My friend came to my house for dinner, and after he left, 20 thousand yuan disappeared. What should I do? Call the police?

This kind of thing is really like winning the lottery, which is unlikely and sometimes happens. /kloc-we experienced this kind of thing 0/0 years ago, because we didn't call the police for various reasons, but in September this year we collected it with interest.

/kloc-On the National Day 0/0 years ago, when I got married, a friend of my husband, with his wife and children, and a family of three were invited to a wedding banquet. Husband and parents-in-law warmly hosted a friend's house and gave an 8-year-old son a red envelope from 800 yuan. After the wedding banquet, my husband and eldest brother opened a room for my friend's house in a nearby hotel.

The next morning, my husband went to the hotel to take friends home for breakfast. After breakfast, my friend said he had never been here and wanted to take his wife and children out for a stroll. We said that after seeing other relatives and friends off, we would accompany them to visit nearby scenic spots and let them wait.

After breakfast, we sent our relatives and friends away one after another. My husband and I are going to take our friends out to play. But my mother-in-law stopped me temporarily and gave me a pack of things to pack before leaving. I also laugh at her mystery. There is no heirloom passed on to my daughter-in-law.

After my mother-in-law left, I still opened it, and there was a thick stack of money and a list. It turned out to be a red envelope we received at our wedding.

When receiving the red envelope yesterday, the lovely bridesmaid sister wrote down the title and amount with a mobile phone memo. After the banquet, my husband and I copied the list on paper, and we agreed to give all the money to our parents-in-law. After all, we didn't understand the wedding etiquette of our relatives at that time, so we can save a lot of heart by pushing it on our parents-in-law.

My parents-in-law don't think so, saying that relatives will make arrangements for their walking etiquette, so that we don't have to worry. These red envelopes are wedding wishes from relatives and friends, so we should keep them for ourselves.

After meeting a reasonable in-laws, I was particularly curious about how many red envelopes I received for this wedding. So I didn't avoid suspicion, and counted it in front of my friends and family. My friend's son also helped me tidy it up, looking at our two money addicts, my husband and my friend's husband and wife with a distressed face.

As soon as I counted it down, I was shocked, and there were more than 80 thousand pieces! I have been exclaiming that the red envelopes in Zhejiang are too big! Friends and couples are also astounding. It is said that one age and one grade only received 30,000 red envelopes when they got married.

I put the money back in my bag and put it on the cabinet of the wedding room. My husband and friends are going downstairs to play.

A friend's wife urged her son, "Go and pee quickly, and don't play outside looking for the toilet."

My friend's son shouted, "no, I want to shit." Don't go yet. "

My husband and I thought, first drive downstairs and wait for them. Just as the bus arrived, my friend's family just arrived at the door. Five people spent the afternoon talking and laughing in the scenic spot.

The next morning, my friend said that I would go home and my children would attend remedial classes. It's a pity to waste a class in 300 yuan. So we didn't stay, and my husband secretly asked me to get a 1000 for the child. I went to the closet to get the money, and suddenly I found that the money was missing, at least 1/3!

My husband was shocked when I called him into the room. Since yesterday afternoon, there have been only two of us at home, and my parents-in-law have not lived together. How can this money be less?

We couldn't tell anyone, so we gave our friend's son 1000 yuan for fear that our friend would think too much. However, something in my heart showed on my face. My friend's wife is more careful, and I saw it at that time. I thought my husband and I wouldn't let our son take money just to give him money. After a while, we accepted.

After seeing my friend off, I counted it carefully, and I was short of 33,000 yuan. My husband and parents-in-law told me about it. They had the key to my house, but they never went in. The key was on them, which ruled out the possibility of outsiders going in.

My mother-in-law said, could it be that my friend's son was naughty and took it away? Why don't we call the police?

We have more headaches. If it is true, such a young child will steal things, and parents don't know it. How should we educate him? If the police find out that the child has really been taken, it will be even more troublesome. At least the friendship is broken. We can't explain this to our friends, and they didn't mention anything else when they came home to report their safety, so they were unhappy just two days after they got married.

Later, enlighten each other, and if you count wrong, you will break the money and eliminate disasters! In the past ten years, we have been in contact with friends' homes on and off, and we have our own son. All my friends turned red envelopes, but we never met again.

Until this summer, a friend told us that his son was admitted to the university, and said that there would be no banquets and no red envelopes during the epidemic. The university where his son applied for is in our city, and he will come to ask questions when the school starts!

At the beginning of September, my friend came to me with his wife and children. I hardly recognized my friend when the door opened. I was only in my thirties, and I looked like a 50-year-old!

