Do you want to travel with stingy people? I feel very risky and have a great chance of being unhappy.

In recent years, with the rapid economic development in China, people's wallets are bulging. After the basic needs of life have been met, traveling abroad has become the consumption mode of more and more people. With the increase of the number of tourists, we can see crowds when we go to various scenic spots, especially on holidays. It is better to watch crowds when traveling to see the scenery. Not only that, we have more and more troubles when traveling with friends. Generally, when we travel, we will stay with our family and friends. Our family is very good, and everyone can tolerate each other's temper. However, if you go out with friends, sometimes there will be problems in the relationship between your because of some minor problems. I asked those people whose friends were unhappy during the trip, and finally summed up three kinds of people who can't travel together.

First, people who are usually stingy can't travel with them.

Many people around us are very stingy. Usually we scrimp and save, and even when we go out to eat, we have to figure out where to eat to save some money. Traveling with such a person is bound to be unpleasant. As we all know, when two people travel together, it is inevitable that there will be some expenses, such as eating, lodging, taking a car, etc. Cheap people will unconsciously save money when traveling, and they will find places with less money when eating and staying, and sometimes it is inevitable to spend money if you want to eat some local specialties and other foods. At this time, if you are with him, you will not appreciate the local characteristics. If they are not together, the distance between them will be pulled apart. As for accommodation, it is a big problem. After a day's play, we certainly hope to have a good sleep. At this time, he will find some cheap youth brigades and even shelters. You can't have a good sleep in these places. Even if you are willing to pay him to stay in a comfortable hotel, he will think you are extravagant and frugal. So it's best not to travel with such people.

Second, people with big style and different aesthetics can't travel with them.

Among our friends, there are always some people with distinct personalities and different styles. They seem to see things differently from us. If we feel good, they won't feel good, and even hate that we are more optimistic. If you travel with such people, you will quarrel over many trivial matters and eventually alienate the relationship between them. This kind of person's concept of life is not quite consistent with ours. They have their own unique aesthetics and requirements. Usually, what we want from the public is not important to them. And what we think is normal, they will feel particularly good. It's not that such people are not good, but that these people with flamboyant personalities and different aesthetics are incompatible with many of our viewpoints. We think the mountains in a scenic spot are good. He may think the mountains are good, but the water is good. In the end, the two people who traveled together parted ways because of their different appreciation points. In this case, the unstable friendship between two people will directly fall apart.

Third, people who are self-centered and usually like to make decisions can't travel with them.

Perhaps because of family reasons, many young people are spoiled at home now, and all aspects of the family should be changed according to their preferences. Such people can't travel together. They are used to being self-centered and making decisions according to their own ideas, and they don't know how to respect other people's ideas and opinions. If the disadvantaged groups travel with such people, the originally beautiful travel will eventually become a nightmare. On the way to travel, you should respect his opinion from time to time. You can only choose where to go with him, and your original itinerary will be completely disrupted by his sudden decision. Not only that, such people will lose their temper inexplicably when traveling. When this happens, you have to incarnate your intellectual sister to accompany him and enlighten him. If you ignore him because of the beautiful scenery, he will be malicious to you. Because the influence of his previous living environment is the most important thing for him, if you don't pay attention to his emotions in time, he will have the idea of breaking up with you. In fact, it is for everyone to have a good trip. If you travel with these people, especially those who are stingy, something unpleasant will happen, which will eventually ruin this wonderful journey.

Seriously, being with a stingy person, whether traveling or eating, will have a great chance of being unhappy. In fact, we don't mean that he must be generous or anything, at least that's what we mean.

If the relationship is good, you can communicate the algorithm, such as spending your own money, or AA, so that everyone can have fun.

If I can't bring inspiration and sweetness to other people's lives, if I can't be their accomplice and muse, I would rather not enter other people's lives, and others don't have to enter our lives.

Have a nice day!

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Speaking of travel, what kind of people should not travel together, the following people must not travel together, 200% high risk, 200% unhappy, be careful! !

The first category: stingy people are undoubtedly people who haggle over every ounce and calculate very carefully. If you are a spendthrift, you won't want to go out with such a person no matter how much money you spend. Travel itself is an experience.

The second category: people with different values have different ambitions and different ways. Don't travel together by force. Some people like the food experience, others don't pay attention to eating, and no one is comfortable together;

Travel needs a happy and stingy colleague. It may be good to see what he is like. For example, two companions can live in one room, and the route can be discussed together to optimize the taxi. You can compare things and shop around. I like to travel freely. Travel time will be a little longer, of course, it will be considered rational consumption, and it will not be more impulsive with pickpockets. He will also give you advice. This time I went to Vietnam to meet a friend. After a month of poor travel, we felt very good, and we could take care of each other and avoid a lot of trouble. It is better to travel with pickpockets than to be alone.

Travel is for relaxation and happiness. If something unpleasant happens during the trip, it will affect the whole trip and will be remembered later. Therefore, if the peers are stingy and have different views, it is really not a good travel peer.

When you label a person "stingy", you also label yourself "haggle over every ounce". Since you care, stay away from meanness.

Cheap depends on what aspects, such as not buying things or clothes, and being with like-minded people who like to eat will be very happy, so please travel carefully.