The best life is to live it the way you like

True peace is not to avoid the hustle and bustle of cars and horses, but to build a fence and plant chrysanthemums in your heart. Although the past is like the past, the sound of the waves is still there every day. As long as we eliminate our obsessions, we can be quiet and peaceful. I hope that everyone will not get lost in the chaotic world, and can sit on the rock and get drunk in front of the falling flowers.

——Bai Luomei

Living a life the way you like is what most people dream of, but it is also the most luxurious wish. Some people have no choice but to compromise with reality and gradually forget Some people have lost their original dreams; some people are not willing to accept reality and get what they want in the struggle of life; some people are still working hard and looking forward to one day living the life they want.

Han Han said: The life I understand is to be with everything you like. Who doesn’t want to use dreams as horses to travel around the world, do what they like, love the people they love, travel to different corners of the world, and taste delicious food all over the world during their lifetime?

Life only lasts for a few decades. You should live for yourself, live according to your heart, and chase the little bit of light in your heart. Only then can you leave no regrets and live in this world in vain. ; Money and fame can never compete with inner fulfillment. Even if you are as rich as your country and live a life that others envy, but you are not satisfied, do you still need to persevere? Why settle for perfection? It's better to stay true to yourself and do whatever you want.

So this is why many people give up the iron rice bowl, escape from the glamorous life, and would rather start from scratch and choose to endure hardship, just because they do not live the life they want. Every choice we make in life is just a difference of thought. It is a matter of our best efforts after bravely following our inner thoughts.

A few days ago, I read a story on the Internet about a post-70s generation, known as Sister Tamsui. She has been working in government agencies for more than 20 years, but her life has gradually become boring, which is not the life she wants. In her mind, she hoped to have a space to put her dreams, play with flowers, plants and her own little thoughts; so she quit her "iron rice bowl" as a civil servant, went to the mountains to renovate a leisurely and beautiful house, and began to pursue her dream in the 40s. Live your own dream and live the most carefree and leisurely life.

She said, "Life is short. If I wait a few years, I will be old and I will really have no passion or energy." From design sketches to site selection and every plant, tree and brick in the room A lot of thought has been put into every stone, which has become a beautiful scenery at the foot of the mountain, and I can live a leisurely and slow life as I wish.

Maybe not everyone has the ability and courage to live the life they want, nor does they have enough financial foundation, but you must remember to always keep a pure heart and don’t let life drown you. enthusiasm.

Duras said: "To me, love is not a simple lust; nor is it an ordinary life of daily necessities; it is a desire that will never be wiped out in the bottom of my heart. Heroic Dreams in Life. ”

Even if they are busy at work, everyone needs an outlet to comfort their soul and maintain a full sense of satisfaction. To live a stable life, stick to some hobbies and small habits. It may be baking, fitness, writing, photography, music, etc. that interest you. Even if your hobbies cannot become a career, they can still fill your empty soul and make you happy. You are happy inside and looking for a little motivation and sense of accomplishment.

"I hope that when I am 70 years old, I will still be a cool old man who dares to try anything."

At any age, I have the courage to pursue what I want to do and not deny myself easily. , it is very valuable to still not forget your original intention and love life. It means that you still have the courage to contend with life, instead of being like ordinary people, adhering to the standards of what age you should do something, when you can't sleep at night Only then did I think of the dreams I had given up and the distant longing for the future.

After getting married, many people tell themselves: I don’t dare to take risks anymore and want to be more stable. They no longer want to spend time recharging and improving themselves, rarely go out to socialize, and are afraid of unknown new things and challenges. Reminds me of a saying: We are only in our 20s, but we live our lives as if we are in our 60s, and our mentality has already aged.

People who can persist in living their own lives have a unique spirit that is warm and beautiful. I have been impressed by such a group of people. When I passed by the park near my home some time ago, there were many folk artists. They were the most inconspicuous, but they attracted my attention. It was a few grandpas who brought their own musical instruments. They were in groups of three or five, playing in tacit understanding. I couldn't help but stand there and admire it for a while. When their eyes intertwined, I seemed to see light shining through their eyes, confident and firm. .

If you are temporarily unable to live the life you want, choose a compromise.

You may have many things you want to do, but you also have to face the embarrassment of reality. You might as well choose the one that is easiest to achieve, or the second or third wish; while solving survival problems, While looking for opportunities. Writer Liu Tong has been writing for ten years. From being unknown to being on the best-seller list, she once expected to make a living from writing, but was helpless by reality and chose to work in the media. Now he is the vice president of Enlight Media, a writer, and a director. Nian Chen completed a small person's counterattack.

The few hours after get off work often determine your future life. Some people insist on writing, painting, and studying time management after get off work; some people only have a monotonous and repetitive life after get off work, watching TV series, playing games, and sleeping. It is these small habits that make the difference between people. When you are enjoying comfort, others are still working hard; when you are complaining about life, others are still working hard, so what qualifications do you have to complain about unfair fate?

If you don’t know what you like, just try more. Not everyone has a clear understanding at the beginning and finds the path they want to take. If you don’t know what you like, just try to fall in love with it. No matter how many times you try different lives and different types of jobs, things will eventually change. Finding the one you like is just a matter of time.

Weigh the things you like and whether you have a certain talent. Like writing and singing, if you don't have innate talent, just relying on later efforts will be useless. Only by identifying your own strengths and persevering can you achieve maximum results.

The best life is to be loyal to your inner feelings and live your life the way you like.