What should I do if I make an appointment with my friends to take my children out for a trip and ask my parents to accompany me every time?

Write some humble opinions according to the questions of the subject.

List four key levels first, and then analyze the most critical point.

1, travel (estimated many times)

2. Take the children out to travel;

3. Make an appointment with friends and take the children out to travel;

4. Take children, parents and friends to travel.

So, let's analyze these four levels,

1. You can travel with money and leisure. When I was in college, I went to Guilin. At that time, listening to this song, the students all felt: I had time when I was a student, but I didn't have money.

Work is busy and life is bitter. In reality, how many people are busy from the beginning of the year to the end of the year for work, life, career and entrepreneurship. Life is not easy, there is almost no rest time, let alone taking my family out for a trip!

The subject's situation is not very clear, but I guess it should be a frequent business trip. Being able to travel and bring children and parents has proved that life is wonderful. How nice it is to have money and leisure!

Second, people who know how troublesome it is to take care of children naturally understand. Traveling after having children is very different from traveling alone when you are young.

With children, as parents, a lot of energy will be put on children. Taking them to play, studying, traveling and showing them the outside world are all good ways.

After being a parent, you must know something, not to mention traveling, that is, simply going out to the door, going to the park and shopping, you may have to pack a lot of bags, strollers and safety seats, especially when the children are still young.

You can imagine how tired it is to take the children out.

Besides, there are many people, unstable factors and negative events in news reports. Take the children out and put safety first. No matter how hard you try, you are likely to get tired after playing all the way. If only someone could help share the responsibility of taking care of the children!

Third, how many parents and children drag them to travel and they don't go to my house, which is contrary to this question.

Want to take the old man to travel, the old man always says no.

Even if it is planned long ago, every time I ask, I can't go, either my father won't let my mother go or my mother won't go to my father. The planned trip itself is to coordinate the time between husband and wife. The children had a holiday and finally got together, but the old man didn't want to leave. I can only keep persuading.

This comparison, I think, the subject of the situation, parents should follow every time, should be happy.

Fourth, a good opportunity to increase your impression. Traveling with children and parents is a good opportunity to increase your friends' impression of you.

There are many things to be busy before going out, such as checking the raiders, booking air tickets, booking hotels, booking scenic spots and preparing things.

Secondly, there are many things to worry about, such as food, clothing, housing and transportation, safety, etc.

Going back and forth, busy inside and out, but really paying,

We should not only consider children, but also take care of the elderly and our friends.

It not only reflects the love and education for children, but also reflects the filial piety for the elderly.

In the case of high-intensity busy, you can take care of the whole family, handy, and make everyone happy. Doesn't that mean you're good?

In real life, if the daughter-in-law and in-laws, son-in-law and in-laws can't handle it well, a small matter can be the reason for the elders to complain. "You go, I won't go with you!" Is enough to make us have no idea!

If parents want to follow suit, how good it would be to do it!

In the eyes of friends, won't your family, with parents and children, travel happily, increase your friends' goodwill towards you? !

Fifth, the analysis of the key issue "We must go with you" needs to be disassembled from three points.

First: understand why parents "have to follow"

Second: Know your real thoughts and concerns.

Third: communicate well with parents.

First, the reason why parents have to follow every time.

Possible reasons for self-analysis

1, I am very happy to follow you, and I still want to go after going;

2. I want to help you share the hard work, especially to look after the children;

I want to travel by myself, not with you, but I don't know the raiders and maps, so I have to rely on my children.

4、 ......

Second, what you really think.

1. Are you dissatisfied with your parents' "going with them every time"?

2. Why?

3. Can you untie yourself?

If it is really inconvenient to take care of parents because of being with friends, is there a better solution?

Third, communicate with parents, understand their thoughts and express their own thoughts. According to the communication results, put forward a better solution.

It may be that my parents wanted to travel, but they were afraid that they didn't know anything, so they followed you. If so, then come to an idiot and sign up for a reliable tour group for your parents. Many things are helped by tour groups.

It may be that parents are worried about their children, so they take care of them. In this case, it is more important to exercise children's independent opinions and increase their knowledge. Maybe in the future, parents will be very opinionated and knowledgeable when they look after their children, so they won't worry about their children. Maybe I won't follow every time.

I'm Sheng Da, a post-80s nanny! A little humble opinion ...

As the saying goes, "Only by raising children can you know your parents' kindness. "Now that you are a parent, you should know that it is not easy to be a parent. As a tourism practitioner, I am also a father and a son. I have always felt that I should take my parents out for a walk while they are in good health and still able to walk. Children still have a chance in the future. As parents, they have worked hard for most of their lives, but their time is relatively limited. Don't wait until the children are raised and the relatives are gone to leave regrets.

