What are the skills for a 30-year-old person to take off the bill?

Think clearly about what you want from your partner and ask many girls what kind of man you like. About a third of people will answer, just look pleasing to the eye. This kind of answer, you can only count on yourself to find someone. Because "pleasing to the eye" is easy to change. Today you may find handsome guys pleasing to the eye, and tomorrow you may find attractive uncles pleasing to the eye. It is completely impossible to unify into a specific face.

If you want to find the partner you expect quickly and accurately, quantify your requirements for the future partner. Even if it is realistic, it doesn't matter if you ask for a specific income background. For example, the age is 30-38 years old, the height is above 172, and the weight should not exceed 135 kg. Looks clean, no beard, no acne marks, preferably double eyelids. At least bachelor degree, stable job, annual salary of at least 200 thousand, no need to take care of at home.

This is a specific requirement. Many people may think it's realistic, but it's generally required to quantify specific people and find the object as soon as possible. In the blind date market, people also welcome such people, because as long as you meet these requirements, you can always see several people who almost meet these requirements.

Broaden the circle of friends

Gabbana, flower arranging class and baking class are all ways to cultivate sentiment, but these are useless for taking off orders.

Many women become older women because there are really too few men around them. Being a good girl at school, my mother really never talks about it when she says she can't fall in love. After going to college, I can finally relax a little, but I went to a normal school, nine out of ten were girls, and the remaining ten boys didn't even look at it. After work, I was unfortunately engaged in an industry with many women. I'm so tired on holidays and weekends that I just want to lie down for a while. It's rare to go out with my sister's best friend.

Here are all women, all of the same sex. When will men and women live together?

Therefore, if you want to broaden your circle of friends, you can go to a class reunion or a company reunion, which won't delay you. Attend classes, attend lectures, try to go to places where there are many men, and don't always walk into women's circles. For example, gyms, reading clubs, financial management training classes, etc., there will be more men.

Learn emotional intelligence, learn to speak.

A friend who is engaged in wedding photography told me before that all the married girls have one thing in common, that is, they are comfortable to get along with, and they will not feel so alienated even when talking to strangers.

Many girls are simple in nature and have high demands on themselves and others. But getting along with such a girl may always take care of her feelings. After a long time, men naturally give up and get no "return".

There are many EQ classes on the market now, and there are also many training classes to teach you to speak. You can take classes to study, which will play a role in dealing with people or finding a boyfriend.

After all, the first condition of getting along is to be able to chat. If you are always silent when you talk, if you are always used to worrying about others and turn a blind eye to the goodwill released by others, if the men around you always naturally distance themselves after getting along with you for a period of time, then you should take a good look at your emotional intelligence. There's nothing to be embarrassed about. Looking at yourself from time to time is the most useful method for self-improvement.