Seeing their bags of specialties and gifts moved in, my husband and I thought it was our son's daily necessities and helped move home together. Who knows later, my friend pointed to a bunch of gifts and specialties and told us, "The specialties are for your parents, and the gifts are for your little baby. Don't refuse. This is our intention to compensate for so many years! "

When eating, my friend didn't listen to his wife's advice and drank too much. Then I took my husband's hand and said some sensational words between men. I cried and said I was sorry for my husband.

As soon as I saw a demon in love, I immediately took my friend's son to the study to teach him his homework. No sooner had the two children separated than I saw my friend's wife crying.

My friend said I was sorry for my husband and me because 10 years ago when we got married, he stole the red envelope money! As he spoke, he slipped down from his chair and was about to kneel down for us. My husband, quick of eye and quick of hand, grabbed his friend's arm and pulled it up.

A friend said that before coming to the wedding banquet, he and his colleagues were caught gambling and lost all their savings behind his wife's back. The red envelope he gave us was still the salary he advanced to the unit.

Seeing that he left more than 80,000 yuan on the cupboard, he wanted to borrow it from his husband, but we were disappointed to borrow money soon after we got married. I was wondering how to speak, but I got a good chance to wait for my son to shit.

Afterwards, he asked his wife and son to go first and let them go downstairs quickly. Don't keep us waiting. He went back to see if his son had washed the toilet in his new house. I rushed into the room and grabbed a handful of money on the cupboard.

In the evening, after returning to the hotel, he regretted slapping himself in the bathroom and wanted to confess to us, but he didn't have the courage. After returning home, the gambler came to collect debts. He confessed everything to his wife, including stealing our money.

In order not to let my wife divorce myself, I made up my mind to quit gambling. For the sake of the children, his wife went back to her mother's house and borrowed a large sum of money to help her pay off her gambling debts outside. He promised his wife that he would train his son well, and when he went to college, he would return our money with interest. Before paying back the money, he didn't see us and didn't confess, so we won't break the window paper because he doesn't want us to break up with him.

Later, I partnered with my brother-in-law to do building materials business. It happened that they made big plans there, made a lot of money, paid off all debts, and he only had us in mind. Although there is not much money, it has different meanings. For ten years, his conscience is getting worse every day.

Knowing that the university where his son applied for was in our city, he kissed his son 18 for the first time and confessed to him what happened that year. His son is really well taught by them! Not surprisingly, I comforted him and helped him figure out how much to pay us back according to the loan interest and principal. Most importantly, if you think we are his most valued friends, you should apologize seriously.

Speaking of which, my friend's wife took out a thick stack of 100 yuan in cash from her bag, stood up and put it in front of us, saying it was 200 thousand, including principal, interest and making amends, and asked us to accept it, otherwise we would never be able to lift our heads. If we call the police or ask them, their son won't be so promising.

Listen to them carefully. I motioned to my husband to let him make a decision. My husband also knows what I think. Sure enough, he only took the principal of 33 thousand. Say the rest of the interest or compensation, when we give his son a reward for being admitted to a key university, as an investment, as a cheap godmother, so that the two children can help in the future.

Although we often feel unpredictable, and we often hope that our friends can take the initiative to mention this matter, it is still very touching that the ten-year window paper is so easily punctured.

I suggest that if you know that a friend stole it, you can have a heart-to-heart talk with him to see if he has any financial difficulties, and then tell him clearly that you are willing to help him. Or when you are in trouble, tell him clearly that you are in trouble and you can't help him.

Friends help each other and trust each other. If he doesn't take the initiative to tell you, consider calling the police in combination with his personality. After all, if you can't get your money back and your friend is unhappy, why defend him?

Everyone said that we only accept the principal, right?

I have experienced such an embarrassing situation, and it was really hard at that time. After all, that's my hard-earned money. But calm down and think carefully, whether you put it in the wrong position, whether other people in your family changed your position or took it away, and rule out all possible factors before making a decision. If there are no other factors, it is basically certain that a friend took it. If it exceeds 5000, call the police decisively. Even if you can't get the result, let your friends know that you can't do such a cheap thing in the future. If the police can get their own, of course it is best. If the denomination is small, you should teach yourself a lesson. Be careful in the future and don't trust anyone. If the quantity is small, the police will not handle it.

Tell me about my experience. A tenant girl upstairs, ten years old, came to my house to watch TV. At that time, I was alone at home and I was cooking in the kitchen. Before my husband sent the children to school in the morning, I gave her 500 yuan and put it in the drawer, because there were no outsiders at home. The girl is watching TV by the drawer of the room, and I am cooking in the kitchen. Half an hour later, the girl got up and went upstairs. I came out of the kitchen and met her. She looks a little flustered. I said why not. She said no, so she hurried back. I'll look in the drawer right away. The money is gone. I was angry at that time. I thought it was good for you to watch TV. Such a small child has dirty hands and feet. I should have stopped her when I realized something was wrong. Look at the drawer again, and you won't lose it. The more I think about it, the angrier I get. I went upstairs and told her parents decisively. Her parents, including children, don't admit it, and I'm too lazy to refute it. After all, you didn't catch her. I was thinking, since parents don't care about teaching, let her child continue to be a dirty person in the future. I feel relieved when I think about it This kind of person has no sense of shame and guilt, so that she has a stone in her heart all her life.