The core of China's traditional culture is filial piety, which respects the old and loves the young, from emperors and princes to ordinary people. Before the birth of the imperial examination system, an important criterion for selecting officials was filial piety, so it was called filial piety. Today, society has made great progress in all aspects, but filial piety has been marginalized in today's materialistic society. I remember a celebrity said, "Now it is not the old people who are filial in China, but the next generation." . China's parents are the best people in the world. They not only nurture us, but also help us to take care of the next generation after retirement. This phenomenon only exists in China, and China's parents are the most industrious group.

Nowadays, many children are thrown to their parents at birth, either at their grandparents' home or at their grandparents' home. Play if you are interested, and basically don't ask. So I can't understand the hardships of being a parent. Many people have been married for more than ten years and have never cooked in their own homes. Although I have my own home after marriage, I still eat and drink at my parents' house. I am surrounded by: I am a teacher and the backbone of society. My children are all in college and have been eating at their parents' house. This epidemic, I can't go to my parents, there is no takeaway, and my parents have to cook and deliver food.

If you are full of energy, it is best to travel with the youngest and the youngest, and the whole family will be happy. I don't think any friend will be unhappy because you take your parents out for a trip. If so, such people can't make friends. If you are afraid of not seeing one thing, you can also take your parents out for a trip. If we say, "What do people owe in this life, then what we owe is our parents." No one in the world loves us more and pays more for us. Moreover, in that era of poor material life, parents saved money for us. "

I never object to young people making contributions to the next generation, but at the same time, please don't ignore our parents, who are old enough to need our care and protection! Parents still have a place in life, and parents can only go home when they live …

Thanks for reading, welcome to pay attention!

First kind

If the economic situation permits, it is best to take your parents with you!

Because the whole family is round and round.

It not only meets the needs of children, but also meets the needs of the elderly.

The second type

Take the children on a trip once a year.

Take the elderly out once a year.

Because it is true, after all, the needs and destinations of the elderly and children are different.

The third kind

In addition, report to the old people.

Every time I see this kind of question, I like to look at your answers first, and then think about whether these answers represent universal values. It seems inappropriate for the subject to ask such a question, and I should try my best to satisfy my parents' demands for traveling together.

Everyone knows this truth, and the subject may not have done badly in this respect, and the respondent should not be a moral judge, so it is not good to judge this practice immediately. I just want my parents to take their children on a trip and bring three or five friends for a parent-child tour. This experience is very different. He has nothing to do with anything else, just want to arrange it like this, okay?

It's like someone saying that they like to have boys, and they are immediately said that they prefer boys to girls, but no one says that they prefer girls to boys. Sometimes people tend to label things, so that everyone who expresses their views does not have sufficient expression environment and even causes some misunderstandings.

Having said that, back to the topic, if I were you, I would directly explain to the elderly that this is a parent-child outing, and there will be some exciting PK activities (or going upstream in the wild), which is not suitable for the elderly, but I promise to have a family outing once or twice a year and then we will be together.

There is another way to give the elderly some "sunset beauty" tour groups, so that they can enjoy traveling more, especially when their peers travel, they can find topics with the same sense of the times and bring pleasant experiences.

If you travel with friends, your parents must go with you. On the whole, you may not be at ease!

1 First of all, communicate with your parents more and don't lose your temper. It is better to calm down and talk about each other's ideas, and it is relatively easy to find out the root cause.

Consideration: First, as parents, will they worry about your safety when you go out? Secondly, I think if I go to play with my friends, will I sometimes have no time to look after the baby, or will I be careless? Thirdly, I think I can help with the baby, so that you and your friends can have enough time to have fun?

2, no matter what the reason, in fact, the most fundamental thing is that you don't trust the baby to go with you. I suggest that you can find an opportunity to take your parents to travel, plan your own itinerary, arrange everything, including booking hotels, air tickets, routes, and try to consider them in detail, as well as things you take with you when traveling, such as preparing your baby's luggage and daily necessities, and taking your parents and your baby with you to let them see your careful side, even more careful than them! This can also start from the aspect that parents often nag you at ordinary times, so that they have no reason to talk about you again. Even if I can say it again, it is my parents' habitual nagging, but as long as I improve myself slowly, they will always understand!

If your parents just want to accompany you to travel, take a few more weekends to accompany them. After all, everyone loves to play. They just want to enjoy spending more time with you. Then share with them some happy stories about you and your friends taking care of the baby together, so that they can understand your thoughts and feel more at ease!

My mother-in-law also likes to travel with us. Her idea is that she can take care of her grandchildren, but when the old man follows us, she doesn't like being with friends. At first, I told my mother-in-law the truth. She didn't follow me several times before, and then she followed me. I don't think this is the way, so I signed up a few groups for my mother-in-law. Up to now, my mother-in-law has stopped following us, because she has found her own friend and asked her to go out to play if something happened. You can also try!

I don't think it's convenient to honestly explain the reasons to my parents and go with my friends for such a problem. Parents should understand.

Have the opportunity to travel alone with the elderly.

I see. Young people have their own leisure ways, and they have too little in common with the elderly, and sometimes they are even a little embarrassed. You can tell your parents frankly that they are old and traveling together is afraid that they can't take care of them and affect their play.