Who is the "sane person" in "The War of the Roses"?

After watching "The War of the Roses" for so long, I found that the two women in the play are the most sober, one is Gu Nian and the other is Ling Yi.

The first is Gu Nian. When it comes to dealing with the issue of her husband Song Jiachen betraying her, Gu Nian behaves very calmly. Her approach is not to abuse or resent, but to return to the workplace and find her former self in order to Have enough confidence when divorcing.

Song Jiachen relied on the fact that he was an elite lawyer and his law firm was also a top local law firm. He was rich and famous, so he restricted Gu Nian to his home and allowed her to be a full-time housewife.

But after the lawsuit, his scandal was also exposed. Song Jiachen did not show much regret for his cheating.

This can be seen from the fact that he was released on bail pending trial. He had no intention of being indebted to Gu Nian at all, and even tried to use his daughter to save the situation.

Gu Nian has already seen through his behavior, so no matter how the other party requests, divorce is inevitable.

But problems between husband and wife should not involve other people. Gu Nian’s attitude towards her mother-in-law has never changed. Of course, this is also due to the fact that her mother-in-law is a person with very upright views and can handle things clearly. Right and wrong, and a better understanding of the "sense of boundaries."

For example, the mother-in-law's words "I treat you as my daughter" sound like she is begging Gu Nian to let go of her son, but judging from the daily relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, before Song Jiachen's accident, the family was really Very harmonious.

Perhaps her mother-in-law is sincerely good to her, so Gu Nian will not vent her anger on her.

Then there is Gu Nian’s former best friend Xiaowei. They used to be such good friends. If there was any delicious food at home, Gu Nian would give it to Xiaowei.

But after Song Jiachen was arrested, Xiaowei immediately broke off the relationship with her, which also made Gu Nian understand her true face.

If it weren’t for Xiaowei’s son’s lawsuit, Gu Nian would never want to see her again in his life. When Xiaowei and Gu Nian met again, Xiaowei was very unwilling to pay attention and would not let her in. At home, as for her son's lawsuit, she said she wanted to change lawyers.

However, when Gu Nian won her son's lawsuit, Xiaowei became a different person again, hypocritically saying some words of gratitude.

However, Gu Nian only said one thing to her: "We are no longer friends, please take care of yourself!"

Some people may think that she is heartless, but Gu Nian understands better than anyone else. , she and Xiaowei are not the same person, their relationship cannot stand any test, this kind of pseudo-bestie is not worth having at all.

As for work, although Gu Nian was once an elite lawyer, she knew her situation and position well. Even if she was on the same starting line as a newcomer, she accepted it calmly and was determined to prove everything with her strength.

I was able to find this job thanks to the help of my classmate Fengsheng, but in her heart, Gu Nian did not want to rely on Fengsheng to avoid gossip.

It can be said that Gu Nian's sobriety is not directed at a certain person or thing, but her own personality, which is flexible, resourceful, determined, delicate and compassionate.

Another sober woman in "The War of the Roses" is Yi Shenghe's law firm partner Ling Yi. She works vigorously and resolutely, treats employees equally and never shows any favoritism. For this reason alone, she is definitely not Ordinary women.

But the most sober thing about her is how she deals with relationships. As an older, unmarried woman, Ling Yi is particularly cautious when dealing with emotional issues. During her date with Mr. Qiu, in order to test whether the other party is sincere, she specially arranges for a young and beautiful woman to marry him. Ye Qinqin went to test.

Facts have proved that this man is not reliable at all. One second he was chatting and laughing with Ye Qinqin, and the next second he pretended to be affectionate towards Ling Yi. After learning the truth, Ling Yi decisively severed the relationship. .

Later, Lingyi met Bai Songkai again. This man was very considerate and attentive at first. Lingyi had dinner alone. Bai Songkai found out her location immediately and carefully Ling Yi was flattered by ordering a special pastry for him.

I thought this was a good start. However, when Lingyi went to the appointment with her long hair tied up in beautiful makeup, she found that Bai Songkai was facing a group of women, talking endlessly about herself. The original intention of learning photography.

Hearing these words, Ling Yi was instantly confused, because those words were all those he had said to himself before, almost word for word.

So, Ling Yi quickly realized that this was a typical scumbag routine, and Bai Songkai was a sea king.

Afterwards, Lingyi left quickly. In the car, Bai Songkai kept sending her messages. Lingyi deleted Bai Songkai's contact information without even reading it.

Emotionally, Lingyi is very eager, but she is more sober and determined not to be in love. She will choose to stop the losses in time for those rotten peach blossoms.

I have to say that she is really good at protecting herself. Don't let yourself get any harm.

Perhaps this is the only way in this world that a woman can gain enough security, find a career or job she likes, and find a man who is sincere to her. Women can only stay awake at all times. Only then can we truly live our lives.