Enlarge the "little beauty" in life

Last Friday, I participated in a "Personal Advantage Sharing Meeting" and shared some positive effects of my Top 1 advantage-Pride as the keynote speaker. I like the explanation of pride advantage: "You are proud of what you have done." I am really a person who likes to be proud of what I have done and what I have. The luck of love has given me enough nourishment and confidence. I feel that when I was in TAKE PRIDE, it was an amplification of beauty, which produced a positive incentive, so that I was not afraid of difficulties and made me achieve more achievements and happiness in a confident state.

Hello, this is Xiao Rui from Xiaorui Dakang Company. Thanks to Xiao Qiao's invitation, Tina's early publicity and Yu Juan's platform, I am fortunate to share some short stories about my husband and me here tonight to express my understanding of love. I hope today's sharing can accompany you to spend a happy weekend.

In the past, the theme was about work and career, personal growth and character building. Today, our theme is about love. I chose this theme because love has given me enough nourishment and happiness in my life, made me more confident in my work, and gained more achievements and happiness because of this self-confidence.

About love, I want to share the following points with you:

0 1. Love is always love.

I have been in love with Dakang for twelve years. I remember when I first entered the twelfth year, I sent such a circle of friends: "I can't say where he is, but I think he is everywhere." Twelve years is the time for a newly enrolled child to take the college entrance examination, the time from one animal year to the next, and the time for us to walk hand in hand from eighteen to thirty.

Many friends who have known each other for a long time often say that we have been in love for so many years and still feel like a third wheel every day. I really enjoy the way I get along with Dakang and the way my friends look at our love. In these twelve years, there have been five years of long-distance love and five years of separation, but our love has never been defeated by distance or smoothed by trivial matters.

We don't naturally divide love into love period, running-in period and quiet period, as others say, and we don't think that love will gradually become family affection in the end. If I have to divide love into stages, then I will divide it into growth stages and maturity stages. Different periods have different interpretations of love, but love will always be love, and you will always be the love in my eyes.

02. Have a little luck: the person you love just loves you.

I think "the person you love loves you" is a beautiful state of love and marriage. Two people are together not out of emotion, not out of suitable conditions, not out of family responsibilities, not out of making do, but because the person you love loves you; Your characteristics, the other party just likes.

I remember the week before I went to the army, Dakang invited my college roommate to have a meal. When making a toast, he said to my roommates, "I'm leaving next week. My girlfriend is a little sissy, so I hope you will take care of me when I'm away, and thank you when I come back!"

That was the first and only time I heard him describe me with the word "Sao". Growing up, we have been taught by our parents and teachers to be brave, strong and tenacious, so I always think the word "effeminacy" is slightly derogatory. But when he called his girlfriend "a little sissy", the expression on her face revealed her love and pride. He never asked me to be "brave" and "strong". Instead, I said "nothing, leave it to me" and tried my best to create better conditions to satisfy my "femininity".

I love to spoil him, but he just likes the way I spoil him;

He likes to be a hero in front of me, but I just like being protected by him and watching him play handsome.

So, everything is the kind of "you are like this, I just like it"

03. Love cannot be forgotten.

We are busy working in a fast-paced city, desperately making money, but we often ignore the most important people around us. Maybe you will say that life doesn't need too many rituals, just treat it with your heart. But often when you really need to be careful, you may hurt each other's hearts because of your carelessness.

Both Dakang and I are good at expressing love.

When he was worried about the future, I gave him a card of Woody Sakura as an amulet, which made him laugh instantly and release the pressure. When I am in a foreign country and can't meet him, I will stay up late at night, recite a song to the oak tree to him with music and tell him that I am a kapok tree nearby. There are also some poems I wrote, music I played, handwritten notes or some hand-made gadgets. In short, I want to put love into these little things and let him know my love.

Dakang is also a person who is good at creating romance.

I once told him that I had never seen a shooting star in my life. In a foreign land, he stayed in the suburbs all night to take time-lapse photos of me and took pictures of meteors with music, which deeply touched me. He takes part in the three-kilometer race every night. When it was near 520 last year, he used his trajectory to run a letter every day, and finally spelled it as "I love Rui", which gave me a different kind of confession. Every time he sends me flowers, he chooses a "no year and no festival" day, and then looks at my surprised expression and the joy after surprise.

In fact, love is very simple. You don't need to talk about it every day. Occasionally doing some small things that move the person you love is enough to warm TA's heart.

In the strength test report, my Top 1 strength is pride. I like the explanation of this advantage very much: "You are proud of what you have done." I am really a person who likes to be proud of what I have done and what I have. The luck of love has given me enough nourishment and confidence. When I was TAKE PRIDE, I felt that it was an amplification of beauty, and this amplification had a virtuous circle effect, which made me not afraid of difficulties and helped me achieve more achievements and happiness in a confident state.

Therefore, you can also try to record the little beauty you have experienced and enlarge it. This amplification process may make you feel satisfied, deepen this beautiful meaning, and perhaps more unexpected beauty will come to you.