Forgive the playboy husband, 32 years of DINK marriage, 57-year-old Ye Tong, how deep is her love?

"The Legend of White Snake" has been on the air for 28 years, and the remake is about to be aired. But most viewers still like this classic just like they did back then. The characters in the play have been passed down through the ages, but the life circumstances of the leading actors outside the play are quite different.

Yip Tong and Zhao Yazhi are already over fifty, and both are active in the film and television industry. But whether they are on the same stage or one of them appears, people will always lament that "White Snake is still the same White Snake, but Xu Xian has become a different person".

Mental state is the mirror of a person's marital status, and Ye Tong will inevitably become old as time goes by. But what has become of Ye Tong’s marital status after being ridiculed one after another for being “unrecognizable in recent photos”? So sweetly in love that they seem to be inseparable

When Ye Tong was 17 years old and planning to break into the film and television industry, she met her current husband Chen Guoxi. That was the first man in Ye Tong's life, her first love. At that time, Ye Tong had no feelings for Chen Guoxi, but he fell in love with him at first sight and told his friends, "This is the person I want to work with for the rest of my life."

They did not confess their love, and there was no vigorous love noise. They just got together naturally as they got acquainted. After eight years of long-distance love, Ye Tong married her boyfriend at the age of 25. This is probably about meeting the right person at the right time, and everything will develop naturally.

Their love is enviable, but what is even more enviable is their family background. Chen Guoxi's family is very wealthy. Although he is young, he is also very capable. He is a senior filmmaker, businessman, photographer, and the managing director of a famous brand in Greater China. At that time, Yip Tong collaborated with big names such as Chow Yun-fat, Eric Tsang, and Hui Guanying. He had masterpieces and was nominated for the Academy Awards. He was definitely worthy of this wealthy young man.

So after "The Legend of White Snake" became popular, Ye Tong, who played the role of Xu Xian, became the envy of many people. A successful career and a happy family are the dreams that many women pursue throughout their lives, but Ye Tong, who is only 27 years old, has achieved them all. But it didn't take long for the envious eyes to appear, and the outside world began to sympathize with him a little more.

Yip Tong’s husband, Chen Guoxi, was photographed locking hands with Anita Mui’s manager, Wang Minhui, and kissing each other in the street. After that, he went on several public dates with strange and beautiful girls and took her shopping with him. For a time, Ye Tong, the first wife who married into a wealthy family, naturally became the target of public criticism.

At the same time, Ye Tong's reaction shocked everyone. Not only did she not insult her husband for cheating, or denounce her mistress, but she lamented, "I think it must be because I put a large vase of peach blossoms at home during the Chinese New Year, and it was all the peach blossoms' fault." Listening to this familiar tone, it sounds like someone asked why Zhang Yu and Shi Yilang suddenly wanted to get married. Zhang Yu said, "It's all the moon's fault. The night is so beautiful and gentle like that."

As for men who cheat in marriage, in today's entertainment industry, no one in the entertainment industry will directly say "absolutely unforgivable" when mentioning it. Ye Tong, who did the opposite, forgave her husband the first time, the second time, the third time, and so on. Ye Tong once became her husband's crisis public relations spokesperson. Is such a marriage really happy?

Outsiders don’t need to think about it to know that the couple must be inseparable from each other. But what's strange is that Ye Tong actually enjoyed it a bit, and exaggeratedly said, "If the other party is willing to lie to you, even if he is still nervous about you, then it is worth continuing to operate." Such poisonous chicken soup naturally caused an uproar.

Ye Tong tried his best to maintain the dignity of their marriage in public. What’s funny is that one day reporters photographed Chen Guoxi and his mysterious girlfriend watching a movie at Cyberport. When the two took a taxi, they embraced each other in the car. A Hong Kong media reporter once described the scene as "extremely loving".

But at the same time, reporters on the other side photographed Ye Tong inviting his male companions to drink red wine to relieve his boredom. The two of them drank happily at first, but they didn't know what topic the other party talked about. Ye Tong suddenly felt sad and started crying at one point. I believe Ye Tong must have deeply felt the pain in marriage. But why is she still sticking to this marriage? Ye Tong's marriage is not just about love

Most women choose to be cowardly after their husbands cheat on her, assuming that nothing happened because she can't live without him. For the sake of the children, the wife must maintain the broken family and break the teeth into her stomach. Or maybe they are accustomed to relying on men and living on their husband's salary, and they have no ability to survive. But Ye Tong didn't meet any of the conditions.

The two of them have been married for 32 years and have maintained a DINK marriage without any children. When she was young, Ye Tong didn't want to have children. She was influenced by her family since she was a child. She felt that children would be too lonely when they came into this world. She was not ready to be a mother, so she did not have children. But after a long time, the husband also said that he did not need to have children, and living a DINK life like this was quite good.

During the interview, we found that the elderly Ye Tong regretted his original decision. "If my husband needs me to have a child, I can do it." Perhaps Ye Tong never thought that since her DINK plan lasted for 32 years, she would never have a chance to make up for it.

With no children as a burden, Ye Tong’s financial ability seems to be very good. In the 40 years since her debut, she has never left the circle. To this day, she still appears on the screen, changing from the position of heroine and hero to a "professional mother".

She has won the Best Actress and Best Supporting Actress at the Academy Awards several times. Wasn’t she nominated for the Best Supporting Actress at the Hong Kong Drama Award this year for "Dead Man's Mobile"? With such a reputation, his net worth is naturally not low. There are script invitations and the pay is not low, which is definitely more than enough to support myself.

You can obviously live a comfortable life alone, so why do you have to hold on to this broken marriage and struggle to maintain the superficial glory? Isn't this exactly what netizens joked: "Would you rather laugh on a bicycle or cry in a car?"

But Ye Tong's maintenance of the essence of marriage is definitely not for these external worldly things. What she insists on is probably just the friendship she chose to be with Chen Guoxi in the first place.

We have no way of finding out whether Ye Tong is Chen Guoxi’s first girlfriend. But for Ye Tong, Chen Guoxi is definitely his first boyfriend and the only man he has ever experienced in his life. Women always have a strange feeling about their first love.

In addition, after marriage, Ye Tong regarded Chen Guoxi as his only spiritual support. According to what Ye Tong once said in an interview, "I have no friends. Apart from work, the focus of my life is on my husband. He is enough for me to be busy, so I don't have time to make friends." Therefore, her husband is not only love to her, but also the only friendship.

In psychology, there is such a common phenomenon. Before marriage, a man usually loves a woman behind her back. But after marriage, a woman's love for a man will continue to increase, while a man's love will begin to decrease. Although it cannot be said that this is the case for all marriages, it seems that this is the case for Ye Tong and her husband.

Every day after Ye Tong got married to her husband, her love for her husband increased. The husband works hard and is still handsome after all these years. In Ye Tong's world, the husband is perfect. If the media had never reported that her husband was cheating on her, perhaps she would still be living in the married world of her own imagination. Who can understand her deep love?

It is very simple to get a divorce. With a certificate, the two of you can go their separate ways. But Ye Tong is 57 years old, and young couples come to keep her company. She needs Chen Guoxi to grow old with her and spend her old age together. Maybe it's not for love, but just for the company of someone. Conclusion

Can love last? Maybe, but the love between Ye Tong and Chen Guoxi may not last long. Ye Tong loves her husband deeply, but after repeated scandals, she is mentally and physically exhausted. But marriage is not just for love, there is something else more important than love, and that is companionship.

It's better to have a man who wants to go home than to stay alone in an empty house, isn't it?

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