiaojia's memory, she stubbornly gave Xiaoqin three points of affection and rounded it to zero. What's left? This is a 1% cone heart betrayal and injury.

Xiao Jia sadly found that from beginning to end, she never walked out of failure.

see? Still can't see The problem is always hovering there. Is that what she wants to face one by one? Or continue to avoid shrinking?

It is said that this is an open marriage, but Xiaojia has always been indifferent to her feelings and never really let go. As for Xiaojie's emotional release again and again, she really doesn't care. Does that hurt?

Xiao Jia works unintentionally and feels confused. She turns on her mobile phone and wants to communicate with Xiaojie. However, these strings, she wrote and deleted, deleted and wrote, repeated many times, and finally she gave up.

this is a relationship with nothing to say. Xiao Jia has to admit that Xiao Jie has always been the leader of this marriage, and she just participated in it absently.

Celebrities who have experienced it say that an open marriage relationship is the result of independent choice by both parties. But what does Xiaojia do? She was bound and coerced by life and put her feelings in prison.

Xiao Jia decides to go on a date with Xiao Qin, finish all the unfinished words in the past and see if she is alive or dead in the other world.

the coffee shop on the first floor of the hotel. Xiao Jia arrived ten minutes earlier than the appointment. She didn't want to be late. I didn't expect Xiao Qin to arrive earlier than her, and her painting style changed suddenly. On the contrary, she was surprised.

long time no see. Xiao Jia said awkwardly.

I didn't want to keep you waiting, so I came early. Xiao Qin's eyes stayed on her face for a second.

my face suddenly turned hot. Xiao Jia felt that she was back to her girlhood in an instant. Simple greetings, shallow smiles. Nothing, but the sensory world is intertwined.

this is useless and dangerous. Xiao Jia's eyes touched the ring finger of her left hand, a simple ring, which is Xiaojie's promise. Subconsciously looking at Xiao Qin, his fingers also have the same marriage confirmation.

Realizing her eyes, Xiao Qin shrank her hand without a trace. The next second, he stood up and hugged her. The hug was fast and tense, and she had no time to react. His lips were printed.

Xiao Qin, let me go first and listen to me. Breathing gap, Xiao Jia said first. Xiao Qin stopped and stared at her tightly, but she couldn't say a word.

it goes without saying anything. Xiao Qin took her hand and couldn't wait to go upstairs. Open the door of the hotel room and kiss all over the place.

Breathing is connected with breathing, and the chest is close to the chest. The fingers are interlocked, and Xiaojia's finger diaphragm reaches Xiaoqin's finger. The ring clearly came into Xiao Jia's mind.

wait a minute, Xiao Qin. Is it true what that woman said before she got married? Xiao Jia suddenly asked.

Xiao Qin, who was burned by the blazing fire, instantly solidified. He let her go and said, Xiao Jia, you haven't changed at all.

Xiao Jia's eyes are a little dim. Finally, in his silence, her neat and messy appearance, pulling the wrinkled clothes, turned and left.

She finally admitted that she still cares about her bones. No matter what the origin of things is, betrayal is really a betrayal. No matter how long time has passed, no matter how they meet again, it is impossible to erase the cracks in their hearts.

She thought, it's not forgiveness, it's not forgetting, but forgetting. Let go of yourself and turn it over. That's it.

Xiao Jia walked alone for a long time after leaving the hotel.

Unexpectedly, after meeting Xiao Qin, Xiao Jia's heart turned from boiling blood to calm. Before she met him, she still had a little fantasy. She hoped that he still missed her to prove that they really loved each other. After she really tried, she knew that she had a desire for him, but no love.

Time is really a magical thing, which instantly destroyed what was engraved in her heart.

My feelings about my husband's open marriage. How did this happen suddenly? Wasn't all those years of entanglement wasted? Xiao Jia suddenly felt that the world had changed and life was ridiculous.