Boyfriend loves photography. He took many beautiful photos of his predecessor. Should I ask him to delete them?

You have the right to let him handle the photos, but you have no right to help him make a decision.

After all, you are his girlfriend now, and you feel uncomfortable with some of his behaviors and feel that you are not taken seriously. You can bring it up If you suppress your unhappiness in your heart, it will definitely lead to a quarrel between you. It's better to speak your mind and find a way to solve it. Your boyfriend took many beautiful photos of his ex, which can't be used as an excuse that he likes photography. After all, when taking pictures, it's not because he loves photography, but because he loves this woman. So you can't stand to see these photos. If he looks at them, he will think of things that have ruined his feelings. It is wrong to appear in your life. I think you have the right to let him handle these photos.

But this is your strength. You can put forward your own opinions and express your unhappiness, but you can't help him decide, such as asking him to delete it. In this way, he will feel that you are very strong, that his power has been violated, and that he will not cooperate with you. You should tell him what you think, but you should give him enough freedom to deal with these photos. You can give him a restriction that these photos will never appear in your life and will never be found by you. He can handle the rest by himself and do whatever he wants. This will not make things too stiff, nor will it appear that you are unreasonable.

Of course, if he loves photography as an excuse and says it's just art, or that it's no different from previous portraits, you can also deal with him as he deals with you. You can let your ex-boyfriend appear in your life at the right time, and then tell him when he is unhappy and you feel bad, but what he said is particularly reasonable. After breaking up, you are indifferent to your ex, no different from ordinary friends.

But in the end, everyone is unhappy. It is best to meet an informed boyfriend and solve the problem from the beginning.