Twenty thousand is not a small sum. You must call the police. If your friend stole it, if you don't call the police, that's exactly what he wants. If a friend stole it, this friend is not worth dating. If a friend didn't steal it, it's better to prove your innocence, so that you won't always have doubts about your friends. If your friend didn't steal it, he also wants you to call the police, make it clear and dispel your doubts. So don't feel that you don't want to call the police because of your friend's face.

You have to call the police! Twenty thousand dollars is not a small sum, and you can't ask directly. You have to give it to the police!

More than 20 years ago, a friend of mine gave birth to a full-moon baby. All the people who congratulated her were relatives and friends, but she received a fake gift of 100 yuan, which was put on the gift list at that time. I don't know who it is. She is so angry! There is nothing I can do! Fortunately, I lost 100 yuan.

Lost twenty thousand dollars! We have to call the police! Have no choice! Otherwise, you will suffer from YaBaKui!

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It is said that there is a man named Jiang Er, who is a sailor. One day, his son in high school needed to pay tuition and miscellaneous fees, so his wife went to the owner's house to advance five yuan. (At that time, there was no Alipay, it was all cash)

My son's tuition and fees are 4,200 yuan, and my wife keeps the rest of 800 yuan in the closet and stays at home for pocket money.

Who knows that in the afternoon, the money was gone, and the couple turned the wardrobe upside down, but it still disappeared.

This is really a ghost in broad daylight. We lost 800 yuan innocently for no reason, and everyone was distressed.

After much deliberation, only my husband's niece came. At that time, she rode a motorcycle to send money to town, so she came to look after the house and put the money in the cupboard in front of her. When she came back, her niece left in a panic.

Unless my niece is greedy? In the fruitless search, Jiang Er's wife couldn't help asking her niece.

This stung the hornet's nest, and my niece's face changed greatly. She swore that she didn't take the money. As a result, NianLia argued. Jiang Er's daughter-in-law felt annoyed when she lost money, and her niece suspected that she had been wronged. They broke up in discord.

For this matter, the two families made a scene and almost alarmed the government.

It's been a long time. One day, Jiang Er went to the wardrobe to get clothes. He accidentally saw something in the cracks in the closet, so he couldn't reach it. He had to pick up a few at once with a wooden stick, no more, no less, just eight.

It turned out that Jiang Er's wife put the money on the cupboard that day and suddenly blew it into the gap of the cupboard when she closed the door. While she was looking for money, she was busy rummaging through her clothes. This thing didn't speak, but it was in the cracks.

Knowing that it was really detailed, Jiang Er's wife was very embarrassed and took the initiative to pay for it. Although my niece forgives, she always has a knot in her heart.

So we must make it clear before we can draw a conclusion. After all, 20 thousand is not a small sum. If a friend really stole it, he should bear legal responsibility. Once you forget the place, you will guess others, which will hurt your harmony, but your friends will not do so, which will also damage people's reputation. If you can't get it, you have to bear the lawsuit.

I don't think it's useful to call the police. He won't admit it if you don't catch him red-handed. What can you do with him?

You can try it through others, such as his parents.

The key is to learn a lesson, not to harm people, not to prevent people, and not to put so much cash at home! Spend money on classes, better late than never!

You can call the police but you can't point out your friends because you have no direct evidence. I advise you not to call the police in a hurry, calm down and think about whether you misplaced it or spent it on other expenses. When was the last time you saw the money, and then look for it, so as not to misunderstand your friends. Besides, don't trust your feelings too much. Your feelings sometimes go wrong.

If this matter is unclear, you'd better call the police, otherwise it is unclear.

Since Mingyou came to dinner, the money disappeared after he left. I have three answers:

One, find it yourself. Don't get me wrong, friend.

Call my friends and tell them that I have 20,000 wires missing. Have you seen it? I'm calling the police. Look at what friends say, salute first, then serve as a soldier.

Third, call the police. In this way, true friends don't give people innocence, and fake friends give him a warning.

Calm down and think about it first. Did you put it somewhere else, or did someone else in the family secretly take it away? This is related to your friend's innocence, to the ruin of this family. Besides, you are too casual. Twenty thousand dollars is not a small sum. Where can it be easily stolen? This also shows that you are very casual. You should think it over carefully before making a decision.